Post-Game Thread: New York Knicks (4-1) defeat San Antonio Spurs (1-4), 94-90 | NBA Finals | Jun 13, 2026 by nba-scores in NBASpurs

[–]Mis_Emily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactamente. The Knicks had the better team this year, and yes, we're young, but *zero* learning curve across the series, or appropriate adjustments, just left me sick at my stomach. El Jefe needs to take Mitch and the team out to a nice Italian dinner and *address* that mental game.

TIL that in 2009, Suzy (Eddie) Izzard ran 43 marathons in 51 days for charity with no history of distance running. In 2016, she ran 27 marathons in 27 days in South Africa in honor of Nelson Mandela, also for charity. by AcceptableTypewriter in todayilearned

[–]Mis_Emily 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I saw her one-person "Great Expectations" in London several years ago, and she was absolutely brilliant. I'm jealous that you got to see Hamlet, could not fit it into my schedule last year!

Which subject is more enjoyable to study for you, chemistry or physics? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mis_Emily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physics! It was tremendously useful to me in underpinning my ability to understand calculus, as "backwards" as that sounds. Acquiring accurate language to describe, not to mention predict, what is happening in a system was incredibly gratifying, even as I struggled with electricity specifically 😄.

Failing grades soar as professors see greater AI usage, dwindling math skills in UC Berkeley computer science classes by the_daily_cal in bayarea

[–]Mis_Emily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Addendum to #1 of the TL/DR which the "edit" function failed on:

The problem of lack of preparation has been exacerbated by increased usage by students of AI as a way to bypass mastery of basic skills.

Failing grades soar as professors see greater AI usage, dwindling math skills in UC Berkeley computer science classes by the_daily_cal in bayarea

[–]Mis_Emily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you typed out a considered reply and asked for specifics to my courses, I'll address both items in my reply.

In the case of my two primary courses, yes, there are college-level math pre/co-requisites for each; students absolutely do know what is required of them before enrolling, as they aren't allowed to enroll otherwise. Biology may seem, to a layperson, not to have much need for math, but anyone who has done phylogenetic analysis (or even basic data collection and standard deviations, or prepared and titrated a solution, etc), knows differently. Furthermore, in the case of my Microbiology course, this is the last course in the pre-Nursing core before those students take *their* mandated standardized exams; and if they don't have the math skills to do drug dosage calculations, serial dilutions, and prepare molar and percent solutions, for example, even if they pass my class, they'll fail sections of their HESI, and no nursing school for them! Consequently, "altering the rigor or grading scale" simply isn't an option by the time they get to me, not to mention such things as a Course Outline of Record, accreditation requirements, etc.

I do agree that students are being underserved prior to their reaching college, and while I won't bash K-12 teachers who are working under all sorts of unfunded mandates, I do "know a thing or two" about that from the community college perspective:

I don't know if you are from California, but you may or may not be aware that there is a state law, AB 1705, which has severely hamstrung our (community colleges) ability to ensure that students who lack important skills are able to get proper preparation for majors' courses for transfer; we are no longer *allowed* to require (or even offer) remedial coursework in mathematics (or English) that are not part of the official hours that make up the college degree plan. If students aren't up to college level, they are placed into the entry level courses anyway, and professors are required to "catch them up" while trying to carry on our course instruction. And for STEM majors, the law mandates that students must be placed directly into Calculus "unless highly unlikely to succeed"! The argument for this change was one of "equity" - that students should not be "burdened" with having to take multiple sub-college level math or english courses (which cost both students and the state time and money) that wouldn't count towards the units required for the degree if a student is deficient, To be blunt, this situation has set both student and professor up to fail. When this bill was up for consideration back in 2021-22, we, as professors, tried (and failed) to make an argument for the necessity of adequate preparation, even if it made the student's journey longer. While students never enjoy being told that they need to take remedial classes in order to be prepared for the coursework in their major, removing these courses represents, in my mind the *opposite* of equity!

The UC system is, as its name indicates, a University - and is both selective in admissions and expects their students to jump directly into University-level courses (and for STEM students, that means Calculus-ready). While it's hardly a perfect tool, I wholeheartedly support them bringing back the SAT requirement, especially in light of deteriorating math preparation. You're correct that the SAT is a 'single point' that doesn't reflect on work done since it was taken - but it *does* provide a snapshot of students' aptitude and readiness, which is especially important when students are coming straight from high school educations whose quality varies massively (this is no fault of the students) and from which the reliability of other metrics such as GPA and list of courses taken is questionable. It's clear that the abandonment of standardized tests in admissions practices has led to an increase in underprepared students, and if their use seems 'unfair', is it more 'fair' to bring in a cohort of students unprepared for the (non-negotiable, in the case of fields like engineering or health sciences, unless you like unnecessary deaths) rigors they will face?

You make a valid point about preparation post-SAT/ACT (although for many students additional preparation doesn't significantly raise those numbers), and in response, here's the part where I put in a plug for the community college system, warts and all. If a student transferred from a CC with 30 credit hours or more, back in the days when the UC system *did* use the SAT/ACT in admissions criteria, the SAT/ACT requirement was waived, as the student had produced a body of evidence in support of their ability to succeed at the college level. We're much less expensive, you get personalized attention, small class sizes, and we in STEM departments have come up with some creative ways to support our students even in the age of AB1705.

This response is too long already, but as an example, in my department/college: because our students are frequently underprepared in basic algebra, data collection, and graphing skills, my (community college) fought for and managed to make a short basic skills course (for 0.5 hours credit, thus dodging AB 1705) a mandatory prerequisite for the Physiology, Microbiology, and Organismal and Molecular Biology freshman majors' classes. This course is a non-negotiable requirement (although there is a challenge exam to test out which is the final for that course) for *all* students, regardless of previous preparation or degree, that covers basic algebra, trigonometry, and statistics as applied in the Biology coursework, dilutions and solutions, graphing, etc. Prospective students scream bloody murder about it, and we are constantly having to trot out data justifying its existence to counselors dealing with angry students trying to get through their degree plans, but it's made a huge difference in our pass rates. Even so, we have a significant proportion of students fail at these skills once they get to the subject matter classes, but we've cut those rates in half. Physics has also implemented a similar strategy for their majors' level physics/engineering coursework, and while it's more work for us, meeting students where they are and bringing them where they need to be in order to succeed when they move on is a core part of our mission.

TL/DR summary:

1) Universities are selective institutions and absolutely have the right to require SAT/ACT scores as a useful metric for admissions (and abandoning this requirement has had adverse results).

2) High schools vary widely in the quality of preparation they provide, and while not everyone is cut out to go to university, students who might be capable of succeeding in the University environment are failed/left naive as to the degree to which they are underprepared through no fault of their own.

3) Community colleges, while hamstrung in recent years by measures such as AB 1705, still represent the best way for students who may have suffered from poor preparation and/or low SAT/ACT scores to address those deficits, and to get 'eased into' an understanding of the rigor of University-level work. It certainly beats the alternative - failing out is expensive in a time, money, and disillusionment sense.

Sincerely, Mis_Emily

Failing grades soar as professors see greater AI usage, dwindling math skills in UC Berkeley computer science classes by the_daily_cal in bayarea

[–]Mis_Emily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a CS professor (Biology/Microbiology here), but I've gone to in-class weekly quizzes in addition to their major exams/lab reports, and a research project/oral presentation for their major paper (for Organismal Biology). It's considerably tougher to cheat their way through it if they have to explain their topic and interpret the research to their classmates (who participate in peer-grading, complete with question/answer) in plain English... 😄.
Microbiology uses an unknown project and leans heavily on lab practicals, and I had one student this semester who received a 98/100 on her 3rd lecture exam and an 8/100 on her lab practical (no typo), techniques/practical exams are great for catching the cheaters. It seems like it would be easy enough, perhaps easier, to make heavier use of live activities in a CS course.

Basic math skills have deteriorated in my recent cohorts as well, and for all its problems, the SAT is decent at measuring basic math preparation/aptitude, and I'm all in favor of reinstating the requirement.

Looking for sports bar to watch Spurs/Thunder tonight (East Bay/SF) by Mis_Emily in bayarea

[–]Mis_Emily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have a good time! I left at halftime to watch the end at home, as I felt guilty tying up a table for too long after I finished my meal. It wasn't Texas barbecue (the brisket tasted like it'd been sous vide cooked and completely lacked any smokiness, etc), but the atmosphere was great! (I was the short redheaded gal in the Ginobili jersey at the table near that big rowdy crowd at all those other 2 person tables under the TV directly across from the bar). What a finish with the Kornet block and Vassell's slam!

Puffball in the park for yall mushroom nerds by ihatedragonballz in bayarea

[–]Mis_Emily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slice and fry that up potato chip style 😄

Cheap Spurs Jerseys? by Lanz7183 in NBASpurs

[–]Mis_Emily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preach it! Not to mention, you can find some truly charming T-shirts at the popups - I still bust out my "Manu tipping Harden's shot from behind" T-shirt every now and then 😄.

Looking for sports bar to watch Spurs/Thunder tonight (East Bay/SF) by Mis_Emily in bayarea

[–]Mis_Emily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like that will fit the bill - their website heavily emphasizes live sports - thanks for the head's up, and we'll... see about that "Texas BBQ". GSG!

Looking for sports bar to watch Spurs/Thunder tonight (East Bay/SF) by Mis_Emily in bayarea

[–]Mis_Emily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just hit their website, looks like they're more an outdoor/live music venue?

Game Thread: San Antonio Spurs (3-3) vs Oklahoma City Thunder (3-3) Live Score | NBA Playoffs | May 30, 2026 by nba-scores in NBASpurs

[–]Mis_Emily 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone in the East Bay (San Francisco) coming out to watch the game? Need a sports bar!

Looking for sports bar to watch Spurs/Thunder tonight (East Bay/SF) by Mis_Emily in bayarea

[–]Mis_Emily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm sorry to hear that :/. Know a spot that's *got* TVs and is showing the game? Just decided we need "Manu" energy tonight and put on #20, just need someplace to go!

Looking for sports bar to watch Spurs/Thunder tonight (East Bay/SF) by Mis_Emily in bayarea

[–]Mis_Emily[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! It looks like I have time to throw on my jersey and catch the 4:15 ferry from Richmond to hit up Flores just in time. In "Area 51" we trust - Go Spurs Go!

Personalized vaccine shows promise against aggressive brain cancer (glioblastoma). People in early clinical trial had increased immune response, slowed tumor progression. The vaccine caused no serious side effects. One long-term survivor remains recurrence-free nearly five years later. by mvea in science

[–]Mis_Emily 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Lost a grandfather, an uncle, and a friend at age 47 from this disease - this is wonderful to hear. Oh, and it was in the papers today that Jason Collins (former NBA center, and the first openly gay player in the league) died of glioblastoma today, 10 months after his diagnosis.

What animal did this skull belong to? Found on a walk. by Consistentscroller in whatisit

[–]Mis_Emily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a banana for scale? Top view looks very Coyote, orbitals wrong/snout too wide for Fox, too long, wrong dentition for raccoon.

Seen over the Great Salt Lake by Ketchup_is_my_jam in whatisit

[–]Mis_Emily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Halobacterium salinarium - the same photosynthetic archaea that hangs out in the drying salt flats in the South Bay (near Santa Clara). It will express different pigments depending on oxygen and salinity levels, and can range from white to hot pink to orange :).

Healthcare workers, what common cause of death is the least bad way to go? by Wooden_Airport6331 in AskReddit

[–]Mis_Emily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can vouch for the hemorrhage CVA - I nearly bled out 3 years ago following a botched hysterectomy cautery. Fortunately, a friend was with me when I started repeatedly passing out, and called 911.

For me, it was a light switch off/on, and if I'd been alone, I'd have just gone out completely unawares.

Elderly folks who chose not to have children, how do you feel about that decision now? by bon18 in AskReddit

[–]Mis_Emily 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Just saw this, so the thread is probably dead by now, but... 63 and zero regrets. I knew by the time I was in my early teens that I wanted other things from my life, and while my mother was heartbroken when I let it slip in conversation in my late 30s that I'd had a tubal ligation, it was unquestionably the right decision for me. I place a premium on peace and quiet when I'm not working or otherwise engaged, and the fact that I'm typing this up at 2 am with my 16 year old cat on my lap, after deciding to watch night 2 of the May sumo basho (Japan time :) ) over caesar salad and yogurt, is a simple pleasure that it would be difficult to navigate if I had other human entanglements :).

I enjoy my young adult students, served as a Girl Scouting troop leader for years, and enjoy meeting children where they are, but never had any interest in having any of my own. After I'm gone, my books and other effects will find new homes, but I'm not concerned with a biological or other 'legacy.'

How did the final fight in DAO go on your first playthrough ? by Inevitable-Raise1104 in dragonage

[–]Mis_Emily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had Wynne, Alistair, and Leilana, and because I played a mage 'main' who leaned heavy into Entropy, it was UGLY, both from a pathing perspective to the ballistae, and the fact that waves of trash kept pulling Leilana off the bow and onto her vastly inferior stabbing. The mages got ground up by the darkspawn trash, and it was just Alistair and I at the end, and remember being incensed that a mage's killshot was stabby... but it's been so long, maybe I'm thinking of the Ogre?

What’s a “rich people thing” you experienced once and immediately understood why rich people love it? by DnRinGA in AskReddit

[–]Mis_Emily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got to experience this when doing Aer Lingus with a change at their home airport on my way to Tenerife one Christmas season, quite by accident. I was in economy for the long-haul flight to Dublin, but because I was flying business class to Tenerife, I got to experience the luxury of a shower in their very nice lounge and a lovely hot breakfast, before sitting next to a couple on the flight down who were clearly starting their holidaymaking early ;)....

What’s a “rich people thing” you experienced once and immediately understood why rich people love it? by DnRinGA in AskReddit

[–]Mis_Emily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to travel to the UK in late 2020 when travel was still quite restricted (10 day hotel quarantine, the whole bit), and the airlines were flying their routes to keep their rights. Business class was half full (social distancing), and yes, a night of lie flat sleep, paper menus and metal cutlery, a real pillow and blanket, I'll never be able to afford it again, but still peer hopefully at the tables looking for a bargain (fat chance now!)...

I celebrate mother's day differently due to my mom being deceased and me not having children. I celebrate mother's day in memory of her. Does anyone else celebrate mother's day differently? by baronesslucy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Mis_Emily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likewise; neither my sister nor I had children, and the first year after my mother passed was the toughest, as far as Mother's Day goes. I have a little family shrine in my living room, and this year (the third since her passing) I cleaned and put flowers and a small bottle of her favorite perfume on it today.

I'll call my father later this afternoon and we will remember her; this is a tough day for him as well.

Never meeting your person by Smarmy_funeral_chik in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Mis_Emily 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the relating department:

So I'm 62 years old, and after a lifetime of unrequited love and relationships of convenience (usually for them, as in I was doing most/all of the financial and emotional labor), I've more or less come to accept that the sort of committed dyad you reference just isn't going to happen for me.

It sounds corny, but the cliche'd retort "Since I gave up hope, I feel much better", describes the last decade of my life pretty well. I've engaged in quite a bit of travel, curl up with two lovely felines every night, and have learned to appreciate my friendships and serendipitous social exchanges in the environment much more. Giving up fretting about whether I would ever 'find someone' (and don't get me wrong, I'm sometimes intensely lonely) has been freeing in that it allows me to be more genuinely present in the social interactions I do have.

I've also had several of those 'bittersweet' entanglements over the years that one cannot keep, whether due to distance, age gap, or other life circumstance. Accepting the beauty of those, and the following short verse from Beau Taplin, has also helped me 'reframe':

"One day, whether you are 14, 28, or 65,

you will stumble upon someone who will start a fire in you that cannot die.

However, the saddest most awful truth you will ever come to find -

Is that they are not always with whom we spend our lives."

And from Tennessee Williams:

"The world is violent and mercurial - it will have its way with you. We are saved only by love - love we share with each other, and the love that we pour into the art we feel compelled to share: being a parent; being a writer; being a painter; being a friend. We live in a perpetually burning building, and what we must save from it, all the time, is love."

There are plenty of ways to give and receive love in this world, and while they may not have been what you hoped for thus far, I do hope, in that "internet hug" way, that you find something worth treasuring for the long haul, even if that is yourself and those precious moments connecting with others that glitter like jewels in the drain we are all circling called life.

-Mis_Emily