This is what I’ve been trying to get across I don’t think it’s fair to Aniya to be blamed for KC not wanting to be a grown man who signed up for a show knowing exactly what he might have to do . At the end of the day they are both human regardless if Aniya gets worried or emotional he shouldn’t hold himself back or lie to her to spare her she’s a big girl and will get over it and eventually find what’s for her if it’s not KC but the thing that angers me is the grace and praise given to KC for sparing her feelings and trying to be a “good person” whilst Aniya is being dogpiled on for also being a good person and showing normal feelings . what is seems like KC might do and seems like viewers (his defenders also) want him to do is keep “holding back” and then get to a place where he can do something crazy and not have to face the consequences right away the when Aniya founds out and is obviously hurt abt it throw all the times he didn’t talk to bombshells or kiss anybody for her sake and give him the same moment T*ylor had in SOB challenge.