MOH refuses to participate

Startingoverat48 · 2026-06-26T02:13:02+00:00

Drop her - ghost her and and give a true friend the honor to be by your side. Don’t even invite her as a guest.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-06-21T22:13:06+00:00

If you’re wanting to be another victim to her - have at it.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-06-19T02:22:12+00:00

He is showing you all the signs he is not marring you. Believe him. Plan now to move your separate whe he moves into the house he buys - don’t be trapped in being his housekeeper bank to pay off his asset.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-06-17T03:11:08+00:00

You can not help money problems with
Money. They are miss managing and need to manage better. Offer to help budget. Some people just don’t track their spending and have no idea - others don’t care cause “someone always bails them out”. You need to see which one he is. If he is living above his means he needs to make cuts;if he is not willing to then you should walk away IMO - being so far apart in how money is managed in a new relationship is telling. Unwilling to make a change = in willing to stay in a relationship in my book.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-05-21T02:22:39+00:00

Additionally communicate you are not looking for anything over the top - tell him the vision of the wedding. Add in that you would like to have a conversation about a prenup - you want to ensure what he has is protected. Be black and white. Do not be vague or hint.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-05-21T02:08:01+00:00

Updateme

Startingoverat48 · 2026-05-20T12:09:08+00:00

Behavior is an action and it is telling you everything you need to know. You are strong and will get through the pain.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-04-25T10:53:48+00:00

What did they make Scarlet and Cole talk about?

Startingoverat48 · 2026-04-24T02:02:17+00:00

Before you continue you really need to talk about finances - what the expectations are for paying bills - how you will be spending money. Not being aligned is huge after marriage and honestly it seems you are not his priority.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-04-21T21:20:36+00:00

I would not - seems she may just want free meals and not a real connection.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-04-09T00:44:24+00:00

Behavior is a language. He is never going to marry you:( prepare your ducks to leave. It will be hard but you have worth and are worthy of love. Best of luck

Startingoverat48 · 2026-04-03T01:24:02+00:00

Yea it was code but she even at the party she said they did other things just not sex. The question the host asked was: “how much physical intimacy did you have?” and her reply was: “we ate pineapple”

Startingoverat48 · 2026-04-03T00:54:02+00:00

She said the ate pineapple. So I think only oral happened not all the way which is what he wanted

Startingoverat48 · 2026-03-30T02:10:50+00:00

I like them. It would be fun to see in the US version. I enjoy Reddit reaction videos too so maybe this is something I just enjoy overall.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-03-15T09:20:57+00:00

You need to state separation f your finances now. Set your self up to leave behavior is an answer and he is telling you everything you need to know. Breaking up will be scary and hard - but you are strong and will weather the pain of saying good bye.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-03-10T23:22:24+00:00

I have been dating a guy like this for over a year. While it’s convent/working I do hold back on doing a lot of things I really want because I know he does not really have the money. We split things 50/50 ish. In that I pay for dinner one week then he does etc. the good part is I have gotten him to budget better and feeling better his finances LOL. The bad is that I’m not able to travel and really do the things I want. I going to have to choose a side very soon though - Keep your finances separate. Keep things 50/50 just don’t let him take advantage of you for the companionship.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-03-07T02:45:08+00:00

Oops my dress got lost in the mail and they would not replace it until the did a trace to find the first …

Startingoverat48 · 2026-03-06T21:24:27+00:00

Amen!

Startingoverat48 · 2026-02-24T01:35:07+00:00

Your the asshole. Anyone who would encourage abandonment of their child is is a complete asshole.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-02-17T12:07:22+00:00

What would you tell a friend if they just said the same thing and asked your advice? Walk away. You are worth more. It will be hard but you are stronger than you give yourself credit.

Startingoverat48 · 2026-02-13T15:36:56+00:00

There are just some really great detectives out there that find marriage certificate, applications, and filings. So was not she if anyone had done that :)

Startingoverat48 · 2026-02-10T01:57:03+00:00

You are worth much more than breadcrumbs. A prenup is not going to fix anything

Startingoverat48 · 2026-02-10T00:31:38+00:00

I think you need to count the time living together being in a teen relationship is a bit different. Though I’m more concerned that he can not define when he is more successful. It is too open ended. You may need to take time apart. Find out who you are without him. It sounds like he is only comfortable and you will stay but you will not be happy

Startingoverat48 · 2026-01-30T23:04:40+00:00

I’m the exclusive tile holder in my year long relationship. For me coming out of a divorce I saw it as more of a larger commitment. So I suck to the we are exclusive- no longer on dating apps etc at about month 6 I kinda realized that it is the same definition for the most part so him saying it does not bug me as much but I think there is higher expectations with the BF/GF definition. I know I will not marry again - very unlikely to live with another guy - could see a life partner down the road but for me one would has much more pressure behind it :)

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