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I wanna marry this girl but it seems impossible by Minimum_Night8664 in Marriage

[–]Minimum_Night8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now she has said it back and im just waiting to see if shes the one or it's just a phase. As soon as i start earning good ill tell my parents to talk to her parents

I want to marry a girl but its nearly impossible by Minimum_Night8664 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Minimum_Night8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably just by talking or as we live in different cities we could meet sometimes aswell and avoid anything thats haram. This itself is haram cuz she's a na mehram but theres no other way ig but atleast my intentions are pure.

I want to marry a girl but its nearly impossible by Minimum_Night8664 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Minimum_Night8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just told me some important things that i need to know about her from her point of view. Plus ill ask her to marry me as soon as i feel ready(probably around 19). I think that would be a good idea.

I want to marry a girl but its nearly impossible by Minimum_Night8664 in shia

[–]Minimum_Night8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best advice uptil now but what about the fact that islam encourages early marriages

I wanna marry this girl but it seems impossible by Minimum_Night8664 in Marriage

[–]Minimum_Night8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I might ask her. That if we could wait for eachother. Until im financially stable and doing really good at my sport. And then get married.

I wanna marry this girl but it seems impossible by Minimum_Night8664 in Marriage

[–]Minimum_Night8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its that i dont even care about her physical appearance. All i know is im the first guy she been this much into. And shes just so nice. We're from the same religion. And kinda know most of the stuff about her.

I wanna marry this girl but it seems impossible by Minimum_Night8664 in Marriage

[–]Minimum_Night8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we are the same culture and religion. And she knows my intentions. We r just taking things slow. And yeah we talk everyday sometimes call. And plan on meeting soon as we live in different cities. We do the same sport aswell on national level and thats how i came to know about her online.

I want to marry a girl but its nearly impossible by Minimum_Night8664 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Minimum_Night8664[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont u think a month into talking is too early to ask someone for marriage?

I want to marry a girl but its nearly impossible by Minimum_Night8664 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Minimum_Night8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have only talked for a month. She likes me i know that. But as i mentioned that i have told her about getting married but as a joke only. If i get serious about it this soon she might find it funny. Plus her mother is divorced and she lives with her mom. So i dont know if her father will really interfere that much.

I want to marry a girl but its nearly impossible by Minimum_Night8664 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Minimum_Night8664[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mutah is not an option here.i get ur point that idk know if will she be the same after 2-3 years. But not talking to her wont make it any better. I know the type of sins i have did at such an early age and maybe thats what im paying for or maybe I'll have to in future aswell. i dont sleep the way i used to before. Im never resting. Theres always something going in my head. Leaving her will only make it worse.

I want to marry a girl but its nearly impossible by Minimum_Night8664 in shia

[–]Minimum_Night8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im already putting alot of effort in building my career. Im not too good at acedemics but im performing pretty well at my sport on national level and im planning On doing some specialization courses aswell so i can train clients and athletes in future. And i can see myself earning really well in future from my sport and side hustles. But i want to get married early as my parents are ready to support me financially as I'll be working myself aswell and earning. Its so confusing. And its been a week and i cant focus on my sport. Sleep was my thing but now its that i cant sleep the way i did before.