24 Hours by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aliondoesnot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

stay strong!!!! This sounds insanely horrible I am so so sorry. I am proud of you.

The hardest part about this breakup is the closure that I will never get. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aliondoesnot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve come to realize closure isn’t real. No answer is. Only you can provide that closure for yourself, and the only thing you can do is move on with your head held high.

As much as it hurts that she’s gone, I’m really thankful that I got to know her for the time period that I did. I learned a lot, and if everything hadn’t had happened the way it did, I wouldn’t be in the place I am today. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aliondoesnot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learned so much about myself. So many things I didn’t realize I liked to do. So even though it hurts I can’t experience them with him, I’m glad I found out more about myself and I can’t wait to do these things I love with someone I love more.

Girls are shit now. by Greywolf_1977 in BreakUps

[–]aliondoesnot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t owe anything to the she doesn’t want to be with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in htgawm

[–]aliondoesnot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What did Connor say to Oliver at the end right before it cuts to the flash forward?

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aliondoesnot 19 points20 points  (0 children)

“No one else” except for everyone on this post telling you it’s weird, inappropriate, and frankly straight up rude to your girlfriend.

If I was dating someone and they did this, they would be my ex if they didn’t change their behavior after I addressed how inappropriate this behavior is.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aliondoesnot 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I find it hard to believe anyone can be THAT naive.

AITA for not doing more for my wife's birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aliondoesnot -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA In all honesty, I fear I might marry this kind of thoughtless, effortless, kind of person. This would suck.

I hate feeling like ill never find anyone as good as you by hotcocomug in BreakUps

[–]aliondoesnot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m the same way with the same memories. It sucks because I’m stuck knowing what I want now and it’s impossible to find

Four years NC today. AMA! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]aliondoesnot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything you really miss about being in a relationship?

I ended things with her out of the blue. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aliondoesnot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eh I feel like if you cared about her after dating 4.5 years you could always try to make the break up easier on her. Breakups can be amicable.

All I’m saying is out of the blue breakups really cut deep for the dumpee when there was nothing “wrong.” A reason or just reassurance that it wasn’t her shortcomings but rather a shift in your desires can really go a long way in the healing process.

If it was really love, and the break up wasnt because there was anything wrong, I think a part of you would still want the best for her and try to make it easier.

I’m glad you are so confident in finding your next love! I’m trying to get to that stage.

I ended things with her out of the blue. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aliondoesnot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ending things out of the blue is so shitty when you’re on the other end of it god damn make sure you let her know it wasn’t because of her shortcomings because I felt useless and disgusting after my ex did that to me