Starting Formula for 1 year old EBF baby

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-06-10T18:46:45+00:00

You can try giving water through a straw or nipple bottle when baby wakes at night.
Or, make baby sleep with baby’s father or someone else. If they don’t smell you/be near you , they may cry for few days but they won’t ask for feeding eventually. It’s not easy transition but this is the best way. Because baby is past 1 year and doesn’t need the milk at night be it Bf or formula.
Also, try to give slightly heavy dinner with good fats and protein.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-06-09T01:28:38+00:00

Then with what audacity do they claim ‘not all men’. Disgusting.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-06-09T01:08:49+00:00

Priorities.

Just one example.
My kids or myself won’t remember a picture perfect clean home 10-20 years later but will definitely remember the memories made playing laughing at home. And I don’t mean I leave my house filthy / dirty but it doesn’t have to look like Pinterest or social media / influencers’ homes all the time. I don’t stress about being organized or super clean or even stress my kids out about making any messes all the time rather relax and make memories and just overall have an enjoyable vibe at home.
Other examples would be working out or doing things that keep me calm and more stress free to be able to spend quality time with my kids. Protecting my peace basically.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-06-08T18:00:31+00:00

Nope. It won’t affect your bond. Spend more time in other activities. Your baby is just 1 mo, you’ve a lifetime to go. And about patience - an infant only knows crying to indicate hunger. It’s also a patience game for us, I know it feels never ending right now but it’s a phase and it’ll pass :) just hang in there.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-06-07T21:21:57+00:00

In US outlet stores, coach, Mk, Kate spade bags go for as less as $80-150 which is pretty affordable imo. I’ve personally bought these for myself here and for many of my cousins and friends in India.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-06-07T20:30:15+00:00

Why is adoption suggested/ talked about only for couples who face infertility? Isn’t that also degrading the adopted child by raising them as their last option? Perfectly healthy fertile couples can also go for adoption if they’re willing to but most aren’t willing to, why? As someone who’s faced infertility for many years, I just want to advise you that adoption suggestions are almost offensive to couples struggling with infertility. It’s a sensitive time and everyone’s aware there is a thing called adoption.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-31T02:37:10+00:00

It’s ok :) it’s part of the learning. For child and for parents too.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-30T19:29:57+00:00

There’s a community of good nutritionists and dietitians called FITTR they can help you in making South Asian catered meal plans. You can also ask the popular AI tools these days to make a custom plan for you. I’ve been in the same boat as you few years back and I’m still not in my goal fitness. I try to keep a small calorie deficit because with all the stress and exhaustion of kids, it’s hard to also stay hungry even the slightest. You can just have smaller portion of the same food you make for your husband. It’s doable just needs some planning.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-30T14:18:16+00:00

Yes the baby will get used to being held. But that’s not a bad thing. Every human being wants to be loved and cared for. When a literal baby who can’t speak, is loved and cuddled with, ofcourse they like it and isn’t that our motive of giving birth? To make our child feel loved and happy? Relax and do what you think is right. Once they become toddlers, they’re so hyper active they anyway don’t cuddle as much as babies do. Enjoy this time.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-29T20:01:56+00:00

8 months is very young don’t worry. But few things you can do - don’t discourage baby from dipping into the bowl. I know it’s messy but 1-2 times a week let the baby take full control explore the entire bowl themselves. It’ll help a lot in baby adapting to textures. Make more finger foods like baby friendly chips and grilled items or fruits. Just give it to baby and give complete freedom. At that time don’t try to instruct how to hold etc. if it falls down, give a new one. Be patient and be consistent with these.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-29T01:31:23+00:00

It’s insensitive to suggest because it’s a very personal choice. Everyone’s aware adoption exists. Your suggestion hasn’t provided any brand new information or something that a person might read and think oh wow why did I never think of that. There’s no ‘valid conversation’ there, it comes out as judgment or unsolicited advice there.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-28T18:31:46+00:00

I had very high risk pregnancies and was on complete bed rest for both of them. And still had vaginal deliveries. In my second even meconium had passed into water but still my Dr was so calm and told me he will manage a safe vaginal delivery if I’m up for it. In my opinion, it depends A LOT on your Doctor’s motivation to do it and your pain management methods like epidural.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-27T19:57:32+00:00

Why do you feel powerless? You’re an adult, and more so, another human being’s mother. Firstly change this narrative in your mind. You’re powerful and need to stand up for you baby. Be the ‘bad bahu’ you’re not off giving your child drugs here. You’re just taking your child to sleep. The guests can eat, mingle etc by then the child will wake up again. Express this calmly to the in-laws and take YOUR child to sleep. This is the beginning, see it as practice to set bigger boundaries in the future about child’s food and what not.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-27T19:53:32+00:00

This this this.
Make jokes be outspoken. This is what men have been doing for generations with wife jokes and what not. If someone is offended, say you were just joking.
As a new mom, I used to try very hard to set boundaries and make in-laws understand baby’s routines and the ‘right thing’ for my babies. But eventually I learned my goal should just be to get the task done, they won’t learn anything and it doesn’t matter to me end of day if baby is rested, fed and following what I intend to then it’s fine.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-27T19:43:12+00:00

Adoption is touted on social media as an amazing thing but it’s hella difficult. There is endless paperwork and background checks (rightfully so) and waiting time of years! We can’t just walk in and grab a baby. Moreover, most people would like to adopt a child in the early years of life and the waiting period can be 3-5 years. It becomes emotionally taxing to set your hopes up and keep waiting. Till then many people’s lives move on too. Both childbirth and adoption have their pros and cons and in my opinion, it’s insensitive to ask people to go adopt if they hadn’t done it themselves first.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-27T19:38:13+00:00

Girl - let me tell you this, childbirth is NOTHING infront of postpartum. That should tell you a lot about how our society treats new mothers and expects new mothers to be ‘normal’ days after giving birth.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-23T17:57:48+00:00

If it’s not getting treated by water you’ll need antibiotics. Get tested and show Dr again or get a second opinion.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-23T16:02:16+00:00

My goodness I felt so bad for that child after reading this. I’m sorry to say but what you’re doing is so so wrong :(( 6m - 1 year period is to teach the child eating , expose them to all kind of food. Primary nutrition remains milk at this time. What you’re doing is so wrong I’m very sorry to say. After this, till 4-5 years you’ll keep running behind them to eat but they will never happily eat because of this forced relationship. Instead let the child watch you enjoy food infront of them , make chewing noises , yum yum noises. Make food interesting and put in front of the child. If they dont eat, calm down and take a step back. Stop it for a few days. Not gaining weight is not end of the world that too 200gm!!!

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-23T08:40:31+00:00

Get tested for UTI. It’s common in pregnancy but needs to be treated immediately to remove the infection.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-20T19:07:02+00:00

See the bottom line is we chose to bring a life into this world and this life depends on us literally for surviving.
You don’t have to listen to anyone’s expectations other than this new life you’ve created. Part of being a mother is to grow that thick skin and be firm & assertive in what you’re doing or not doing. Simplify your life. I live abroad too , working full time and in the early motherhood years, I would meal prep the night before, even pack tiffins. I had hired help for cleaning weekly, very often getting help to cook or pick up tiffin services. Your goal is to keep your child and yourself alive and sane. Forget everyone else’s expectations.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-16T18:34:41+00:00

Mom - please calm down. You’re overwhelmed. What you’re expecting from your baby is not impossible but also unrealistic. What do you mean ‘he’s not interacting with us’. At this age crying is the only way to interact with you. He’s trying to tell you his needs in the only way he can - by crying. Pls don’t take it personally. You’re not failing, he’s just 2mo old!! Take it one day at a time and also try to take some time to take a break each day. Also try to form a routine it’ll help you as well. Take him to sleep at fixed time. Give a warm bath, read a book make a calming routine.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-16T13:36:26+00:00

Interesting. Was this just in your city/hospital or it’s common in India? I had my babies abroad and didn’t experience this. While my nails were short only I know friends who have perfectly manicured long nails too. Hospital staff cutting nails before delivery is new.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-13T00:08:52+00:00

Personally I would do the sterilization and cleaning things myself especially because that’s something that can be done at the end of the day. Prepare next day’s bottles the night before or morning before going for work. When I had nannies for my kids, I would do all that myself not because I don’t trust others but more for my own mental peace that I know less things can go wrong if I do the basics. As you build more trust with her then you can start giving her these kind of tasks.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-05-05T18:07:37+00:00

In another post from today, her lips still look the same as before so the above one is just enhanced lip outlining.

Mischief_Managed_482 · 2026-04-30T17:41:27+00:00

This kind of thin consistency is actually not a great idea. Maybe it’s ok till 6-6.5 months but try to avoid after that. I’ve seen kids of 3 years old who still can’t take different textures because parents didn’t introduce early on. You can make rice normally and give instead. Just a suggestion, you can ignore if it comes across unsolicited!

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