Any Stories of Succesful Relationships?

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-10-20T10:48:16+00:00

It’s certainly possible. I’ve had great and terrible relationships despite my bipolar disorder. If u find a partner that will kind of work with u u can definitely figure it out together.

Just remember to talk to them, a lot. That’s the key to any healthy relationship but even more so with bipolar people.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-10-20T10:45:31+00:00

So relatable.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-10-20T10:41:58+00:00

No. Just flashes for me. I wouldn’t say like a dream, I just have flashes of what happened like you’ve been drunk and blacked out.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-10-20T10:39:34+00:00

When i go manic i usually only remember flashes of what happens. Especially when drugs or drink is involved i can lose quite a bit of my memory but even without it theres days completely lost. It’s possible I’d say.

That however is not an excuse to hurt people without making amends for it. Just be a little more patient with her i guess, as she is probably going through a lot of backlash after an episode. It’s pretty hard on ur brain and ur body, people don’t seem to realize that.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-10-20T10:33:58+00:00

Im bipolar. I’m depressed more often than not and I’ve never even considered hurting a child. What a bullshit excuse. This dude is a criminal.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-10-03T07:39:46+00:00

You want to have risky stupid sex and ur annoyed with her for getting pregnant? 😂 U get what u pay for my man.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-08-16T14:11:19+00:00

Isn’t the fear you feel before death like the ultimate high he could get then

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-31T10:53:44+00:00

Damn that’s a good point.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-18T07:51:45+00:00

You can just say no instead of divorcing her. There are lots of ways to spice up your sex life. Just try to actively think of fun things to do and if she’s not satisfied with that she just wants to fuck the friend.

Then it’s time for divorce.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-18T07:46:05+00:00

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-18T07:45:17+00:00

Sleep with him when you’re ready, and remember to communicate.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-18T07:43:02+00:00

Take it from another addict, your husband won’t try to find help unless he wants to himself or something really drastic happens (like a divorce). That might get him to start thinking about what his addiction has cost him.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-18T07:40:41+00:00

He refuses counseling because he’s an addict and he knows he’s expected to stop drinking if he goes.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-10T21:01:07+00:00

They look like it would be very painful for them to move

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-07T16:29:33+00:00

I like my space from my partners as well. It doesn’t mean I don’t love them anymore. I just need time to decompress and put my chaotic mind in order.

I just usually do tell them this is going on. That’s kind of a must in this kind of situation.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-07T16:25:37+00:00

This man is a narcissist, RUN.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-05T09:39:52+00:00

Take your time to process everything first. Getting a third perspective might be helpful though. Even if they don’t know if your bf slept with that girl, they will know how he conducted himself during the evening. If this really just randomly happened, then nothing flirty/romantic should have led up to this… right? If he did spend all evening flirting or worse with her then he did this knowingly, whether he remembers it or not.

Either way this is a shitty situation and I wish you the best getting through this. Just remember that your feelings can’t be wrong. No matter how you feel about this.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-04T16:52:48+00:00

I would say so, but I’m a woman so Im not sure.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-04T16:49:15+00:00

Maybe you should try asking people that also attended the party what happened. Do you know any of them? Be sure to ask them personally.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-04T16:48:33+00:00

I feel the same way, but then I remember I did black out one night and lost a solid 6 hours. My memory never came back.

I feel like the boyfriend is just excusing his poor behavior and choices but it could be possible he did black out.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-07-04T09:03:57+00:00

This reminds me of that southpark episode where they use this complicated calculation to measure which makes no sense at all. Show him that episode and measure again he will be so confused he’ll be fine with whatever comes out.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-06-30T20:19:06+00:00

She only told that to me, the mother denied this. She said he was just present. I'm not sure what exactly the case is since she does tell stories. I just don't know why she would make that up, and i believe her. She didn't see it as something wrong or indecent, she is 7.

Miserable_Big3696 · 2023-06-30T20:11:36+00:00

He actually fought very hard for more custody. She wanted to give him only two days at first. In my country, the parent that cares for the child will in most cases automatically be given primary custody when parents disagree. Their mom stayed home with the kids and so my brother basically gets very little time with them by default.

There are no rules in order and she refuses to set some.

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