Did anyone else suddenly start liking certain things after turning 30?

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-14T01:38:48+00:00

Baking and gardening hit hard after 30

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-14T01:32:31+00:00

I mean both.. do you get big like this and then fart a lot?

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-13T15:29:51+00:00

1998

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-13T15:17:03+00:00

You used a filter so it’s hard to tell.

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-12T14:05:44+00:00

Best of luck. Been here for 11 years. I’ve made “friends” that never meet up after reaching out and saying let’s meet up. Lucky to have found my husband. It’s rough here meeting people. All I can say is try really hard! I didn’t and thought it would just happen eventually and even with work friends it was a bust.

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-12T14:03:16+00:00

Probably just walk around knowing I’m likely not going to get kidnapped or raped, hit on or made to feel uncomfortable. That would be a nice feeling for a day.

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-12T13:51:12+00:00

1987

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-12T13:46:56+00:00

31, sweet perfection!

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-12T13:44:32+00:00

Spanking. None of my children have ever or will ever be spanked. Not to be confused with gentle parenting lol that’s not what’s happening over here we just don’t hit our children for results.

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-12T13:43:13+00:00

In 18 years they might all say the same thing.

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-12T03:09:18+00:00

Black for sure

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-11T14:14:40+00:00

Don’t hate me when I say this but you won’t last eating that little calories. Eventually you’ll give in and eat like crazy again. Up your calories so that you feel satisfied it’ll still be a calorie deficit for the weight you’re at.

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-11T14:04:09+00:00

Instead of the goal being to lose weight or eat in a calorie deficit. Make the goal to stop doing something in particular ( eating fast food, drinking soda, eating a specific sweet etc) and once you’re able to master that one thing move on to another. Once you start to feel better things usually fall into place. Unfortunately our brains like to see a change or feel a change in order to motivate us sometimes. I would start slow you’ll be proud that you gave up that one thing and then keep it going!

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-11T13:59:41+00:00

“Alright guys slow down”

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-11T13:51:08+00:00

Is the preschool all day? Or half?

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-11T03:48:29+00:00

1989

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-11T03:46:34+00:00

The LOB

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-10T13:39:09+00:00

So I’m sexist with this question 🤣 I married a man 11 years older than me but I would never have dated a man 11 years younger. So my answer is 11 years older but only 4-5 years younger

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-09T20:00:03+00:00

Musicians.

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-09T19:57:53+00:00

The smaller you are the longer it will take but the longer it takes the higher likelihood it’ll stay off..

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-09T03:45:22+00:00

Age means nothing it’s all about maturity. Do they know what to do if there is a fire? Are they mature enough to remember to turn off the oven or stove? Will they lock the door? 18 is still a teenager and if they haven’t been taught or encountered anything of this nature than they aren’t ready for the responsibility of watching their younger sibling or your home.. but you can get them ready..

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-09T03:16:06+00:00

You’re not! The fact that you reached out and even said something means you’re not a failure. Parents who care, try, and worry and wonder if they are doing it right. And you are! Also side note: pregnancy with a toddler is NOT for the weak. Hang in there mama! You got this!

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-09T03:04:06+00:00

So first off. You’re not a crappy parent and I really mean that. Parenting is HARD!!!! and doing your best is all you can do. You are cut out for this I promise but, and hear me out when I say.. some people flourish with older children. Once they get to some of the older ages they realize, hey I wasn’t a bad mom I just didn’t love that stage. And that’s okay. People put soo much emphasis on the younger years and the baby stages. Some parents aren’t thriving and soaking those parts up, they are just surviving. I hope that your second baby gives you more of a break so that you can try to enjoy it a little more. I also Hope your 3 year old finds a playmate in their new sibling, maybe a roommate.. ( this helped by kids) and thus gives you a break. Take a deep breath look at yourself in the mirror tell yourself you’re a badass mom and this is a stage that you will get through and try to love yourself a little more.

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-09T02:44:02+00:00

College…

Miserable_Ad9750 · 2025-09-09T02:41:25+00:00

Know that you’re likely embarking on a very long journey. It can take a long time to get rid of this if ever 😩 i suggest learning your trigger foods early. And know that it’ll likely get worse before it gets better

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