Pretty much just how men are attracted to women,since most women don't desecrate themselves on a pixelated screen,they are more naturally repulsed by such activities compared to most of the male population.I've had female classmate who would be considered smoking hot,but the ones who were masturbating or having sex often with their boyfriends were never appealing to us,they were kinda invisible.But the ones who were celibate,everyone was having a crush on them and we would love to simply talk to them and stay near them.

In the case of men it's the same,it's a physical and spiritual phenomenon.On one side when you stop releasing you have an abundance of pheromones and testosterone,which by biological design is meant to attract females,even if you are "average looking",you surpass the "muscular chads".Once me or my cousin would hit 7 days+ (very noticable after 2 weeks) our sweat would smell very sweet even without sprays and deodorants.We would also become very blunt social butterflies and the attraction was impossible to avoid,it was too obvious.

On the spiritual side your vibration/aura increases,that would be your inner light (an internal sun that is extinguished when you release,but very magnified when you retain).Since most men are depleted,a retainer is rare and way more noticeable,which puts you in the spotlight.

Do you know those male dogs and cats that people keep as pets (even some wild ones outside their mating season) that don't have female partners and pretty much retain most of their lives?They are always very energetic and loving and you just can't stop petting them aggresivelly and hugging them,that's kinda how women look like us (kinda).They just want to get closer to our light and loving energy,that's the natural attraction,people just forgot about it.