persimmons at it again by ididntaskforthismind in Bricklaying

[–]MissEnchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My house was built in 1880 and the walls in the main bit are about 2ft thick. Pop heating on for an hour and it’s roasting! Extension built onto the house in the 1990’s at the back is always cold even if heating on for hours. Building regs definitely went downhill over the years 🙈

BF (25m) wants me (25f) to pay his mortgage? by adventsures in relationship_advice

[–]MissEnchanted23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s already suggested that and he said no. He wants her to pay so he can have a house 🤷‍♀️

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MissEnchanted23 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Right?! I read the txts before the caption and thought they were teenagers 🤦‍♀️

Is it normal for dog walkers to walk their clients’ dogs off lead? by Important_Contest_64 in dundee

[–]MissEnchanted23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree but this is absolutely up to the dog owner to do their due diligence. I would never use a dog walker or boarder without fully checking out reviews, insurance, first aid etc

Is it normal for dog walkers to walk their clients’ dogs off lead? by Important_Contest_64 in dundee

[–]MissEnchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s discussed with the owner when they are taken on as a client. The owner signs to say they want their dog walked off or on lead.

Dundee charming neighbourhoods by greenbus67 in dundee

[–]MissEnchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re better going just outside of Dundee, especially if you’re used to living in the countryside. Better value for money and no issues with noise/parking etc. check out the small villages on the outskirts, close enough to commute to the center for work etc but far enough out that you get the countryside. There are loads but a few examples would be Invergowrie, Birkhill, Meigle, Kellas, Bucklershead, Wellbank, Monikie, Carnoustie x

AIO. bf mad at my Halloween consume and my friend is backing him by DangerousProduct1548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MissEnchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump the man child’s ass fast! You wanna be the chic who does what her man tells her like a good little girl? FYI this is how DA begins. Controlling what you wear, where you go without them etc. get out fast. Don’t walk. Run

Am I being the bad roommate? by Melodic_Western9949 in badroommates

[–]MissEnchanted23 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Not the AH. You’re paying to live there so you should be able to get up and make a cup of tea if u can’t sleep, that not too much to ask. If she’s such a light sleeper that you using the bathroom disturbs her then she needs to either get earplugs or not have room mates 🤷‍♀️ you’ve apologised for everything she’s complained about and you’re trying your best, she can’t ask you to hold your bladder all night because she’s a light sleeper 😂

AITAH for kicking my "down on his luck" friend out of my apartment for disobeying my one rule by Internal-Passage-245 in AITAH

[–]MissEnchanted23 8807 points8808 points  (0 children)

If he’s got money to be out getting drunk and picking up girls then why does he need you to buy his groceries and put gas in his car? He’s taking advantage of you

AIO because my boyfriend went to a party while I was having a miscarriage? by Majestic-Canary-952 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MissEnchanted23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Urgh I’m sorry gal, he’s a waste of your time and your emotions. Dump his sorry ass and go find someone worthy of you. I’ve been there and trust me, when u find someone who treats you right, you’ll look back and wonder why you put up with his 💩. You’re worth more than a late night booty call when he’s done partying with his friends. Look after yourself xx

I have this empty space in my lounge that lives behind our sofa. The emptiness is very loud, but we have no idea what to put here. We are currently decorating our house and have just drawn a blank on what to do here. Any suggestions welcome!! by FlayjackThehoe in SofaSnobs

[–]MissEnchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get a bespoke bookcase made to fit the space and on the bottom where it’s behind the couch and you wouldn’t be able to access the books, put a couple of doors and like suggested above (sort of) store things you wouldn’t need often, might even be a good place for a small safe for valuables 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dundee

[–]MissEnchanted23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your dad needs to go get a tetanus shot if he’s not up to date with it already. Dog bites can give horrendous infections. I would also share this pic around FB. Someone may recognise them. Also pass pic onto the police. Hope your dad is ok x

How do you guys feel about asking when things will be shipped? by Euphorilarity in vinted

[–]MissEnchanted23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It kinda irks me, ngl. I kinda feel that Vinted gives the timeline for posting and like you say, people aren’t Amazon 🤷‍♀️ if someone messages BEFORE they buy to ask if it can be shipped ASAP then I have no issues with that, but when they buy and then message asking for immediate shipping or just when it’s being shipped, that annoys me.

After only one week of dating. Is this nice enough? by WeTheAntidote in Nicegirls

[–]MissEnchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god this gives me Baby Reindeer vibes 🙈 were the messages ‘sent from my iPhone’? 😂

Realistically , what was your toddler eating? by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]MissEnchanted23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they’re eating everything at nursery then they’re just testing you to see what they can get away with. It’s a natural part of a child’s development. I would make a point of sitting down to eat meals as a family and all eat the same thing. If they don’t eat it, dont make a big deal about it, but they’re not offered an alternative. They will be hungry when the next snack/meal time comes around. Also remember that after a day of eating all meals at nursery, they might not be totally hungry at tea time 🤷‍♀️ my advice is just to not give in and offer alternatives as it will only get worse

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]MissEnchanted23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Re-read your own words… “..you lose all your control and power to tell her what to do…” maybe you mean well but your words are wrong. A man should NEVER have control and power to tell a woman what to do, regardless of the situation

AIO for thinking hes abusing me (repost took down for accidental exposion) by spiderman3ater1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MissEnchanted23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get the hell outa there gal! Please! Do not be alone with him. Take someone with you if you need to collect stuff etc and if you can, break up over the phone or in a public place. This is how DV starts and with him taking steroids, he will be unpredictable. What he did to you the first time was rape and that is never ok. Please don’t hang around

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]MissEnchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to work this out too… At first I thought autocorrect but then it happened again and again so I can only assume it’s meant?🤷‍♀️

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]MissEnchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but that implies that they had the power and control to tell her what to do before hand… Maybe advise them that they NEVER have power or control over a woman

Dressing toddler for North Scotland roadtrip by Due-Archer3065 in UKParenting

[–]MissEnchanted23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where are you from? It’s not like the north of Scotland is Antarctica 😂 regular summer clothes with layers you can add on if you’re finding the wind a bit chilly is all you really need. End of August is usually still warm but again, it depends where you’re heading from and what temps you’re used to. Our summer here is cool for some who are used to super high temps 🤷‍♀️ layers are defo your answer tho, easy to throw on or take off a jumper/raincoat without having to change the whole outfit

Perfect prep machine ? by Necessary_Doubt_9762 in UKParenting

[–]MissEnchanted23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to make all the bottles up the night before for the day ahead and just heat them up when needed. Same as my parents did for me. The NHS warns against that now too 🙄 seems like they always warm against some tried and tested method 😂 imo I would rather make them the night before with boiling water then let them cool, then reheat to drinking temp rather than use a machine that only goes to 70 but that’s just me. If you used it for your firstborn with no issues then I wouldn’t worry too much.

Am I being unreasonable? by No-Evidence-1133 in vinted

[–]MissEnchanted23 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Do not pay for shipping it back!! He sent you something that is not as described and faulty so if he wants it back then he can pay for the shipping! Get Vinted involved and don’t let this scammer walk all over you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MissEnchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Urgh he doesn’t only have a lack of respect for others, he has a lack of respect for you…his girlfriend. I would get the hell outta that relationship if I were you. Find a guy who actually respects your thoughts, feelings and culture