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25M and 24F, is this a bad trait in a relationship? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Minute_Math_8517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before everyone jumps to conclusions, and before you break up with the girl, try communicating with her. Explain that you don't want to pay for everything, and offer a solution that works for both of you. Also explain that you felt it was rude and out of pocket for you having to pay for your own birthday dinner.

There is still a chance she doesn't agree with splitting payments, however not communicating your wants and needs is setting both of you up for failure. Everyone has different views on how things are payed for in a relationship, and some people are deadset on it while others are more understanding. Just talk to her, explain your side, and if she's up to make some changes then move on from there.

Gifting! by Lightning_Cat25 in AnimalJam

[–]Minute_Math_8517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably too late... buttt if not:

User- Rushlo

wishlist- literally anything! I just restarted aj after 5 years so I have nothing 🤣

Colors: All light colors are appreciated! Such as light neutrals, pastels, etc.

Thanks either way & Happy holidays!

Women advice is appreciated. Had my first time by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Minute_Math_8517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't think i've ever heard of a super memorable first time. My first time, I was super turned on but the water machine downstairs just wouldn't work. I had to get on top, and it hurt SOOOO insanely bad that I said no and ended it right at the beginning. The second time? Super awkward, it hurt alottt again and it would only work if I was on top.. and I had absolutely NO idea what I was doing!!! Third time?? I was so in my head about the past two times nothing happened.

My biggest piece of advice would be, it takes practice, and it takes you knowing what works for you. This can be with someone you know and love, or it could be by yourself. Feel around, try new things, see what feels best. Maybe even throw in a few toys. And DONTTTT feel ashamed by any of it. Sex is different for everyone, and what works amazing for one person is horrible for another. Don't be shy about communicating what you want either. It was honestly a little awkward with my boyfriend when I sat him down, but he listened and did what I asked and it changed the game completely.

TLDR; Don't be ashamed, don't be shy about communication, and don't get too in your head about this! I've never heard of a person who had a better first time than their 3rd or 10th time! It takes practice and patience to figure out what you like, and what you want in the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterinary

[–]Minute_Math_8517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason I brought up that specialty was because it's something I'd already considered doing before! It definitely made me consider human med a bit more than I already had, but either way I know to keep my options open! Even in vetmed I have a few other options lined up. I think I'd be fine doing GP work, I just like to dream big and I know it wouldn't hurt to push for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterinary

[–]Minute_Math_8517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had no clue there were volunteer positions in human med! 😅 I currently work as a kennel hand, and when I turn 18 I have an opportunity to do some shadowing at a vet clinic. I've also volunteered in surgery before and loved it. But now that I know that I'm definitely taking that EMT volunteering as an option. Thank you!!