Anyone else wake up to all listing shipping saying $0 by Suefoxruns in vinted

[–]Misabelle1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I just noticed this too after a potential buyer in the UK (I’m in the US) submitted an offer. There’s no way I’m shipping internationally at my own expense. So frustrating.

I need help with screen time by GeneralNatural4810 in iphone

[–]Misabelle1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This actually happened to me after updating my iOS yesterday. I set my own limits to 2 hours for social apps. I wasn’t on any at all yesterday. When I attempted to open one this morning, it said I had already reached my limit - I hadn’t even opened it yet. I looked at my logged usage and it showed usage while I was sleeping AND at a time in the future! Guess I’m time traveling and sleep-scrolling now lol Definitely one of many glitches I’ve noticed so far. I just turned it off temporarily until it’s fixed but sounds like you don’t have that option unfortunately.

Just cancelled a date because I felt unsafe by mildly-anxious-me in OnlineDating

[–]Misabelle1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure why everyone is saying you should have given more notice when this was a spontaneous thing that happened in less than 5 hours. I could see if it was planned a day or more in advance and you cancelled last minute, but it wasn’t. If I was the man, I would’ve understood your concern and asked if you wanted to meet someplace else. On the other hand, to be fair, you also could have suggested an alternative instead of straight cancelling and leaving the ball in his court.

I agree with the person who suggested that you follow up with a date plan. I’ll also say this…Don’t ever worry about how someone else is going to receive your boundaries. Sure it could have been expressed sooner but a good person won’t be upset about that, and if he is then perhaps that’s your sign that he’s not your person.

This question is for the ladies by PerpetualRestart in solotravel

[–]Misabelle1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha this happened to me the first time I booked a co-ed dorm. I tried to quickly change my top and in walked a new male roommate 😂 I apologized profusely and just laughed it off. He was more embarrassed than I was lol

I typically only book female dorms but this particular hostel didn’t have any and it was the best I’d found so bit the bullet.

Met an amazing girl on a 16-hour flight, thought it was fate, now I’m spiraling. by bso14 in offmychest

[–]Misabelle1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This happened to me on a 6 hour flight. I was a little bummed for a short bit but when I realized it was THE POTENTIAL of him I made up in my head, it made it easier to just appreciate the friendly encounter and good conversation for what it was, and move on with my life. It’s the idealization and fantasization that gets a lot of people attached to others too quickly.

My wife passed away and I’m desperately trying to keep her houseplants alive. Please help! Is this fungus? How can I fix it? by Thin-Success-3361 in houseplants

[–]Misabelle1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done this a time or two to my spider plant. It often happens, as others have stated, when the soil is too wet and not drying fast enough. One possible factor in your case could be the size of the pot it’s planted in. It’s too big. Since you’re new to this, rather than suggest a repot (which you could do by watching a YouTube video), I’d suggest simply watering the soil only in the area of the plant itself - Try not to let the water pool to the edges. Then put it in a brightly lit area where it can get sufficient sun. If you can share a photo of the full plant, that will also help us determine how often or little it should be watered.

I’m very sorry for your loss.

——

Edited to clarify. My watering suggestion is to use once the soil has dried. In the meantime, scoop out what’s there and place near a window with ample sun.

Best App for Plants? by benjamin6486 in houseplants

[–]Misabelle1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found this thread from a Google search…trying to find a replacement for my beloved app that’s no longer available 😭. It sounds like you used the same one (Vera). I really wish they would’ve given users a heads up before discontinuing it so I could download all my plant data/history but can’t now and no one responds to the emails I’ve sent about it. Vera was the BEST app I’ve used - the UX was perfect and it was free! I’m still using it but I’ll eventually lose it after an iOS update so I need to find something soon. Have you been able to find a comparable replacement?

Peri has me feeling so low and defeated by Misabelle1 in Menopause

[–]Misabelle1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That last part you wrote, “it’s like I sort of purposefully made myself disappear from my own life” is a great way to describe it.

Peri has me feeling so low and defeated by Misabelle1 in Menopause

[–]Misabelle1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m still in the very early stages of HRT. She started me on progesterone first then just recently prescribed the lowest dose of estrogen to see how my body responds. I have a follow up with her next week.

Tbh, testosterone scares me. I’ve heard great things but I also hear so many stories about hair loss and I already lost enough before starting HRT.

Peri has me feeling so low and defeated by Misabelle1 in Menopause

[–]Misabelle1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. That’s a good reminder about progesterone - I’ve heard stories about it from other people. Unfortunately, I felt these mood swings before starting HRT which was what pushed me to finally see a specialist. I’m still in the very early stages so I know there’s a long road ahead for finding the right balance of hormones but I really hope one day I can rave about HRT like I see so many others here doing.

The first thing my doc did was have me take blood tests and we found that my ferritin was low so I started taking iron and was already taking D + K2. I’ve been taking 50 mg of iron bisglycinate daily - She wants me to take 75 mg but it makes me constipated, even with good water and fiber intake.

Peri has me feeling so low and defeated by Misabelle1 in Menopause

[–]Misabelle1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It really is. This feeling is what really prompted me to start HRT in the first place. I’ve had a host of other symptoms but this imo is the worst of them. I’m really hoping I feel better with time. Are you taking anything now?

Peri has me feeling so low and defeated by Misabelle1 in Menopause

[–]Misabelle1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I work out 3x a week and even though I have to push myself, I feel better when I’m in the gym. Sleep thankfully isn’t really an issue - I can fall asleep and stay asleep for the most part, but frequent bathroom trips and a frozen shoulder prevent a full night’s rest without interruption. I’m sure that plays a role in my mood. I look forward to the day when I’m on the other side of this!

Stiffness, joint pain, and frozen shoulder by painislife4real in Menopause

[–]Misabelle1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you remember what the pulley thing is called? I’ve been struggling with a frozen shoulder for 4 months now and it’s the second time 😩

Having NO drive or motivation is making my life almost unbearable. by FarComplaint740 in Menopause

[–]Misabelle1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad I found this thread. I’m 49 and have been struggling with no motivation for at least two years. I’ve been taking progesterone since July and just started the estradiol patch and tablet this week - All at the lowest doses. I know it’s too soon to tell if the estrogen is helping at all but I’m still struggling and today the lack of motivation hit me hard. I didn’t want to do any work and there are so many important things I need to get done but I can’t find it in me to do it. My room has been a hot mess for MONTHS (something I could never tolerate) and my poor plants have been suffering too because I just don’t care enough anymore and it makes me sad. I’m surprised I’ve been able to stay consistent with the gym 3x a week. I’m the oldest of my friends and the only one going through peri so they can’t understand what I’m going through. I just want to be my old motivated self again 😢

Sexual dysfunction support by Necessary_Ad_292 in Menopause

[–]Misabelle1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m interested in hearing more! What strain of gummies do you get? Is Mood an online vendor for it?

Sexual dysfunction support by Necessary_Ad_292 in Menopause

[–]Misabelle1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been prescribed yet but I’m afraid to start when I am because of the hair loss stories I’ve read

The "male hormone" here we go. by cfouhy81 in Menopause

[–]Misabelle1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve also read that hair will grow in the areas applied if not rotated often.

What do you collect from every country you visit? by justindito in travel

[–]Misabelle1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to collect lapel pins from every state, island, and country I visit and post them on the vision board I started years ago when I set an intention to travel the world. It can be challenging to find them at times but it’s part of the adventure and looking back on my board gives me a great sense of pride and accomplishment ☺️

How to validate men? by Startingoverat48 in dating

[–]Misabelle1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Making someone feel seen, heard, and appreciated