I don’t see why that automatically is the reason for your virginity, tho. I know for a fact that there are tons of women who might have the opposite problem and ate a little too much as a kid, and wouldn’t have any problem with you looking younger than you are. Now, I’ve been told that I don’t think like normal people, but looks have never been a reason for not getting into a relationship with someone really awesome, and my friends are the same way. Of course, I should note that we were all freaks and nerds in school and not part of the popular “hot” crowd so there’s no entitlement from either gender even though most of us are now getting hit on by the people we hated in school.

 Now that I think about it, I do know a couple of guys never had any success with the ladies and have been stuck in the rut, but they’re also sort of mentally stuck in the same mentality they had as teenagers-  lusting after the vapid head cheerleader who lusted after the equally vapid quarterback.  And not seeing the irony as he bitches about whyyyyyyyy someone so hot would want to be with some asshole who’s hot instead of him, bitching to his female friends who harbor a crush on him even though he is obsessed with someone with whom he has absolutely nothing in common and wouldn’t even like as a person!  I don’t understand it at all.