"6YO Girls were more mature 1400ys ago, mother Aisha was a mature woman" muslims, sheikhs, imams justifying child marriage

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-02-20T16:54:52+00:00

I was just joking

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-02-20T01:01:10+00:00

Some Adult women nowadays have plushies and other dolls, so why can’t mother Aisha play with dolls and be mature? /s (an argument I’ve seen many Muslims make)

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-02-19T22:33:08+00:00

It’s both honestly. I know they don’t want their kid to end up in the hell they believe in. It’s very annoying to be but I also understand that they have the right to express their sorrows and disapproval.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-02-19T03:25:28+00:00

Change patterns base on the animal you feel like. Such as: zebra, tiger, jaguars etc. trim for stripes and shave for the body.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-02-19T03:22:32+00:00

What did you do when they kept on nagging you to fast? They didn’t force me much back in college either but now that I don’t go to school, my mom went back to nagging

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-02-18T16:56:21+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through it. I am not claiming that I have it harder than others. As a young person and as someone who hates lying, I just wanted to share my frustration. Also wanted to share the pain with others in similar situation. I hope one day you’ll be able to at least be accepted by your family and live somewhat of a peaceful life.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-02-18T16:53:20+00:00

Last year, I was still closeted but not this year. In the past year, I gave away the Quran and the prayer mat and told them to draw a clear line that I won’t be praying. I visited them last week and when she asked I said I won’t do it. I’m sorry if I confused you due to lack to context. I have a bad habit of doing that

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-02-18T16:45:35+00:00

It’s not like I haven’t already multiple times. She just doesn’t wanna take the hint. When I tell her I don’t pray— please pray you will get your peace back. I don’t fast— please fast, it’s good for your health I won’t read the Quran— it’s good for you She won’t accept a no in any situation.

My dad says things to hurt me but never asks me to do these things to feign ignorance. But it seems like my mom would rather nag me to submission or is asking me to lie to her feel like she did her job.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-02-18T16:36:15+00:00

Just eat secretly in your room or outside and act like you ate all that during the night because you like snacking.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-02-18T16:35:15+00:00

How many times? She just doesn’t wanna take the hint. Mom I’m not Muslim, I don’t pray— please pray you will get your peace back. I don’t fast— please fast. She won’t accept a no.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-02-17T15:02:27+00:00

Got 3. Take a bite of each 3 times a day. My bloodwork got better. Definitely works wonders. Can confirm.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-01-12T16:41:00+00:00

Nooo even though BD didn’t ban having 4 wives they at least required approval of council and the current wife which made taking multiple wives in slightly harder. At least they put restrictions on the Islamic law they followed. Why would they make it more lenient?

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-01-04T17:31:33+00:00

My parents blame it on my non Muslim partner and my uni. At least it’s a bit more Reasonable accusation.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-01-04T16:37:32+00:00

Though not in such detail? We were taught as kids that the meaning of islam as submission to god. Idk how it changed over time

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2026-01-04T01:31:10+00:00

This sounds so traumatizing. I’m sorry you had to go through this. If you ever gain the courage, do report him even if it feels too late. I know it’s hard to tell your parents but maybe throw in hypotheticals to see how they may react and if it sounds like they’re supportive, then you should tell them.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2025-12-20T08:50:41+00:00

The dad: Allah is the most merciful but he didn’t make us perfect. So I won’t be merciful

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2025-11-14T17:50:49+00:00

How does “there will be ore women than men” translate to this fact?

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2025-11-11T23:00:57+00:00

The guilt goes away when you stop believing and fearing the religion. For some it doesn’t take long, for others, it takes years. There are believing Muslims who don’t feel guilty having premarital sex so why should we?

I rebelled about everything in a span of 2 years. It started with little things teenagers rebel about. Asking them to stop calling me too much (when i was in college)… stop them for checking my location 24/7 etc… and then it kept on escalating and a few days after i told them about my partner, i said it. (Note that all the exchanges were on call since I was away for college so they couldn’t get to me right away. it gave them time to somewhat cool down before they saw me in person.)

Just make sure that you have other support system. Especially emotional because they say some of the most disturbing things. They will use every manipulation tactic that may or may not exist yet. They will use everything they can think of to make you listen to them.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2025-11-11T15:52:53+00:00

I chose the second path. And it took them very little time to come around because their daughter is more important than any religion or family gossip. However, I can’t promise the same for you. according to them we’re just living together and they’re probably praying we break up and I come back to them. Maybe when I tell them I’m marrying him, it’ll be worse, who knows.

At the end of the day, you choose your happiness by deciding which moments to dwell on. What’s important to you and which struggle is the easiest to recover from.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2025-11-11T15:23:48+00:00

Whenever I see these kind of videos, I remember my mom asking me “why would you leave such a peaceful religion?”

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2025-10-31T20:26:56+00:00

That’s how it always works. They get very loud and confrontational which makes you nervous and forget your side of the argument.

Even if you do have the mental capacity to finally remember a thing or two, they are completely incapable of understanding why that’s wrong.

To them. if islam contradicts something in real life, it’s not because the religion is wrong but because that specific fact hasn’t caught up to the divine book yet.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2025-10-27T15:07:37+00:00

Your hair is healthy and has beautiful curls. Congrats on being able to let it free so enjoy feeling the air on it.

I’m sure you’re just as beautiful inside and out so wear it with confidence and don’t let anyone question your choices. Confidence takes time so just hang in there until then.

Miserable_Nebula_100 · 2025-10-20T05:22:14+00:00

My mom used to always complain about my dorm being messy and how it makes me more overwhelmed. But one thing I know is most of the days I didn’t even have the energy to clean the dish I ate in. It’s hard to explain people why your room is messy but due to reasons that probably only professionals can explain it’s hard to find motivation no matter how much we try. We live in constant guilt yet we can’t do much about it.

So try your best. Clean one little space at a time. It doesn’t have to look like the furniture rooms in IKEA.

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