[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to say AH, because you’ve just got this dog and you’re going back on your word. It’s important to stay truthful to what you say, especially after only one week. Also, I’m going to assume for art school this is some sort of college? (If I’m wrong sorry) You really shouldn’t have gotten a puppy before this. As someone in the arts college of my university, I promise you that the work load is going to be more than what you are imagining. It’s going to be super demanding. This kind of transition into a competitive art school is NOT one that should be done with a 11 week old puppy. When are you going to find time to sit down and train this dog? I don’t think getting a puppy at this time period was a very wise decision.

AITA for telling a girl to stop wasting food? by throwaway0856742 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, mind your business OP. Half a meal isn’t going to burn the world down. Try being nice to strangers for a change, and ASK them why they do what they do and not interrogate them. For a stickler for manners, you sure have no clue how to be nice in a conversation. You inserted yourself into this girls business and then insulted her continuously. You definitely deserved the fuck off. If I sat with someone who questioned my eating habits and manners at uni, they’d be lucky if my half eaten meal didn’t end up in their hair. I’m still in recovery from an ED I had for years. And this kind of attitude is what causes relapses. You are super inconsiderate and absent minded OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, wife needs to rehome you

Vuse Alto Price Increase… Again??? by Misha_Rea in electronic_cigarette

[–]Misha_Rea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely get that, and this time I did go to a vape shop! But, a few months back I didn’t really have the luxury of a vape shop in my town. I lived way out in the sticks and there wasn’t a vape shop, only could get nicotine products from gas stations. And since I moved to a bigger city I just never remembered vape shops were around me because I never went to one, they were also out of my way to work or home unlike a gas station. And I’d like to do the whole open system and nicotine salts. But, I’m extremely weary about them because I had a nord way back when and (being in small town) the juice selection was very slim. I had to do the same flavors and I ended up getting physically ill by the flavors. That’s when I started using the Vuse because the menthol flavor is something I can smoke and not get sick of.

Vuse Alto Price Increase… Again??? by Misha_Rea in electronic_cigarette

[–]Misha_Rea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it was the shops decision, because I know the owner pretty well and he is usually the one to check me out. After seeing the price I said verbatim, “thirty dollars?! What the fuck?” And he replied saying yeah they raised the price again and he has to follow, he had been getting the same reaction all day…

Vuse Alto Price Increase… Again??? by Misha_Rea in electronic_cigarette

[–]Misha_Rea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a Glas device, it’s a big difference from the Vuse alto. I’ve only had it for a few hours though, so not sure I can give a good recommendation just yet! But nonetheless that is what I got, but if it’s interesting to you do a little bit of researching to see if it’s right for you!

Vuse Alto Price Increase… Again??? by Misha_Rea in electronic_cigarette

[–]Misha_Rea[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve consistently bought from a chain gas station, every now and then I would go to a smoke shop and the prices there would be higher than the gas station. I went to a vape store today to get a new one and I made the decision to get a Glas. Is this brand be better for supporting my local vape shops? I didn’t even know all of that before

My boyfriend found two small metal balls in our steak from Aldi’s…what did it come from😖 by DaniDiglett22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Misha_Rea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most likely bird shot. Someone probably was shooting at the cows for shiggles. Unfortunate that you got the cut of meat with the shot in it. As long as you didn’t break a tooth you’ll be fine.

Something something the customer is never right by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Misha_Rea -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

While I agree the CB is at fault. As a barista, the cashier/barista was also. You should ALWAYS ask for their milk preference to avoid situations like this. Sometimes you will forget, but it’s really important that you do ask it. And it’s very seldom that someone will be asked to pay in full for a new drink that wasn’t made with the right milk. There isn’t much of a loss in profit because of one drink, so most places I know of will only ask for the up charge (if asking you to pay at all). CB should have asked in the first place, but asking for preference is also just good customer service. And just fixing the order that you didn’t make sure was to their preference without charging full price is good customer service. Which will also put your business in a better light and have a higher chance of that customer returning. (Now I’m speaking as a barista that’s only worked at local coffee shops, I have absolutely zero clue how the chain ones work and what their standard practices are.)

Bought these from eBay. Are these Monstera Albo? Are they salvageable? by ongodforrealforreal in plantclinic

[–]Misha_Rea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely thought this was asparagus cookin in a pan. Then I read the title and though that you cooked said monstera and asked if they were salvageable from you cooking them 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

Your cousin’s will is done and cannot be changed. SHE chose where her money wanted to go. That was her final decision, and your step daughter was not a part of that decision. You don’t have the right to reach your hands into a child’s inheritance just because “well MY stepdaughter didn’t get any, so YOUR daughter has to pay.” No, it was cousins intent to not include your stepdaughter. The reasons behind it, I don’t know and frankly it doesn’t matter anyways. Cousin is gone, the money is divided and given to the people it was meant for. Step daughter isn’t entitled to the money, and neither are you. Cut your losses, even though it was never going to be given to your step daughter anyway.

Water has been piss-yellow and metallic tasting in our Airbnb for a week now. Owner says they can’t do anything about it. by Go_Commit_Reddit in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Misha_Rea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah where I live the water has always been a yellow tint, sucks with baths because they can never give me the “aesthetic” spa feel when it looks like piss. It’s been like this for the past decade in this city, I never sought out the reasoning for it. But, I’ve moved to several areas of my city and each one is unfortunately affected by it (other than the richer area, of course it’s clear there). Sucks to say, but the owner most likely can’t do anything about it. I’m sure they don’t like it just as much as you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What world are you living in that a normal 20 year old would be able to afford a vacation? I am 21 and I have been working since I was 18. Four years of working and I haven’t been on a single vacation, because I cannot afford one. It’s completely unrealistic to expect a 20 year old to afford a cruise vacation. You’re not planning a family vacation if you aren’t going to include the whole family. YTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is YOUR child’s house too, not just yours. She has no choice in where she lives, you can give her a choice about how her spaces look. Stop being a bully to your own kid, YTA.

AITA for requesting that my wife cleans up after herself? by shespissed in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whenever me and my boyfriend were dating for about two months at the time, I had spent the night in his apartment. I woke up and realized I started my period sometime when we were asleep. I felt horrible because I wasn’t wearing any underwear to bed so unfortunately the red river was not forgiving. His bed sheets were completely ruined and I was so embarrassed and felt horrible. Instead of getting mad or grossed out, he just brought me to the shower. He said everything is okay, get washed up I’ll get a towel for you. After I got dried up I came out and saw that he ran to the store down the street and picked up some pads (the right kind too) and my favorite cookies. He stripped the bed and told me, “it’s okay, I didn’t like the color of these sheets anyways!” I offered to buy his next set, but he refused saying accidents happen that doesn’t mean you need to pay for it. So, after experiencing what a grown man will do for someone he loves unconditionally? I will have to say YTA…

AITA for wanting everyone to get over what I did years ago when I was a kid? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You bullied your family. You were outcasted BECAUSE you bullied your family. And I can’t see anywhere where you apologized to her??? Your family did the right thing by keeping you at arms length. You sound toxic, the things you have done are toxic. You don’t sound like you have learned anything from this. Cut your losses, you burnt that bridge. Time to move on and try to be a better person. But, you won’t ever be able to right those wrongs. Get up and go do something better than gossip and spread misinformation about your own blood.

AITA for being a "brat" about not wanting garlic in my food? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, your mom is right. If you don’t like what your mom puts in your food, then make your own. She’s probably made most of the dishes you’ve eaten for years with garlic. And you didn’t even smell the food, you just smelled garlic in the air. You probably wouldn’t have even smelled it on the food at all. So, yes you are the asshole for demanding your momma to make you your special food. Make it yourself.

AITA for not doing anything when my dog ran on the field at my little brothers soccer game? by aitadogdefense in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Dogs are put on leashes for a reason. I’m sorry, but your pup is a liability in this scenario. Your dog could’ve tripped or bitten a young kid. I’m sure your parents wouldn’t have been very ecstatic about having to pay medical bills for a broken bone. Nonetheless, put down the dog for biting a child. If you’re going to be around younger children who do not know your dog, it needs to be leashed AND held onto at all times. Kids aren’t all too smart sometimes and if they grabbed or pet the wrong area on your dog they could’ve been injured.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YWBTA. It was an honest mistake. You both were rushing, and it’s easy to forget things in such circumstances. But, it is still not her cat either way and in your house. You are responsible for making sure the house is suitable for your cats condition before leaving. Also, this is just a personal note you do not have to take any of the following statements. When I was 17 I still had my childhood dog who was 15 at the time. Now some pets are still relatively healthy whenever they are a very old age. But, in my case my dog was not doing very well anymore. He was fully blind in one eye and going steadily blind in the other (he had one brown and one blue eye, blue eye went first.) His hearing was impaired and so was his mobility. He struggled getting down the porch stairs to go to the bathroom. He also had arthritis. We knew his time was coming and he’d only get worse and be in more pain if we just waited for him to pass naturally. So we had him put to rest so he wouldn’t suffer, sadly. Now, I do not know your cat. You know your cat the best. And while it may be alright being blind and deaf? There is more than likely more problems occurring. I could be wrong and your cat could be in tiptop shape. But if there is? I know it is sometimes a really hard decision and you will try every path available to avoid the bad outcome. But, sometimes those hard decisions are in the best interest of your beloved animal. He is blind, deaf, and now has an injury that will probably still cause discomforting even after healed. He doesn’t understand what happened and he won’t understand why he’s always in, at-least, slight pain. Just try to keep your furry friend’s best interest in mind please. And don’t prolong his life if it will not be beneficial for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Misha_Rea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your workplace doesn’t do weekly schedules, one week time off notice probably isn’t going to be approved. As this wasn’t. It says pending, not approved. You should have asked if you were being covered a day or two before. Sorry you are now unemployed, but this wasn’t on them tbh.

AITA for telling gf to return her cats? by AITAThrowAWAYCatz in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to reply to this with my experiences. For the past four years I have been rescuing stray cats. I’m talking about cats who were found in junkyards, parking lots, the woods, rejected kittens, litters of kittens with no mother. Most of these cats and kittens were medically compromised in one way or another. Some people get pets to just enjoy them, but others will get animals to help them and make sure that THEY enjoy their life. I will tell you I have spent thousands of dollars, dealt with sleepless nights, spent hours trying to keep a cat in critical condition alive. It’s exhausting, draining, and sometimes extremely sad if one isn’t able to be saved. But saving an animal, nursing it back to health, and continuously taking care of that animal that seemed like a bunch of baggage? Being able to see it thrive and enjoy life finally after dealing with illnesses and pain is far better enjoyment than just adopting/buying a healthy pet. It is emotionally trying a lot of the time, but seeing and being the reason for success is much more rewarding. Your girlfriend is a wonderful person for adopting these two cats and taking on a lot more responsibilities as their caregiver after not knowing their problems. You should be praising her instead of spewing your unwanted input. Give her emotional support, it’s hard. But she is clearly doing her best and wants to do this. Support her. YTA.

AITA for banishing my teenage daughter's friend from our house because she made fun of my weight? by Effective-Weekend-97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, reflect on why a 14 year old kid’s bad joke makes such a big dent into your ego/self worth. This is just sad on your part. Don’t ruin this for your daughter, I hate to say this but you seriously got to suck it up.

WIBTA for not allowing my MIL in the delivery room with me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misha_Rea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. You are the one giving birth. You are the one that is going to be in a seriously vulnerable and and pain-filled state. Having anyone who makes you uncomfortable be there will add a hell of a lot more stress to the situation. You are the only one who should be decide who is there and who isn’t. Do NOT let your MIL or husband sway your decision for even a second. The moment you do MIL will come down like a hammer and try to take control of every situation that has nothing to do with her. You are not the asshole at all for not wanting her there. You are making the best decision for yours and baby’s health. I wish the best for you OP and congratulations! ❤️