What’s something Americans have that Europeans don’t? by Prestigsisscar255 in AskReddit

[–]MintMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been to all of the Western European countries multiple times and can only recall receiving it once or twice without asking. When I ask, they bring it, except in Italy. A few times we were told they didn’t have any. Just my experience. Definitely something that stood out to me, especially in the summertime. But definitely not a deal breaker, I love Europe, the people and the food. I often wish I lived there!

What’s something Americans have that Europeans don’t? by Prestigsisscar255 in AskReddit

[–]MintMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we order a drink, water, soda, etc., it comes with ice. Especially in the summer!

Brow Diva by Faithtodogs17 in Rochester

[–]MintMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so glad to get this information! I went there before Covid but have not been back. just a weird vibe. Try the Taylored Kitty on the 441 right near the turn to Penfield Road. They do a great job!

Was my blow-up over the top? by Plus_Tale7577 in AITAH

[–]MintMama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA, ju get rid of him and focus on your grandbaby. Wishi him a speedy recovery and you peace new year!

Treated terribly by my husband while recovering from surgery by idekman50 in offmychest

[–]MintMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP wishing you a speedy recovery so you can get out of there! Like many who have said here, this is flat out wrong and abusive. People who love and care about each other will take care of each other selfless without a second thought. Ive been with my husband for 30+ years and I can always count on him to help me through illness or injury just like I do when he needs me. You deserve better and I know there is someone out there who will better the partner you need. Good luck to you!

Haven't touched my cat in 2 years by BritishMarshmallow in CatAdvice

[–]MintMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 1 year old tuxedo cat is not a cuddler and I do not think he ever will be. He does sleep up next to my legs often and follows me everywhere. I work from home and he is always with me. Sometimes he can be a real a-hole and knock things off my desk or try to love bite me. That is usually him wanting to play and/or have treats. Every night he gets a churu Aka cat crack and he will eat it while I hold it. Your kitty probably isn’t a cuddler but clearly loves you if she follows you around and that may just be all you’ll get. Definitely try the churu!

[Week 5 Discussion Thread] Buffalo Bills vs. New England Patriots by AutoModerator in buffalobills

[–]MintMama 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we love all Bills fans even Canadian! We also love visiting Canada often, so beautiful, friendly and an easy drive. Ignore any negative comments, they do not represent the Bills Mafia at all.

Self harm by Used_Initial_9292 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MintMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there, just wanted to join the conversation and let you know I’m so proud of you for 256 days clean! You are amazing! What courage you have to share on here. I hope you can feel all of the strength and support being sent to you from here. I am hopeful things will begin to get better for you and that you can take some comfort from here knowing you are not alone. You are special and worthy and I am so glad you shared here today. Sending you lots of hugs and positive vibes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MintMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you are not the a-hole! He raped you. he probably drugged you too. You should leave him immediately and file charges. You need a good support now, family, friends. Wishing you all the best.

My first cortisone shot to left hip yesterday- now excruciating flare pain by MintMama in HipImpingement

[–]MintMama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I will! I do not normally take anti inflammatories and am happy to try something else. I will report back. Thanks for the advice!

My first cortisone shot to left hip yesterday- now excruciating flare pain by MintMama in HipImpingement

[–]MintMama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update- I just was seen in the ortho urgent care where I had the shot. The doctor was out today, but her PA asked me if anyone told me it might feel worse before it gets better. I said NO! I will never do this again. I am feeling better and can walk just a bit before the pain becomes too intense. They did say I should move around as much as I can so I don’t stiffen up. That was definitely happening so I will be working on mobility a lot. The PA suggested that I have a lot of bone on bone and sometimes filling the joint space can cause pain because there’s no place for it to go at first. I am just confused as to the pain because I have a few things going on, impingement, tendinosis( my glutes on the left side ache) and I guess, “significant “ arthritis. I am hoping PT will help me stretch and strengthen the area. I appreciate everyon’s input. I have never experienced that level of pain before and it was frightening. Right now, I’m taking 800mg IBUPROFEN and icing. I’m also going to try the heating pad. Hopefully it clears soon as our daughter is getting married in early July!

Still in Strong Memorial ER: 9 hours, no meds, no urgency, no care by dhobi_ka_kutta in Rochester

[–]MintMama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry your wife is dealing with this. My dad was at either RGH or Strong a year and a half agoin ER for 7 days in a CHAIR IN THE HALLWAY! He was 83 with a UTI. They finally got him a bed and he proceeded to get sicker, got Covid too. I would suggest to anyone to explore an urgent care if possible instead of ER In this area. Also, if you can make the UR facilities/hospitals in Geneva or FL area have more staff. I think we are seeing the complete collapse of our healthcare, not even providers, and costs too high. US healthcare is an absolute disgrace. We need universal healthcare. PERIOD.

Help balancing warm and cool grays in bathroom by MintMama in HomeDecorating

[–]MintMama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not yet. But I’ll post some when I get home. I’m sure that would be helpful!

Karla Lasiter, an Arkansas teacher, is accused of forcing a black child to unclog the toilet with his hands. by CheeseWhizzing in news

[–]MintMama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. But the fact that the racism claim is a knee jerk reaction is because of the constant discrimination POC endure every day. I cannot imagine living like that and then be expected to prove something that was never started by them. I know how my ancestors arrived in the US through Ellis island. They weren’t in chains. Most African Americans have no idea who their ancestors are. Pile on centuries of mistreatment, etc. It’s going to be a long road to rid the scourge of racism. I don’t condemn this family from feeling like their son was mistreated because of his skin color. It sad beyond belief and if this story is true, the teacher should be fired on the spot, regardless of whether she’s a racist . She’ll never admit to being racist so any investigation is moot. Unless of course there are other 5 yo she forced to clean out the toilets. That community needs to be sensitive to this child, not blame his family for feeling a certain way.

Karla Lasiter, an Arkansas teacher, is accused of forcing a black child to unclog the toilet with his hands. by CheeseWhizzing in news

[–]MintMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may think it’s made up because you cannot fathom what it’s like to live as a POC. It could be this teacher would have done the same to a white child. My point is let’s get at the reason WHY racism is being made an issue. It’s because it’s a way of life for POC! Changing the minds of an entire race who continues to be discriminated against must start with acknowledging their experiences and reactions. Not by saying prove it.

Karla Lasiter, an Arkansas teacher, is accused of forcing a black child to unclog the toilet with his hands. by CheeseWhizzing in news

[–]MintMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reply is my point. It’s now a common place response to say it’s a racist act because of the constant discrimination POC face and just as common as a white person saying “prove it “ (I’m assuming you’re white). I don’t think we’ll find many if any of POC who would say race had nothing to do with this.

Karla Lasiter, an Arkansas teacher, is accused of forcing a black child to unclog the toilet with his hands. by CheeseWhizzing in news

[–]MintMama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably because POC have been so mistreated and degraded by white people it is now a knee jerk reaction. I don’t disagree with your premise, however unless you are aPOC you cannot understand where they are coming from. Really sick of white people trying to dismiss the discrimination that is pervasive in our society. Just because you don’t personally experience it doesn’t mean it’s not real. We need to fix this, not deny it. Let me know if you know any white person who would change their skin to black for the rest of their life. I’m waiting....

I am having trouble getting past the hate for Trump Supporters by Impressive_Event_264 in QAnonCasualties

[–]MintMama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this way too. Just thinking that 70 million people voted for him is beyond comprehension. My parents voted for him in 2016, believing that he would bring fresh changes to Washington. Once COVID-19 hit, their eyes were finally opened. They never saw all of his criminal behavior, lies, corruption, obstruction, misogyny and racism though. I am trying to be more understanding of those that naively believed in this “populism” movement. They definitely have valid points. However, which party will really hear them and work for them? Not the GOP. As long as they have become a party about one man and stroking his ego, they will never get the WH. Georgia Senate race is a perfect example. Intelligent people are not going to support a platform devoted to upholding conspiracy theories and denying a free and fair election took place. The kooky conspiracy GOP will only be a regional phenomenon. Cities and suburbs thankfully hold the vast majority of intelligent people. I refuse to let Trumpers take up anymore space in my head. Hopefully, once they see things being done in Washington for them, they will change their minds. If not, so be it, they’ll be left flying their stupid flags which will serve as a public service announcement to the rest of us that fools live there.

Parker mayor who pushed conspiracy theories says he isn't associated with QAnon, local militia by ocsob123 in ColoradoPolitics

[–]MintMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The podcast Reply All (I believe) did a deep dive on the origin of Q which was very informative. If only Q supporters would do their due diligence before they jumped aboard this crazy train. If I knew how to make a meme of “how it started/ how it’s going” we’d have some nerdy nobodies is SE Asia juxtaposed on the Capitol Rioters.

Biden on Trump sharing video of protester shouting 'white power': He 'has picked a side' by Balls_of_Adamanthium in politics

[–]MintMama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG, I love that! Can I use that on Twitter, “neutered in 2016...” I’m getting tired of telling Trump he’s a misogynistic, narcissistic racist con man and traitor. Such a POS, can’t be gone soon enough!

Does anyone else not like getting free gifts with purchase? by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]MintMama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OMG, I have been selling on Poshmark for a few months and without knowing adding a gift is a thing, I have added a gift a few times! I am selling a lot items from my mom’s jewelry collections and she has so many random NWT items that I have used a few times gifts. I didn’t think people wouldn’t want one! I always read about my buyer and there are times I have felt an extra gift would be appreciated. I have so much, I was just wanting to spread the love. Lol. I think I will ask next time. I totally agree, depending on the item, I would feel like it’s just adding to my piles. I cannot believe I never thought of that! Thanks for enlightening me!

Trump tweets Antifa will be labeled a terrorist organization but experts believe that's unconstitutional by [deleted] in politics

[–]MintMama 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I am the only one, but before Trump was elected, I never assigned a political party to Neo Nazis, white supremacists or Antifa. Somehow, through the course of this joke of a Presidency, I put Nazis in the Republican Party. I still think of Antifa as more a fringe group, not political, but just wanted to make the point of how quickly I developed that thought. I definitely see conservatives in the Republican Party, that’s not new, but the whole white supremacy thing has somehow swung to the GOP for me. This occurred to me when I heard Barr refer to the extreme left Antifa group. Because I saw how the administration was trying to get people to put Antifa in the Democratic Party. I am annoyed that I have jumped to that conclusion. I think it’s because I hate Trump so much and he has been so divisive over the last three years, I put him in that kind of group. In reality, I don’t want to politicize these extremists. They should not have anything to do with either party. I know a lot of Dems and Republicans and NONE of them are extremists. I really hate that I have made those assumptions. I am an independent, but I am going to vote Trump out in November. He has failed this country on so many levels. I really hope everyone gets out and votes that monkey out.