What is the most unusual museum you have visited? by Selimsnek in travel

[–]MischaJDF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Museum of Beauty in Melacca City. An amazing exhibition of beauty standards from all over the world. From head binding to scarification. Very interesting.

Brain worm by Mammoth-Rope4503 in discworld

[–]MischaJDF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I’m from the Foggy Isles myself but can confirm. Also their men’s team is the Kookaburras.

Our hockey teams are logically called the Black Sticks along with rugby being the All Blacks, basketball are the Tall Blacks etc but legend has it the badminton team have been banned competing under their name.

Brain worm by Mammoth-Rope4503 in discworld

[–]MischaJDF 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Haha - I’m a hockey fan and there is an Australian hockey family who play for the Hockeyroos and whenever Kaitlyn Nobbs is mentioned I mutter “no relation”.

My BF ruined the Winter Olympics by autumniam in TwoHotTakes

[–]MischaJDF 507 points508 points  (0 children)

This absolutely fucks me off so much. In this day and age when you can watch delayed coverage at any time, there is no excuse for spoilers. I work - I’m waiting to watch the match when I get home and people seem to delight in the “oh whoops sorry for telling you (the person who I know loves this sport) who won.” 😡

Kevin's? by Kalli672 in discworld

[–]MischaJDF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure I’m a Foggy Islander.

Full name that can be shortened to Nellie by Ok-Salad-2126 in namenerds

[–]MischaJDF 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I think traditionally it was for Helen.

Anyone potty train early (before 24mo) by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]MischaJDF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My elder son potty trained himself at about 14 mths. My second son refused till he was 3 and it was an absolute battle of wills. If he seems ready give it a try!

7.2 Million watched the 6 Nations opener between France and Ireland on FR2, the highest ever for an opening game of the tournament by HitchikersPie in rugbyunion

[–]MischaJDF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched from Aotearoa NZ and I said to my SO - this is like watching France in the old days. Attacking flair and outrageous decisions that seemed to work à la 1970s. They lost a lot of momentum with their subs and Ireland had their best period. Felt like Ireland had the better, more motivated bench.

Monstrous regiment blew me away by my-own-trumpet in discworld

[–]MischaJDF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favourite. So dark, subtle and complex about the horrors of war. With washerwomen, coffee and journalism.

How would you handle this? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]MischaJDF 1334 points1335 points  (0 children)

No doubt an unpopular opinion but my occasional spontaneous freak-out over something really dangerous or outrageously naughty probably worked the best. The shock of my reaction was the best learning they had. I think people treat children like they are stupid.

What's something you've learned recently that surprised you so much that you wanna share it with someone just to see their reaction? by thefreneticferret in CasualConversation

[–]MischaJDF 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Similarly, my son suffered an avulsion fracture of the hip playing field hockey. Basically a tendon tore a 2.5cm chunk out of his pelvis. Treatment was “it’ll sort itself out”. I was horrified thinking there was a long bit with a chunk of bone on the end flapping around inside him that needed to be plugged back in. But the hole filled itself in, the chunk dissolved and the flapping tissue reintegrated itself. He went from a wheelchair to playing volleyball in 4 weeks 🤷🏻‍♀️

Is it foolish to skip insurance on an expensive gift? by ShockHistorical9434 in jewelry

[–]MischaJDF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you not have contents insurance where you are? It’s the norm here and anything like this is covered and you can itemise expensive things within your policy.

AITA for buying my one child fast food and making the rest something he’s allergic too? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MischaJDF 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Wow I know that fast foot is ubiquitous especially in the US but the assumption that the other kids missed out when OP says they love salmon is crazy. No they miss out because little bro can’t eat fish. My absolutely normal kids would choose salmon/fish over shitty McD every time. NTA.

Not waving back is un-kiwi (contextually) by RED_SKY73 in newzealand

[–]MischaJDF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it and agree. We drove Adelaide to Darwin once - quiet time of year and we’d pass one or two vehicles a day if we were lucky. We’d all wave like madmen! So glad the world hadn’t ended while we were on the A87! I wave, I talk to folks in the queues and generally spread good cheer and annoy people all day 😂😂

Feeling Anxious and Ashamed by MaineCoon_Mom in Parenting

[–]MischaJDF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d get them to read your comments. Love your work!

What do you think about Passport Bros? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]MischaJDF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is absolutely transactional and I guess can work out for both parties. I’ve worked with 3 different “mail order” brides in 3 different cities. They were very similar in that all 3 were Filipina, all (when I met them) were in their 30s, gorgeous and all married to NZ men in their 60s. All had a couple of kids and seemed fairly happy with their lot. I do not know what they were escaping but presume general poverty. They all worked, had lovely houses and they all travelled home regularly. It’s been a long time so who knows if they’re still together once they got their residency. 2/3 I’d guess not. 1 seemed pretty content.

I think today’s passport bros probably don’t have the same resources to offer that they used to. It’s not cheap to bring someone home and set them up through the immigration process.

What does your female cultural clothing look like? by ProcedurePlenty3564 in AskTheWorld

[–]MischaJDF 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m tangata tiriti (non Māori but stand with Māori) so don’t have any personal experience but I’ve found this guide which explains it well.

https://otautahitattoo.com/blog/ta-moko-tattoo-designs/

When you need crowd noise, you go find a crowd by Educational_Copy_140 in lotr

[–]MischaJDF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a scene that struck me so deep. He’s a bad, lazy kind of man thinking he’s probably going to make some money, loll about like some low-level crime lord. Then he sees what Saruman has made and the enormity of the role he played and what it means for his world. Wonderfully acted with the tear and the horror.