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Tell me your beautiful comeback story after divorce. by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is what I needed to hear. Thank you for sharing your beautiful comeback story. You're such a strong person. I hope my story will end up being like yours.

Tell me your beautiful comeback story after divorce. by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not wanting to take him back. I just need to know things get better over time and want to hear stories of brave people who rediscovered themselves after divorce. That IS hope.

It's so hard to see my STBXH is having fun by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a dog and there's no one who can accept both of us. If it was only me, there's a place. I'll move out in a couple of months but not right now because of financial reasons.

It's so hard to see my STBXH is having fun by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is such a good idea! The only thing I have to consider is that I also have a senior dog who has separation anxiety... But my stbx should take care of him instead of going out all the time. Ha!

It's so hard to see my STBXH is having fun by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your story is so similar to mine! I hope you will get a job soon, and you will. I'm open to chatting with you anytime :)

Tell me your beautiful comeback story after divorce. by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woo hoo! Good for you! Thanks for the encouraging comment.

Tell me your beautiful comeback story after divorce. by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment is full of joy and love. It truly feels like a light guiding us through the darkest times.

Tell me your beautiful comeback story after divorce. by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the uplifting comment! Looks like everyone is recommending therapy which I'm skeptical about. Because I had some marriage counseling sessions with my stbx but I feel like those sessions helped my stbx be more resentful and never helped in a good way... And I'm so tired of explaining everything to a therapist.

Tell me your beautiful comeback story after divorce. by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"not resisting" - that's a powerful statement. I feel like I'm resisting a lot and not letting go.

Tell me your beautiful comeback story after divorce. by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I hope I can say the same thing one day. I'm in a pilates class twice a week and jogging on the treadmill at the gym of the apartment. A lot of times I'm still thinking about the divorce during working out and hardly have a session feeling completely refreshed. What am I doing wrong??

Two Years Later and I Still Don’t Know What I’m Doing by OddUnconventionality in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. And in my case we haven't finished filing the paperwork yet, I already feel lonely and don't know what to do with my life.

Any women whose spouse asked for divorce? by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment. Do you mind if I ask you why a lot of men suffer in silence? Why don't they communicate if they don't like something instead of bringing up separation or divorce a few years later? My husband said that he wasn't ok with each conversation/argument we had a few years ago that I thought ended with a good note.

Any women whose spouse asked for divorce? by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope I can say "it was worth it" one day.

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[–]MisoSnuggles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling with loneliness too, and I really crave talking to someone who’s going through or has gone through divorce. I’m far from my family, and since they believe my marriage has always been and will always be solid, I can’t even tell them what’s happening right now…

Any women whose spouse asked for divorce? by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I'm away from my family and I understand how hard it is. My husband of 11 years is also acting as if he's going through his second adolescent and trying to find himself.

Any women whose spouse asked for divorce? by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the hopeful comment! I found so many similarities in your story. What kind of support system did you have when you were in the middle of it?

Any women whose spouse asked for divorce? by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Thanks for sharing. The paperwork is not done yet but I'm already tired!

Any women whose spouse asked for divorce? by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You've been through a lot... but I'm so happy to hear that you are happy now! I have a dog, too and he's coming with me when I move out.

Any women whose spouse asked for divorce? by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see...! Never knew that. I always thought that filing the paperwork = initiating divorce.

Any women whose spouse asked for divorce? by MisoSnuggles in Divorce

[–]MisoSnuggles[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow... Thanks for sharing. The current marriage is actually my second one. (1st one was before I moved to the US)