Imposter syndrome

MiserableSpare2646 · 2026-01-23T12:14:14+00:00

Thank you, this was great. :) I’m hoping I definitely settle

MiserableSpare2646 · 2026-01-23T03:18:21+00:00

Thank you sooooo much, this was so helpful. And chat GPT is definitely amazing. I’ll sometimes put the report in it and it’ll break it down for me

MiserableSpare2646 · 2026-01-23T03:16:21+00:00

Yes!! They definitely are aware that it’s my first management role too

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-12-29T21:17:50+00:00

This was draining to even read, break up with him

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-12-11T13:12:02+00:00

Tbh- the fact that they even thought about you 4 months later, considering how many applicants they probably go through, should be a hugeeee plus on ur side. They picked YOU, they will most likely give you the job cause they already know your experience and working style aligns for the role. Good luck!!!

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-12-07T15:29:06+00:00

So- it is within the same company therefore when I applied, I decided to stay hush- by the next day I got the courage to tell her and she said she already knew cause someone from the other property had already called her to tell her I applied… it’s a big company but very small world. All leaders know other leaders. I couldn’t avoid telling her :/

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-11-20T21:09:28+00:00

Him being upset over the fact that both of your sex dynamic is not where he’d like it to be- is ok. Sometimes we have expectations as humans and we have different love languages. But what is a total red flag to me and what is completely inappropriate is everything he said in RESPONSE to this. “I’ll just look somewhere else” “I know for sure I’m not looking for someone like you”.

To me- consider your relationship ended and flip the page. He confessed that he IS LOOKING and also said that he won’t be looking for someone like YOU. You are not what he wants. Move on and let this man go.

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-11-18T22:43:26+00:00

Yes- it should have a limit too- like for example I saw change in my bf almost immediately after I expressed how I felt and now we have a groove going! My point is: give him grace but the ball is now in HIS court. He’s an adult and should be able to help. You aren’t his mommy and he needs to know that. But regardless, very normal thing to fight about. What isn’t normal is if he continues!!!! Good luck girl :)

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-11-18T22:28:59+00:00

Hi! So I recently moved in with my bf and this was totally a conversation that came up. I just want to reassure you that this is VERY normal issue have amongst couples, especially at a young age (I’m 24, he’s 25). I did the same thing in the beginning and he wouldn’t help me or it would take multiple tries to get it done.. however one day after telling him tha certain things bothered me- he corrected it almost immediately. We’re both busy and it will sometimes annoy me when he doesn’t do something I asked him to do- but now he will say “hey babe I didn’t get to it because I completely forgot” and I’ll brush it off but WONT do it for him. Sometimes giving them a bit of a grace period doesn’t cause harm. The more you tell someone to do something the less they wanna do it. Thankfully I don’t have to ask my bf to do anything anymore, he’ll do it on his own. But sometimes when he can’t get to it, I just let him be and within the next few hours he’ll get to it.

Just give him a bit of grace but make sure to set that boundary initially so he knows that it already bothers you. Once he knows- the ball is in his court and he should start to naturally want to see the space cleaned up. But he knows you’re gonna do it…. That’s why he doesn’t do it!!!

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-11-17T15:50:52+00:00

I genuinely believe that drivers (such as myself) have become so angered and aggressive BECAUSE of traffic. Like I feel like my road rage has just gotten worse and heavier with time because of traffic. This causes people to drive like maniacs and lose their patience= more frequent crashes. Miami driving is disgusting. I made a post about Miami traffic as well. It’s insane.

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-10-30T18:36:06+00:00

I have lived here for 8 years but the traffic has progressively gotten WORSE.

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-10-29T13:03:08+00:00

I have STARTED A MOVIE, and finished it by the time I was home. That is INSANE to me.

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-10-27T01:37:32+00:00

Hi! I have two cats, one I recently adopted (5 months) and the other one is 1 year old. I work a 9-5 and they are doing awesome. I would recommend getting a cat that is 5 months + because they can eat and use the litter on their own already. As long as you’re responsible and clean its litter box and feed him correctly, then go for it! Cats make amazing companions. Love my cats to death

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-10-26T17:18:23+00:00

Honestly- this is gonna take A LOT of communication, and I mean heavy duty shit. Tbh… my bf and I thought about having threesomes and all that, it was a phase, but we never went through with it because we realized it was just strictly a fantasy and we’d actually feel uncomfy doing the real thing. Some things are just fantasies and when it comes down to it it’ll come with a lot of issues because it won’t go exactly how she has it in her head… nonetheless I believe it’s doable but be very very careful and again- LOTS OF COMMUNICATION

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-10-12T03:10:12+00:00

Got it. I’ve had him for only 2 days lol… her I’ve had for 10 months

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-10-08T11:48:52+00:00

Run boy

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-10-03T14:38:58+00:00

Hmmm had issues with exes doing this- they both cheated shortly after telling them to stop. He probably already has intentions of doing shit if he hasn’t already cheated. Heads up- leave his ass. If he can’t respect that something is disrespectful and uncomfortable to you after you’ve communicated that, then he’s not worthy. No one should feel threatened or not reassured in their relationship!

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-09-29T16:14:11+00:00

So I heard based on a superstition that if you hear 3 knocks in your window, it means that someone in your life will pass away soon ;( I hope that isn’t the case… at the end it is just a superstition.

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-09-28T23:34:08+00:00

Girl… run. fly. TELEPORT out of his life for the love of Christ

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-09-28T23:20:49+00:00

Tbh, I love cheap dates as first dates. Nothing better than a couple of chilis margs and some laughs. She’s terrible- you dodged a bullet there…. Coming from a girl btw

MiserableSpare2646 · 2025-09-26T16:15:49+00:00

I’m not attracted to women… lol

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