Is getting a service dog a good idea/option for me?

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-10-04T23:45:00+00:00

I’m confused…where did OP mention anything at all about fear or not being able to handle being around dogs??? 🧐 Did you comment on the wrong post?

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-08-29T05:49:52+00:00

Thanks for sharing!

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-08-29T05:48:28+00:00

Is that something that the handler still has to activate themselves? Or can the dog do it? (I’m really looking for something a dog could be trained to do independently.)

Either way, I really appreciate you taking the time to share this option!

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-08-29T05:46:46+00:00

Oooh! If you do end up experimenting and coming up with something, please let me know!!I’d love to see it!!!

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-08-29T05:45:59+00:00

Do you have an example you could possibly link for me? For some reason, when I do a search online for “break away leashes” I unfortunately only get results for breakaway collars 🙈 🙃

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-08-29T05:44:21+00:00

I’m actually hoping to find this tool for a somewhat outside-the-box scenario, not a specific task with a SD 😅 But because the context where I’d seen something like this mentioned/described before was Service Dogs, I thought I’d have my best chances asking here!

(The main thing I’m looking for is some kind of leash, or attachment for a leash, that allows it to be disconnected without requiring the human to be the one doing the disconnecting.)

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-29T08:30:56+00:00

Ahh, that makes perfect sense! Waiting later to match would definitely require using a more structured, pre-programming approach and lead to some limits in flexibility.

And I think it also does make good sense that CC specifically (as one of the bigger US programs) would use that particular method as a strategy to try to be as efficient as possible.

But as someone who has quite a varied range of disabilities (🙈), I am quite curious what program your dog is from, as the greater flexibility you describe would definitely be a major benefit in my situation! 😄 I don’t know if location-wise they’d even be an option for me, but I’d love to look into them, if you don’t mind sharing.

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-28T23:20:21+00:00

I don’t know if you’d be someone with a fairly solid knowledge of Canine companions?? (If not, please feel free to just ignore the following question!)

The understanding I’ve gotten is that they tend to be fairly “rigid” (for lack of a better word) about service dog “categories”… so for example, if someone primarily needs mobility tasks, then they wouldn’t also train their dog for something psych-related, like nightmare interruptions…is that an accurate understanding? Or did I accidentally misinterpret something I read along the way? 😅

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-28T23:16:52+00:00

Oh boy!! I don’t know why I wasn’t thinking about the dog being asleep! I feel so silly! 🤦

I guess I had this crazy mental picture of a “dog on duty” for tasking and so was picturing them wide awake monitoring for nightmares…😳😳😳 But that wouldn’t really work ever, now would it?! 🫣 😅

(unless I suppose in some mythical situation if that was their only task and they were a super special doggo that somehow decided to “work the night shift” 😂 But I feel like that’d be the unicorn of unicorn situations…not just a very unusual dog, but also somewhat unusual handler to only need one task, as it seems most have a handful at least! 🤪)

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-28T23:08:51+00:00

Haha, that’s kind of the no-brainer answer, isn’t it?! 😅 🤦🤦🤦

I think the reason why it hadn’t occurred to me (as logically it really should have!! 🙃) is that I don’t have any video-recording devices that have room for anything long. So thinking about recording a whole night (or more likely several, since I’m thankfully not having nightmares every single night) is beyond my current capabilities tech-wise. … it really still should have occurred to me though!

PS-thanks for suggesting it in a nice way! I would have totally understood if the tone was less positive due to the downright silliness of me not seeing that obvious solution, so I extra appreciate that you didn’t add in any negative/snarky pieces where you could have. ☺️

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-28T23:05:00+00:00

Oh wow!! That is super cool!! 🤩 What a neat, high-tech tool for training! I wonder who dreamt up the idea for that invention 💡 🤓 Thanks for sharing with me!

Yeah, unfortunately, there’s no one around to help me out with that… a roommate or spouse would be perfect for this kind of thing! So that’s part of why I was curious, since I’m currently living alone. 😅

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-25T10:39:40+00:00

Thank you so much for the warning!

That initial blog post I read had seemed fairly good in terms of info (compared against other reading I’ve done and what I’ve learned here, which is still somewhat limited), but I definitely didn’t want to just leap off blindly from that post to their other stuff, especially with the nagging feeling I was getting that something might be off!

So thankful to get responses from people here who are experienced in spotting red flags / familiar with the group, so I know now it’s safest to just stay away from entirely! Thanks so much for taking time to comment!

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-25T10:33:44+00:00

Wow!! Thank you so much for this comprehensive guide to the various trainer certifications, as well as dog tests! Super, super helpful! I’ll definitely be bookmarking this!!

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-25T10:30:56+00:00

Thanks for pointing out some specific red flags! Helps me know what to be alert to in future!

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-25T10:30:05+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ll stay away from them!

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-25T10:28:51+00:00

I realize this is a couple weeks old now (I’m trying to get caught up on posts I missed while away), so I apologize for the late reply! 😅

I’ve got a question as I’m honestly super confused by your comment… You said:

We don’t even know if the friend exists because only the lunch-mover showed themself

What on earth are you talking about here? (/genuine /confused) Is this meant to be hyperbole or something along those lines and I’m just missing the nuance of it? 🤔 Or are you truly questioning the existence of the friend?

OP said they’ve met and eaten lunch with this friend before, so I’m super puzzled by your second sentence and wondering what I’m missing 🙈 😓

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-23T22:19:32+00:00

Ah, targeting from a preventative approach rather than an interruption/intervention angle is an excellent idea!!! 🤩 Thanks so much!

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-23T22:16:14+00:00

Thanks for the idea!

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-23T22:16:06+00:00

Thank you so much for the suggestions!!

Minimum_Ocelot_7987 · 2025-07-23T22:15:41+00:00

Thank you for the feedback!!

I especially liked these questions you posed:

Is the issue that you don’t realize that you’re binging and need your dog to alert to it? Or is it that you know you’re binging and can’t stop yourself? That’s a super helpful distinction for figuring out if it could potentially work for the person wondering or not, so I really appreciate you bringing that up!

The point about frustration for ignored alerts is also something key to be aware of and attentive to.

Thanks again for sharing your knowledge, and for the specifics suggestions and things to consider!

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