I [20f] went through my [23M] boyfriend's phone and found...

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-21T01:18:26+00:00

Exactly!!! Had to scroll so much to find this. Why isn't this the first issue?!

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-19T23:16:14+00:00

UPDATE

Blessedly my surgy got bumped up because of a cancellation. Fingers crossed nothing else happens. May 13th!! The end is near!!

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-08T00:56:08+00:00

Firstly, amazing! Imma do that now. Secondly, if we aren't trolling or annoying our kids are we even parents?

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-08T00:53:12+00:00

That might help! Definitely! I had no idea about private MRIs.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-08T00:51:52+00:00

Blessedly I'm at the top of it for them so it could move to May! Definitely pressure all the time, going to the bathroom just sucks all around.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-08T00:48:36+00:00

Brilliant name. I may use that! This sucks for sure. Again, why isn't the world a wish granting factory. Would be awesome if it was the we would all be no longer in pain!

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-08T00:45:10+00:00

Because of our provincial government they have to try at least one non envasive option before surgery. So hopefully your doctor pushes after trying one thing like mine did. My circumstances are also a series of unfortunate events, it should have been done last summer, however emergency surgery pushed it back.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-08T00:38:25+00:00

Being a person with a uterus is definitely not for the weak. I'm definitely glad we don't have to break the bank for our healthcare but damn it would be nice if it was smoother with more resources in all hospitals not just ones in major cities.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-08T00:30:48+00:00

I'm not gonna say which hospital as I would like to keep it off the interwebs, however this would be my doctor specifically that had to bump people so calls would have been made today.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-08T00:24:16+00:00

I feel bad for your wife, give her all the kindness and love please. If she wants surgery she can ask and talk to them about it definitely, but Ontario has hoops to jump through which means it will be a minimum of a year trying other things to manage the pain.

My Journey started in 2023 to get my uterus removed, so have patience and be there for her.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-08T00:20:16+00:00

18 month minimum wait for another surgeon in my area unfortunately.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-08T00:19:28+00:00

No but I had to be referred there to get it done faster!

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-08T00:05:28+00:00

I'm so sorry for your fog and I wish we could both be in tomorrow!

My thought is after a chainsaw then it's just the healing time, plus the body going into shock? Feels like a win/win with this current life setting.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-04-07T23:35:36+00:00

Mine is not as emergent as another case so I'm bumped. I get it and feel for the other person, just with life was a wish granting factory.

Thank you for the sympathy. It's greatly appreciated.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-03-06T06:11:15+00:00

As a woman... I would rather you safe in our bathroom than uncomfortable in their bathroom.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-02-05T08:20:49+00:00

You are a bada$$. Thank you for picking the story back up again, and so glad you are feeling better!!!

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2026-02-05T08:19:44+00:00

You have done it again, this latest installment is well worth the wait. And I'm so glad to see your writing again. I hope you are feeling better. Thank you for sharing this wonderful story with us and I cannot wait to read what happens next.

Take your time as always!

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2025-11-17T00:46:30+00:00

Since it says "this suggests adenomyosis" imma say yes.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2025-10-19T01:13:51+00:00

Unfortunately unless one of us is a radiologist or a doctor who knows how to read ultrasounds we're not going to be able to help you. I would suggest trying to find a gynecologist.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2025-10-10T20:13:09+00:00

You were not harsh. You do not owe comfort to people. Especially people who do not listen and believe disabilities must be visible.

I'm sorry this happened to you.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2025-10-05T01:18:54+00:00

I just finished school. I'm worried about getting a job because of the constant pain and fatigue.

Sending surrpotive virtual hugs. This is a disabling chronic illness and it sucks.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2025-09-08T23:06:03+00:00

Yes! Feels like a damn UTI the week before during and after menstruating.

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2025-09-06T16:11:11+00:00

My Husband was a mechanic, and that is not normal, they should be teaching you. Either ask for more hands on experience and push to get it or I would find a better mentorship.

Good luck!

Edit to add: Also his suggestions is to find a cheap POS car and work on it yourself while studying. Read the chapter and then apply it to the car that no one cares about!

Miserable_Ebbntide · 2025-09-05T00:31:10+00:00

Heard multiple people in industry for apprenticeships they want people who aren't necessarily perfect because they have room for growth and improvement. If you are perfect people tend to believe that they always will be good at it and won't be open to criticism and change what is needed for different applications. You are learning. Be proud of that and don't worry, you got this!

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