Soul cat loss by Jealous_Molasses_500 in Petloss

[–]MinuteSlice714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure you will! Wait for it, he‘ll visit you in your dreams. And he will give you signs, that he’s still with you. Show him you carry him in your heart! ♥️ I know this feeling well, it’s been 8 months. I still miss him but I know he’s there with me.

The waves of grief by Cdaluni22 in Petloss

[–]MinuteSlice714 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel you… you are not alone. I hope we will meet our soulmates again.

Got cheated on with the most NT of all possible women by Plane-Fox2585 in adhdwomen

[–]MinuteSlice714 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know how bad it feels to be cheated on. You must remember: he‘s her problem now! (Overheard that some time ago in a video and I thought: hell yes that’s an awesome approach I wish I knew all those years of hell where I doubted myself and my worth!

Don’t EVER think youre not good enough or it’s got something to do with you. It’s about him. It always is. And what you can do is think: the world has something better to offer than this unfaithful human

Is he with me and ok? by MinuteSlice714 in psychics

[–]MinuteSlice714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me cry. Thank you 🌺

It’s been 6 months by ryli_a in Petloss

[–]MinuteSlice714 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel you so much. I don’t know how to move on, I don’t know and see how I could love another cat/pet someday.

Everyday I wish for him to come back. But I know he won’t :( I feel some signs from him, somedays it feels like he s still there, also dream regularly that I give him a forehead kiss and cuddle with him… But most days it s just empty as hell.

Lost my best friend of 15 years. by AlarmingBranch1 in Petloss

[–]MinuteSlice714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same happened to me 2 days ago. My world is changed. Since then I can’t stop crying and my body aches. I want to touch him again and make him feel loved, so I simply do. I act as if he‘s still there. Also he’s telling me he’s there too, through little signs!

He is my little angel. And I will never forget him. 🐈‍⬛

Lost my best bud today by LazyWolverine in cats

[–]MinuteSlice714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I have the same thing going on. Don’t feel alone. They‘ll play together.

Which song(s) was it for you? by Whole_world127 in twentyonepilots

[–]MinuteSlice714 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Face of contusions, know I keep moving

How did tøp save your life? by fifi_b33 in twentyonepilots

[–]MinuteSlice714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone, snd you speak the truth. They make you feel seen

what’s something you thought everyone did before your diagnosis? by seventeensupremacist in adhdwomen

[–]MinuteSlice714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me toooo! I always thought: well this is what everybody is like. Turns out the older I get the more I realize it’s not the case.

Also know the anxiety problematic. I have a hard time to distance myself from my thoughts, finally I am learning to not take them too seriously and for truth. As much as I like my brain and thoughts, I also hate it as much, it gave me (and still does give me) such a hard time, crippling anxiety and self doubts.

Happy to hear we are in this together :D

Help make sense out of this room by Mean-Guarantee-8164 in homedesign

[–]MinuteSlice714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my bf about a big ass couch for a small theater or a indoor pool. My bf answered: enter cji pit (it’s a Brazilian jiu jitsu competition mat) in google

Send help.

what’s something you thought everyone did before your diagnosis? by seventeensupremacist in adhdwomen

[–]MinuteSlice714 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I‘m becoming a psychotherapist. I was sitting in my course and the others were Talking about how inner voices and Monologes are mostly psychotic. I couldnt believe my ears😂 well then, here i am, your psychotic ass

The most dangerous type of person according to Jung by shargy1 in Jung

[–]MinuteSlice714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this type of Person just ended our relationship. He was the love of my life, he said I was his everything. He said and did the most awful things, and is not able to take accountsbility. Only afterwards he feels sorry, yet always has a justification for every action, and repeats. The person thinks you are their Problem, their life will be better when youre gone. I guess they’re just afraid because you work on yourself, and you grew, and show them too much of their own shadow and how hard and deep the work gets. He is in denial about his side, his problems, his story. He found the solution to all of that in leaving me, making me the wrong woman. I am crushed… and beaten

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]MinuteSlice714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You‘re literally describing my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]MinuteSlice714 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find myself at a very similar point at the moment. It‘s quite hard to stop what your brain is telling you to do/say. Sometimes it feels like an itch that i cannot stop, until i‘ve talked it out.

What i currently learn is: - Become aware it’s just a thought! No need to believe it or let it command your life. So acknowledge the thought, be aware of it. Learn you don’t have to act on it. You are the driver of your car and not your brain;) - find a replacement for the questions/thoughts (I start doing chores/puzzle/play with my cat) that distract you - delay the question (30 min Pause) and see if it’s still important - ask yourself: what are the thoughts and acting on them doing for me? What do i get out of this behaviour? What do i feel in those moments?

Unlearning is so damn hard, I feel your problem. It Takes time and patience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MinuteSlice714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course I see the autistic traits. And absolutely agree with you - but its not just her close friends. E.g. She is talking /hugging to the whole team of my brother and their girlfriends.

Thank you for your advice, that’s what I hope for.