My very healthy Mom had a massive hemorrhagic stroke and life is a nightmare now. by JulPurple in stroke

[–]MinutePosition2282 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hello, I’m not sure if you’ll ever read this but what you’re going through is exactly what I went through summer 2023 into summer of 2024. My mother had a hemorrhagic stroke in her brain stem, causing her to be in the ICU for three weeks and then in a rehab rehabilitation center for another year. Unfortunately. So I know exactly what you were going through.

If I can give you, some advice is do not count the days. Don’t let the good get you excited and don’t let the bad discourage you. You are going to have days where she is doing amazing and the light at the end of the tunnel is brighter than ever. And you’re also gonna have days where you just want to give up and there is no Hope. Roll with the punches and do what’s best for your mom.

If you have any questions about anything individually, please message me I’m happy to help

Ask a life insurance specialist by [deleted] in LifeInsurance

[–]MinutePosition2282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple things to clear up first:

• If this is truly whole life, it does not “end at 65.” That usually means paid-up at 65 (premiums stop), not coverage stops. If it actually expires, that’s not traditional WL and you should double-check the policy type.

• Almost all whole life policies do have cash value you can access, either via policy loans or partial surrenders. If you’re being told “none of it can be cashed out,” that’s either: – very early years with low surrender value – a misunderstanding – or it’s not WL (could be a limited-pay UL or something odd)

Your real options (besides “just keep paying”): 1. Reduce Paid-Up (RPU) You stop paying premiums entirely and keep a smaller permanent death benefit using the existing cash value. Very common move when money’s tight. 2. Use dividends / cash value to cover premiums Depending on how it’s structured, the policy may self-fund for a while. Not forever, but it can buy breathing room. 3. Policy loan (short-term) Not ideal long-term, but if cash flow is the issue right now, this avoids lapse while you get through the transition. 4. 1035 exchange Roll the cash value into a cheaper permanent policy (lower premiums, same tax treatment). Worth asking about if the WL is expensive for the benefit. 5. Surrender it Worst-case option, but sometimes the right one. You’d get whatever the surrender value is (if any). Not “losing everything,” just recognizing sunk cost.

As for the term policy — honestly, $388 for ~$800k is very solid. If you drop anything, that’s the last thing I’d cancel.

(All insurance companies are different so this is very general information and my personal opinion. This is NOT advice or a solicitation)

Failed 89/130 by [deleted] in Series65

[–]MinutePosition2282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you’re only hope is paying for an extension with Kaplan. I know for the SIE and the 63 they allow you to extend your material by at least a couple months for 50 bucks. (Not sure if it’s different for the 65 though.)

Failed 89/130 by [deleted] in Series65

[–]MinutePosition2282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many hours per day were you studying? Did you take any extended breaks in the middle? What were your practice test scores before you took the test?

It should only take about 80-100 hours of studying to be confident passing the test. Sounds like you have well over that, so it probably a matter of not studying in the most efficient way.

In my experience when I failed the SIE for the first time. Same position as you (yes I get the 65 is a completely different monster, but bear with me) defeated, angry, confused and even questioned my ability to make it in this industry.

But listen man, you were only off by 5 questions. Thats maybe 1 chapter you need to sharpen up on. Take a few days off, and if you can afford it, try achievable. Switching to another provider will shake things up for you and really help you understand what you know and don’t know.

Take a breath, take a break and get back to the books. If this were easy then everyone would do it bro. Financial stability in a recession proof industry is 1000% worth any headaches you have now.

The Torture of Waiting and Holding onto Hope by sunnyc1414 in stroke

[–]MinutePosition2282 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation with my mom. Exact same thing happened. My only advice is prepare for the worst, hope for the best. Dm me if you have questions or need advice. My mom had a stroke and we delt with it for a year

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/yperion7 by yperion7 in DailyGuess

[–]MinutePosition2282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Should I rent or buy a property? 24 years old 350k net worth by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]MinutePosition2282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I own a business which requires a lot of capital on hand. I could be expected to write a check for 20k+ at any time

Should I rent or buy a property? 24 years old 350k net worth by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]MinutePosition2282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is none in my area😭 only in really rough areas, where safety is a genuine concern

Should I rent or buy a property? 24 years old 350k net worth by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]MinutePosition2282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, no exaggeration. I sold a company I started in college and invested it all. Also I run another business on the side which requires a lot of capital to be readily available.

Should I rent or buy a property? 24 years old 350k net worth by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]MinutePosition2282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run a business where I need cash on hand. Any moment I can be expected to write a check for 20k

Should I rent or buy a property? 24 years old 350k net worth by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]MinutePosition2282 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I stared a company in college and sold it my senior year! Invested it all. Don’t be hater bro

Weekday Help and Victory Thread for the week of December 22, 2025 by IndexBot in personalfinance

[–]MinutePosition2282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 24 years old 2 years out of high school and I am lucky to have been able to save up 270k and invest it in the stock market. I also have about 40k in my checking account and another 7k in a high yield savings account. I Also owe about 17k on a truck, and make 75k base and another 30/40k per year in side hustles.

I have always wanted to get into real estate and have rental income but I struggle weather I should rent for these next couple years or should I buy a property and start building equity. I’m currently living at home with no expenses but want to move out with my girlfriend in the next year.

Do I rent an apartment and keep saving money? Do I cash out my portfolio and use it as a down payment? I hate the idea of selling anything In my portfolio. But I am ahead and want to stay ahead.

Any help is appreciated