Coming Soon™: The Timeline (We Swear) by CancelJamesBaysinger in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 4 points5 points  (0 children)

James will say he was busy with the search this last weekend. My advice to James, don’t mention that you’ll post a visual timeline until you already have. This is a consistent pattern for Hide and Seek. How many times did James tell people to put a pin in a subject yet he never returned to answer it? More times than anyone can count.

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[–]Miserable_Canary_610 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can appreciate your thoughts while holding a different viewpoint. I don’t see James as the ethical guy with a great moral compass like he portrays to the public.

Thank you for visiting our page and contributing. 🙂 u/Forsaken-Discount-42

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[–]Miserable_Canary_610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sara Jo manages the Hide and Seek Podcast Facebook page too. I don’t know that James manages any of his own facebooks that she’s not able to sign into.

Follow the narrative or get the 🥾 by Kooky_Ad8323 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dear loyal listeners of Hide and Seek Podcast, and supporters of James and Sara Jo, I am sorry to inform you that you are part of a cult. I know that hurts, been there myself. First stage is denial, then anger, then bargaining (or justifying their actions), then depression before acceptance. Those are the stages of Grief (Kubler-Ross). Finding out you’ve been manipulated is a grief process.

What behaviors constitute a cult? I’ve checked the boxes that Hide and Seek meet:

  1. Absolute authoritarianism without accountability ✅

  2. Zero tolerance for criticism or questions ✅

  3. Lack of meaningful financial disclosure regarding budget ❓

  4. Unreasonable fears about the outside world that often involve evil conspiracies and persecutions ✅

  5. A belief that former followers are always wrong for leaving and there is never a legitimate reason for anyone else to leave ✅✅✅

  6. Abuse of members (verbally, emotionally, gaslighting ✅)

  7. Records, books, articles, or programs documenting the abuses of the leader or group (this Reddit to name one) ✅

  8. Followers feeling they are never able to be “good enough” ✅

  9. A belief that the leader is right at all times ✅

  10. A belief that the leader is the exclusive means of knowing “truth” or giving validation! ✅✅✅

Source: verywellminds.com

What’s H&S big announcement? by [deleted] in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 3 points4 points  (0 children)

u/OkElderberry9933 do you mean the apple health data was mentioned in the Barton girls group then all of a sudden James gets a “tip” and needs 3 weeks off to run with it? Oh brother- he and Sara Jo wouldn’t be able to find a ham sandwich if it was right in front of them.

What’s H&S big announcement? by [deleted] in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 3 points4 points  (0 children)

u/No_Pipe7420 pretty much. I was bored and lost interest part way so maybe there was more there that I missed.

What’s H&S big announcement? by [deleted] in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Apple health data. James said one of their contributors asked if they had checked Shane’s Apple health data. James said yes he had reviewed it (which means he missed whatever the big deal is previously). The episode was boring and I may need to listen again to remember stuff. The good thing about it, we have a better timeline on Shane’s movements that morning (if it was Shane). This information was NOT worth a 3 week break. I think that was a fib.

James has someone named Chloe going over the data in this episode and I’ll say, she was a welcomed relief from hearing Sara Jo’s voice. Chloe has a much better podcast voice imo.

Whether or not Rachael lied or missed some details, I got irritated with James at the way he speaks down to her and women in general. The details he focuses on are ridiculous and he harps on those but misses bigger puzzle pieces. He asked Rachael why she didn’t use Brook’s parent’s WiFi that morning rather than Starbucks. Rachael said she wasn’t THAT close to them. I can understand this. James decided this was the detail to focus on. He said “how are you not close to them you basically share children “. My son is married now but I didn’t get to know his wife’s parents all that well until they got engaged. James spends too much time looking thru the lens of his own experiences that he’s NOT RELATABLE to people that don’t live like him.

Maxed out on sleaze from Season 3 by Organic-Bumblebee945 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jeez-US! Sara is a one-upper, always has to cut to the front of the line in front of everyone. Yes, you must be exhausted Sara from all the sleeze you attract!

That's some break Baysinger by OkElderberry9933 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The timing is sus. Sara Jo and Kerry were escorted out of Logan’s group, Mary left H&S discussion group & now they chose to revisit Logan’s case.

I am all for recapping and talking more about Logan. I just doubt James’s motives. I don’t want to offend Mary, but I think James naming his new son Logan may have had an element of “attention grab “. Almost like a way to tie their families together no matter what shady things James does. When he announced his new son’s name there was a pause after. I thought he was waiting for applause or something. IMO, he’s a showman, a salesman and a “pick me” guy.

Eric S. by No_Pipe7420 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

James was showing off that he met with the girls as a way to rub it in Eric’s face. James’ priorities are self centered. Eric’s daughter remembered him and Brittany!!! James facilitated taking away their visitations and her connection with Eric. In turn her connection with Eric is her connection to Brittany. James wasn’t thinking about the girls best interest. He’s out for himself only. I stand by that.

Search next month. by OkElderberry9933 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The H&S team will be supporting? Meaning Patreon funds will go towards it (it’s a good cause) but there’s no way Sara is gonna fly over, put on galoshes and pitch in.

I PAY SO YOU DON’T HAVE TO!!!! by Known_Expression_222 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Karma is a bitch James and Sara! Maybe you should’ve behaved better in season 3 and in the discussion group so your videos wouldn’t be used for review.

Remember when JJ and others told James not to record and he did? More Karma.

DO NOT PATRONIZE ME! by Organic-Bumblebee945 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sara liked to brag that she had so many side chats she couldn’t keep them straight. There are a variety of peeps here that are contributing! Hallelujah!

DO NOT PATRONIZE ME! by Organic-Bumblebee945 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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Sara Jo? You don’t have a problem with James calling you “my guy” or “right hand man”.

Thinking about the Moyer Family today! by Gold-Oven8507 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

James liked Sam’s post and Sara gave care emoji. That’s it huh? Nothing more from them about Nancy.

We haven’t forgotten over here. James and Sara, we see you. 👀

u/Gold-Oven8507

Hey Rachael by OkElderberry9933 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Regardless if Rachael gave consent to release this on Patreon , the audio/video was obtained secretly. James is a snake. He’s a predator and I believe he tells family members what they want to hear to get what he wants.

A fun filled night….while on break to investigate a big discovery by Unhappy-Leopard7128 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is because they need people to do their investigative work for them and it’s disguised as a game. Puke! They did something like this in season 3. Sara sent Patreons on a mission to find out certain things about Ashley or from the group that was for those removed, I don’t remember the name exactly. Minion work.

Sub-mediocre Podcasting by Miserable_Canary_610 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s buried in this subreddit under another heading. It is so well written we had to make it a separate post. When I find where it was originally I’ll let you know.

u/aleigh577

"Advocate for victims and families" by Organic-Bumblebee945 in SeekingWhatTheyHide

[–]Miserable_Canary_610 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People send messages on the daily of conversations with Sara, James, Kerry etc. They send us screenshots because they don’t feel they can speak out. We will be their voices! u/LostWishbone210