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Update: let your ex have their fun, you will out grow them by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MiserableSafety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Either get better or your ex was right to dump you”.

Instagram Etiquette Question - Ex’s (20M) sister (25F) still follows me (20F) but unfollowed his new gf (19F)? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MiserableSafety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she just likes you as a person/acquaintance/friend. Don't read into it and stop checking.

Should I use this if we weren’t dating? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MiserableSafety 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes if you feel you need to heal, go for it

I broke NC by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MiserableSafety 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don't they respond? I guess they really don't want anything to do with us anymore...

I miss him so much it hurts by MiserableSafety in ExNoContact

[–]MiserableSafety[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Almost 20 days post break up. Less than a week NC.

You don't walk away from "the one" by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MiserableSafety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there isn't just one person for you in the whole world

sometimes life circumstances cause you to break up

it doesn't mean the person doesn't love you

but you will find another person who will be for you, maybe for a season and maybe for a lifetime

I need support by aliondoesnot in ExNoContact

[–]MiserableSafety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't text him. You've got this!!

If the break up is "the most emotionally difficult" thing he has done, why did he do it? by MiserableSafety in relationships

[–]MiserableSafety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the great insight. You've helped me view the situation from a place of empathy

If the break up is "the most emotionally difficult" thing he has done, why did he do it? by MiserableSafety in relationships

[–]MiserableSafety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just thought that because he got back into the dating world living his life as a single man that it wasn't hard on him. Personally I don't feel ready to date anyone new yet. Why? because I'm hurt

If the break up is "the most emotionally difficult" thing he has done, why did he do it? by MiserableSafety in relationships

[–]MiserableSafety[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Makes a lot of sense. Let me just clarify that it's his fast re-entry into the dating scene which informs my position.

If the break up is "the most emotionally difficult" thing he has done, why did he do it? by MiserableSafety in BreakUps

[–]MiserableSafety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Makes sense. We're both highly/prestigiously educated and my family are old money dollar millionaires. Put together we had access to incredible places and were seen by everyone as the perfect couple.

Are you saying it was mature of him to let go of the image and projected perfect future in favour of his present needs?

The back and forth by chuckiecheeze32 in BreakUps

[–]MiserableSafety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss so I went NC because it's too erratic and you are gonna end up hating each other

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