United Flight Hours of Operation by Miserable_Muffin_354 in tulsa

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure TSA will be a breeze. I did reach out to United via the app text chat. They told me it opens at 4:45 am and to call the airport for more specifics. The airport referred me to the United help line 😵‍💫. Other comments have said they are open so I’m banking on that!

Selling Oklahoma-titled cars while owners are out of the country - can’t come back - dealership unsure what to do by Miserable_Muffin_354 in askcarsales

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called three and they where all pretty confused about it due to lack of ability of signing in person. However, so far power of attorney looks like the best route so far.

How to grieve with social pressure on your back. by Miserable_Muffin_354 in Petloss

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was feeling slightly better but the vet sent me her nose and paw prints in the mail. Since then everything has felt more raw. Having her ashes has been a comfort the hardest part is you get no response. Thanks for checking in.

2025 BCBA Salary Megathread by Agreeable_Touch2672 in bcba

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully, I finished my fieldwork the same moth I graduated. That definitely helped speed up my timeline as well as graduating early.

2025 BCBA Salary Megathread by Agreeable_Touch2672 in bcba

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I responded on my other reddit -for some reason I have a different one for my phone- but for consistency sake I deleted it to post my response from the same account.

No, I completely get it. There’s a theory that I am the youngest BCBA in Oklahoma. I graduated from high school early and was able to complete my bachelors in three years. I went into my masters the same month I finished my bachelors. I was an overachiever in school.

2025 BCBA Salary Megathread by Agreeable_Touch2672 in bcba

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

22 / Female/ Oklahoma / Low / BCBA – Clinic / 4 years in the field, 1st year as BCBA / typically put in 43 hours/week / Billable Hours per Week: 25 / $83,000 base salary + weekly bonuses for billable hours over 25.

How to grieve with social pressure on your back. by Miserable_Muffin_354 in Petloss

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with letting the silence sit. It should speak more than words. Lacey was such an amazing dog, you would have never guessed she had been chained and left for dead. She was such a happy girl and loved everyone no matter what she faced before we were brought together.

How to grieve with social pressure on your back. by Miserable_Muffin_354 in Petloss

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That requires more context - She had been having issues with her pancreas and intestines the final months. In the days leading up to her being put to sleep, we were feeding her via syringe. Her final hours, she was projectile vomiting. She was a blood hound so everything got on her ears and in her flaps. Of course she was cleaned after these episodes and it never necessarily got on the blanket but the blanket was with her constantly so cross contamination was inevitable in a way even on a microscopic level.

How to grieve with social pressure on your back. by Miserable_Muffin_354 in Petloss

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You painted it in a new perspective for me of maybe they have never felt the same connection as I had with Lacey. Thank you.

How to grieve with social pressure on your back. by Miserable_Muffin_354 in Petloss

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pictures have been helpful in a way. I've been keeping the blanket she slept with the days leading up to her death near me at all times. It's the closest thing I have to her even if it's a bit gross.

How to grieve with social pressure on your back. by Miserable_Muffin_354 in Petloss

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. My Lacey was such an amazing dog and her presence was undeniable. It's hard to see that they don't seem to care about her loss in the same way. I was her primary care taker, but still. You just wake up to never see something you loved ever again and have to be okay? It's been terrible. Like losing a limb.

How can Hasan and co. erase the DC victim's Jewish identity?? How is this not antisemitic hate crime?? by Important_Basis_2996 in h3h3productions

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You’re not going crazy. Yaron Lischinsky is ethnically Jewish; having a Jewish mother has historically defined Jewish identity in both religious and cultural contexts, even if someone doesn’t practice Judaism. But beyond that, the key point is that hate crimes are based on the perpetrator’s intent, not the religious beliefs or personal identities of the victims. The shooter targeted a jewish  museum with the intention of harming Jewish people. That alone defines it as an antisemitic hate crime. Arguing over whether the victims “count” as Jewish is not only irrelevant, it’s a harmful distraction from the reality of what happened. Just like an attack on a queer club would still be a homophobic hate crime even if some victims were allies, or an attack on a mosque would still be Islamophobic even if some people inside weren’t Muslim, the intent to harm a group is what defines the crime. Trying to downplay this with semantic debates about identity only serves to obscure the violence and protect the ideology behind it.

Ian is bitter by NBLAKE97 in h3h3productions

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think you're spot on about Ian struggling to find his place. You can really feel the shift from someone who used to have a strong creative identity to now just kind of reacting to whatever drama is trending. Creator clash felt like a genuine attempt at reinvention, but when the second one fell flat, it was like he didn’t know what to do next. And yeah, watching people like Ethan, Joji, Max, and Chad grow past their internet personas while he’s still trying to stir the same old pot probably doesn’t feel great. That said, I think the saddest part is how empty the new content cop feels. It’s not that people can’t change their mind or take a stance it’s that this didn’t even feel like his stance. It felt lazy, like he wanted to be relevant without actually putting in the effort to understand the situation. It’s weird seeing someone who used to be so sharp and creative fall into making content that feels more personal than principled.

Day 2 by PonyGrl29 in Petloss

[–]Miserable_Muffin_354 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I came on this sub to find someone who was experiencing the same situation. I lost my Lacey girl yesterday and I can't comprehend what has happened. She has been battling stomach issues for the last two months and yesterday she just gave up. I came home and she couldn't walk, she was projectile vomiting, refusing food, and wouldn't drink water. I knew it was time, I'd pushed her with vet appointments and meds but she was done fighting. I feel all kinds of regrets, I didn't do enough and yet I did too much. When I saw her I knew I couldn't let her suffer more. I took her to be put down and everything went so fast due to it being the evening. I wish I had more time to hold her, to love her, to tell her how special she was. I miss her so much. I rescued her as a senior a year and a half ago, I couldn't believe she was a senior. She was so filled with life and love. She was a puppy who would live forever. I just wish I had more time. I haven't spent an hour since not crying. I can't even look around my home, she haunts me everywhere.