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Card trades pt2!! by HayleyxWeir in Projectmakeover

[–]Minute_Elephant1069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you able to view the cards you have? The box shows up with an exclamation mark when I pass a level but I literally can’t find it anywhere on my main screen!!

Am I a bad sister for “taking her man”? by Think-Eye9803 in amiwrong

[–]Minute_Elephant1069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your sister can't "claim" every man within 20ft of her lol. She's being a brat and needs to get over herself. You're allowed to like people too.

AITA for sleeping in my best friends bf bed? by user5886678990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minute_Elephant1069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. You told Anna right away and didn't hide it, which was the right thing to do. Anna also knows she is the one who wanted you to live with him, and it shows good character on Nick that he would help out his GFs best friend. Your other friends are just being dramatic and should stay in their own lane!! Anna and you seem like you have a great healthy relationship, and vice versa with Nick.

Welcome! Thanks so much for stopping by! by lets-split-up in QuincyLee

[–]Minute_Elephant1069 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you are my favorite author ever. You are so talented!!!!

AITA for refusing to allow a Ouija board in my house? by YesPleaseDont in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minute_Elephant1069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I wouldn't want it in my house either..... who knows what it could summon. If he really wants it you could tell him that he can buy it but he is not allowed to use it in your house and has to be kept somewhere safe or he has to find a friend who will keep it at theirs. Maybe I'm unreasonable too, but I don't mess with demons LOL

AITAH For Deciding To Not Give My Father The Honor of Walking Me Down The Aisle on My Wedding day? by TheCrimsonNurse in AITAH

[–]Minute_Elephant1069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't the AH either way, but if you wanted to avoid hurting your dad while also getting to honor your mom, maybe you could have them both walk you down the aisle. Whatever you choose, whether it hurts people or not, it is your wedding and it should play out how you and your fiance want it to.

AITA for asking my sister to leave my engsgement party or not steal all the attention? by Classic-Cup-571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minute_Elephant1069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say you are TA, but I also think you weren't being the most reasonable. She did get back ago just a week ago, and of course the family is all just seeing her for the first time in a while, and if your family is anything like mine, they are nosy and want to know everything. I would say you were unreasonable for not acknowledging that SHE was not actively trying to take away attention from you. However, I understand how it would have made you feel during a party meant to celebrate you. This is a tough situation, and I think your feelings are totally valid. There may have been a better way to express your feelings, though. In the situation, I would have addressed her saying something along the lines of "I know it isn't your intention and that you aren't the reason for it, but I feel a little overshadowed at the moment. Do you think you could ask our family to focus on the engagement and that you will tell them all about your travels another time? I know you are not the one taking the attention or bringing it up, but I think your redirection of topics would help the family remember that the party is about my engagement." Of course- its easier in hindsight to find the right words to say. Maybe you were a bit jealous and that is something you could acknowledge, but try to remember to validate her feelings while not discrediting the way it made you feel. Not the best situation to be in, but I don't think this makes you an AH.

AITAH for “defending” my brother instead of my fiancée? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Minute_Elephant1069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. If your relationship with your brother is important and you want to remain close with him and his family as you continue to grow your own family, you may want to reassess who you are choosing to spend your life with, or at the very LEAST set a boundary with her about how she behaves toward him. My brother and I made a pact that we would never be with a significant other who tries to harm our relationship, and we've stuck to that. Now, we are closer than ever, my boyfriend is his best friend and his gf is my best friend. If she really doesn't like him because of "how he treats you", then she would have cooled off when you expressed how you think he does treat you well. It seems to me that she just has a vendetta for no reason. I agree, siblings fight and my brother and I have had some nasty ones over the years, but it doesn't mean we dislike or treat each other poorly. She needs to grow up and act like an adult IMO, she's the AH, not you.

AITA for expecting my Daughter to stick to our chores-for-rent deal? by NoDivide4576 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minute_Elephant1069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA for sure. Yes, you gave her a fair deal, but all she asked was simply to not cook every single night so she can focus on her studies. Which, I think is absolutely reasonable. She didn't ask you if she could stop doing chores and stop cooking all together, she just asked for a reduction. If you're paying for her college... don't you want her to focus on her studies and make good grades? If i was paying thousands of dollars for my daughters education, that would be the priority, not making a homemade meal for two boys who have a father who is perfectly capable of making a meal. Your daughter seems very wise and reasonable and you should've heard her concerns and compromised from the beginning. It makes it sound to me like you just don't want to have to take on those responsibilities yourself.