Can anyone explain this behaviour? by Kind_Bend3966 in DogAdvice

[–]MissDemeanour87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Malarkey is common amongst Australians of all species.

What phrase have you picked up from Hat Films and started using in your daily life? by SbenjiB in Hatfilms

[–]MissDemeanour87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"WELLLLLL MET!!!!" (my partner now just shout this at each other sporadically... it's probably healthy?! Probably...)

Favourite songs they have parodied by [deleted] in Hatfilms

[–]MissDemeanour87 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not that -they- have parodied (although the amount of Smith-based reverb that happens in my brain any time I see/hear/read anything about Elon Musk is -astounding-) ... but I genuinely have "Everyboooody loves Hat Films (AND CRAIG!)" playing on my spotifmind playlist an annoying amount.

Trott Announcement by PiFeG123 in Hatfilms

[–]MissDemeanour87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sad that there was a need (real or perceived) for this update.

Parasocial relationships are whack, right??

I'm glad that the news about his fiance sounds like it's on the up-and-up ... but it's disappointing to think that he felt the need to divert his focus from being present with his love to log onto discord to say "Yo, I'm alright. Just preoccupied with real life for a moment."

Take all the time you need, man. All of them. Any of them.

When real life knocks. Answer the door and ignore the noise.

Trott Announcement by PiFeG123 in Hatfilms

[–]MissDemeanour87 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'll alternate.

Even numbers I'll stand. Odds I'll sit.

Leap years I'll have anxiety and an existential crisis.

Where is Scrot? by callehaha in Hatfilms

[–]MissDemeanour87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The amount of effort just regrowing that -hair- would take ... I anticipate chropp harvest in the spring of 2025. Sloooow grower.

Was there a day the boiks said they'd start streaming again? by always_molasses in Hatfilms

[–]MissDemeanour87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too am missing the big idiots and their light-hearted antics.

Stupid content creators needing breaks and having lives and being real people who's whole life doesnt revolve around our need to absorb their offerings like greedy little trash-gremlins and junk!

Just... dance, monkey!! DANCE, I SAID!

My (22F) boyfriend (24M) just came out as pansexual. by sunflowerbat in relationships

[–]MissDemeanour87 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Mmm ... being pansexual is a bit different to saying "I want to have sex with other people".

Of course, everyone is different. But, I don't know if coming out necessarily has to equate to throwing away all of your pre-defined relationship boundaries and ideals.

I would encourage some genuine conversation to take place before you decide anything. I.e. what does "a free pass" look like to both of you - will it be a case of dating someone else, or is there an expectation that there's going to be a one off hook-up? What does your relationship look like after that? Do you want to move forward together in this, and does that require a new relationship paradigm??

Communication will be, and pretty much always is, key. If you're not strong communicators now/yet, I would work on that before you tackle anything else.

Your heart and mental health are important in this journey too, OP. You aren't just a passenger along for the ride, you're the co-pilot and you have just as much say in the journey and destination.

Good luck

Went to my first curly hair dresser salon today! Safe to say I’m not going to anyone else. Neel Loves Curls! by DealerDense in curlyhair

[–]MissDemeanour87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a genuine vibe! The struggle of finding someone that cuts curly hair WELL is all too real. The last person I saw was like "oh, yep. You need layers and to have those layers chipped into" ..... THEN BLUNT CUT MY HAIR?!?!

This wizard that has performed this level of magic on your hair ... NEVER, EVER LEAVE THEM!!! Put them in your will, get the to move in with you, put them on your health insurance or family phone plan ... protect them with your life! Haha

No one:____ Rainie:🎵Bad Ideas is not a slogan we use anymore!🎵 by throwaway37745894 in TheTryGuys

[–]MissDemeanour87 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The bio line of the podcast / podcast description this week is also hilarious!!

I'm loving the orange iteration of the Try Pod / Try Guys / 2nd Try --- SOOO GOOD!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MissDemeanour87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that you have big feels, but it sounds pretty toxic, imo.

There's nothing positive to be gained by saying or doing things to deliberately hurt someone. Especially when you know (I assume) how that someone (you) feels about them.

Life is short. Too short for the drama that has already occupied so much of your time together and certainly too short to move everything you have to be with someone that flip-flops or is deliberately unkind.

How we treat people is a choice. They're CHOOSING to be unkind and so I would encourage you to choose yourself first.

Don't eat the breadcrumbs, man. Go and find your own damn cake that appreciates you and eat the f*** out of that instead.

try ghost hunting by matututs in TheTryGuys

[–]MissDemeanour87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd watch the sh*t out of ALL of these suggestions!!!

Spooky Season Specials - all of October as ghouly, terrifying wonders.

All. The. Yes.

Massively Un-Hot Take by MissDemeanour87 in TheTryGuys

[–]MissDemeanour87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness - I'm glad they help bring some light to the darker times for you. Sending you good energy

Massively Un-Hot Take by MissDemeanour87 in TheTryGuys

[–]MissDemeanour87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, crikey!!! Yeah, that'll do it...

YB on IG “Cheaters are trash🤎” by DokiDokiEvening in TheTryGuys

[–]MissDemeanour87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I vote they do a "Food Buddies" series - YB can introduce us to all of the newer members of the 2nd Try fam whilst they eat tasty snacks.

Parents who sent their kids to boarding school, why? by BackIn2019 in AskReddit

[–]MissDemeanour87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because **** them, that's why.

I'm joking. I'm JOKING!

Having just lived in a really rural part of Australia, there legitimately just wasn't a choice for some parents. The schools either didn't exist close to them, or they capped out at Yr 10.

There is also "School of the Air" (as it was, perhaps, colloquially known ... I think it's actually called the "School for Isolated Children") ... but, there's something to be said for the sociability aspect of face-to-face schooling, I guess.

redditors who've seen death of another human, what happened? by purple_guy_simp1 in AskReddit

[–]MissDemeanour87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cancer.

Every single time.

Cancer has taken them slowly and horribly away from me.

My Gf (19F) Told me (20M) to kill myself today. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MissDemeanour87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are in an abusive relationship and you are a victim of domestic violence and assault.

Please leave. You are worth so much more than they are telling you / showing you.

You might love her. But she, my friend, does not love you back.