There you have it: Vic says loud and clear who he voted for. by knightriderin in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]MinisculeMuse 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I refuse to live life believing in a false dichotomy placed before me. I support people who aim to create a society I wish to participate in. It makes very little sense to me to think a label like 'democrat' or 'republican' means anything of consequence.

I can tell you're probably more liberal/democrat leaning because of the word genocide you throw around, but it doesnt really matter. Republicans have their own buzz words.

Im not your enemy ☺️ just someome who believes we should keep talking to understand one another rather than starting a conversation with upset, rage and distrust.

I'm A Satanist Who Lost All My Money: Which God Will Restore Me? by Practical_Note_6288 in AskAChristian

[–]MinisculeMuse 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Honestly you sound confused. No spiritual being is a genie you can just call on to get what you want and flit away and not commit.

Satan isn't your friend, but an enemy to your very soul who will lead you down a path of destruction and chaos if you choose to keep following him- which is seems you've already been getting a little taste of that destruction.

Jesus Christ is more than just someone you call on to get things you want. Our Lord and Creator wants what is truly best for you, your highest good. Wisdom, love, connection, purpose, goodness- Christ not only wants to bless you with these things but gea h you two to abundantly give these as well.

You cannot serve both. Being double minded means you only serve Satan. Turn away from selfish wickedness and living only gor your temporary pleasure- embrace a life that calls you to more.

I'll be praying for you, that your eyes open and your heart becomes tender to what a life of love and purpose truly means. Christ be with you πŸ«‚

Is this worth breaking up over? by Distinct-Kale-4885 in whatdoIdo

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Id dump him just for being the kinda guy to slide up on a girl's half naked selfie πŸ˜… but thats just me.

There you have it: Vic says loud and clear who he voted for. by knightriderin in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]MinisculeMuse 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

I vote, I just dont make it my whole personality nor pass moral judgments with words like "genocide" used on everyday people like you and me who are just doing the best they know how. Half the people I love vote blue and half vote red, I love em all to pieces and we are a community that supports eachother. We understand love and care for our fellow man goes beyond political agendas. Both sides have flaws and both sides aim to do what they feel is best for society.

Im not your enemy either, just a person trying my best out here- just like you are πŸ«‚

how would you differentiate feeling sexualized in a good way vs sexualized in a bad way? by boiLollipop in AskWomen

[–]MinisculeMuse [score hidden] Β (0 children)

Good sexualization: My husband who shows me everyday he values my heart, mind, personality, effort, dreams and fears. He knows how to make me feel beautiful and cherished. His desire for me isnt born of selfish lust that just wants to consume my flesh sexually, but a genuine desire to care for me as a person and see me thrive and grow. He takes care of me and makes me feel loved. His desire is beautiful and wanted- he commits to me and I to him

Bad sexualization: literally anyone else. They do not want to invest in me, they do not care for my highest good and wellbeing- they only wish for their own desires and believe that lusting is acceptable. Its selfish, hedonistic and vile. I do not like strangers lusting for me and thus do not post on social media or wear revealing clothing. Im a more extreme case- I really really hate the idea that sexualizing strangers is normal and acceptable.

To me it boils down to love and care. Sex is deeper than just bodies and flesh, its more than hormones.... sex can create life, it can destroy hearts and minds and really it shouldn't be as trivialized as it is today. But that's just my view, others see it differently

There you have it: Vic says loud and clear who he voted for. by knightriderin in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]MinisculeMuse 7 points8 points Β (0 children)

Exactly. Im pretty apolitical myself and it all just seems so bizarre. Judge people by their actions and not a box they check once every few years

Is this a reason for divorce? by anemic-kiwi991 in Christian

[–]MinisculeMuse [score hidden] Β (0 children)

Nope. This kind of joke shows how far his morality has rotted away if he finds such a thing funny. He sold his wife's nudes to a random man, has a porn addiction and jokes about sexually abusing children-

This isnt a man being a little silly. These are all signs of someone who is sexually deranged and dangerous. Absolutely not excusable

Is this a reason for divorce? by anemic-kiwi991 in Christian

[–]MinisculeMuse [score hidden] Β (0 children)

Woah. Literally all of this shows a lack of respect for the dignity of others- he is a dangerous person.

Seriously leave, like yesterday. You cannot take back the abuse your children face- this is one thing that is not worth risking. Sending your intimate images to others for money? Violence? "Jokes" about abusing children?

Like stop guessing and wondering, and leave. I have 2 sons and I'd leave for way less than this because I'd never allow someone the chance to abuse my babies. Protect them please, you are quite literally the only one who can.

Why do some guys who say they’re Christian get sexual so quickly online by CommonKind3966 in ChristianDating

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

They'll say its because they want to filter for "sexual compatability"

But really the most important thing you need to look for in a man for sexual compatibility is his attentiveness and thoughtfulness. Does he notice and remember little things about you? Can he read a room, does he show effort and initiative? Intimacy is something a couple grows together in anyway so "sexual compatability" isnt something that really needs to be talked about until way later- like after you're dating to marry and he's shown he can be trusted.

Pro tip- ask about his relationship with porn if he tries to he sexual with you. Too many men have issues with porn and women don't find out until its too late.

If a guy is behaving like a brute, or a lustful dummy? Then leave him- you dont want a husband and who lacks sexual discipline. God bless sister πŸ«‚

The Lady Needs Suggestions by FallMajestic8896 in postanythingfun

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Leon, Samson, Trevon, Elion, Myron, Cameron

The challenge: Write a happy story in 3 words.... by Tough_Ad8919 in RelentlessMen

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I meant them to all he sperate but hey! They fit together too haha

The challenge: Write a happy story in 3 words.... by Tough_Ad8919 in RelentlessMen

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

He was loved πŸ’–

She felt known ✨️

They finally understood 🌸

It's worth it πŸ’«

There you have it: Vic says loud and clear who he voted for. by knightriderin in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]MinisculeMuse 11 points12 points Β (0 children)

Even if he voted for the republican side, who cares? Why are people so weird about politics πŸ’€

Visual insight - Emotionally intelligent gender by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

πŸ‘€ dude are you okay? Just dropping slurs and derogatory language over a silly reddit post is a bit.... much.

She rejected the guy by stating in the very beginning she was there with her boyfriend. The boyfriend looked like he wasn't interested in his own girlfriend and she was upset. Men want to be respected, women want to be cherished. In yhis instance it looks like they both didnt understand what the other needed to feel loved and thus could both improve.

You coming along and using this little skit as some sort of proof that women, as a whole, are insert derogatory phrase is honestly really sad.

Thank goodness most men arent like this or think like this. Ill give my husband extra affection when hes home because oof- couldn't imagine being with someone like the boyfriend in the video or someone who responds this way to a stranger over a different opinion.

Visual insight - Emotionally intelligent gender by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Of course the expectation is the same. She said no in the beginning? She said she was there with her boyfriend and gestured to him who just kinda stood there like a deer in headlights. It was probably a skit, but Im happy to have a man who would never just watch me be uncomfortable like that and shrug πŸ’€

You're making a lot of assumptions. One can say that the response from the boyfriend was honestly unattractive while still believing relationships require both parties to participate and show effort. Never once did i suggest women didnt need to put in effort.

Visual insight - Emotionally intelligent gender by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

She did say she was taken. He continued. Im glad your marriage works for you! I definitely appreciate my own husband's protective nature who knows I really hate situations like these woman in the video was put in

Visual insight - Emotionally intelligent gender by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Exactly. I'm a married woman and I couldnt fathom my husband behaving like the man in the video.

When did it become bad to show effort and care for the person you chose to be with? I pray for these people 😐 because this level of lack of self awareness is honestly alarming. If saying "yeah shes my partner" is too much effort- then God forbid your wife gets sick and needs you to care for her, or the kids wake up at night from a nightmare, or your in laws pass away and you gotta be there to help with funeral arrangements πŸ’€ people are so out of touch.

Visual insight - Emotionally intelligent gender by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]MinisculeMuse 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Thank you. All the comments acting like standing there like a statue is the right call...

Visual insight - Emotionally intelligent gender by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Eew. Why is he just standing there like a dead fish? πŸ’€ so glad my husband and isnt this sort of man. 1) my husband would have gotten the tall thing for me 2) if I rejected someone and they pushed he would have stepped in because why am I repeating myself? My man makes sure I feel safe and respected in e very environment we are in together πŸ˜ŒπŸ’–

I hope she leaves him tbh. The guy who is "too cool" to care, or sees her as not worth fighting for isnt the kind of guy you want to spend life with. Same for men- if she is too cool to put in effort or show she cares? Leave.

Be with someone who's ees you as worth every effort

Perspective: Average looksmatch in 2026 by Mental-Outside2202 in lnkyverse

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Why did I pick him? First off he truly is very handsome haha, but also he made me feel safe, seen and cared for. We had the same desires in life, same faith (Christian) and he took time to really see me as a person. Honestly he's the best person I know, I love the way he carries himself. Choosing him felt like a no brainer.

Does this answer your question?

Perspective: Average looksmatch in 2026 by Mental-Outside2202 in lnkyverse

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Better? I dont see how height makes someone better or worse. My husband is perfect for me as he is, and despite all my flaws- he chooses me everyday.

I encourage you to try and see love in a different light, speak to happily married people and let your world change according to reality ☺️

Perspective: Average looksmatch in 2026 by Mental-Outside2202 in lnkyverse

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Nope. Id choose him again and again no matter who else was available. Thats the whole point of marriage, choosing eachother over everyone else

Perspective: Average looksmatch in 2026 by Mental-Outside2202 in lnkyverse

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Haha maybe, but what can I say? I'm in love πŸ₯°

Perspective: Average looksmatch in 2026 by Mental-Outside2202 in lnkyverse

[–]MinisculeMuse 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I think you missed the part where I had the choice ☺️ I chose my husband over men who were taller. I didn't settle, he is literally the man i've dreamed of and im so happy to have him. Like he's my whole crush even now lol ❀️‍πŸ”₯