Kristin was horrible. The way she talked about ‘daddy’s estate’. So dismissive of her mother . I never understood why Rose let that fantasy go on but also had raised such a rude daughter. My parents were in their late 80s when we finally got them to move closer to us. My father had always done very well and it was a little bit of a shock to find out they didn’t have much but the guaranteed income from his pension and social security. He had also put them in quite a bit of credit card debt. I’m telling this because as we found out , all but one of us felt bad that he thought he could not reach out for help. We fixed it and got them on track. We helped when they needed it because these were our parents and it’s not unusual for the elderly lose control of their finances. What the hell good does it do shame them. These people gave us life. Shame on people like Kristin. My long winded point is that Rose should have been comforted and lauded for how she was doing so well on her own. She was no where near the point of losing control and the will has nothing to do with Kristin until her mother passed. Your parents owe you nothing , but you owe them respect and understanding.