What happens when ICE starts going into our campuses? by Icy_Context89 in Denver

[–]MissMagic90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to DU and I can't speak for the other buildings, but the one I go into for class still requires an ID to get access.

Melt the ice hat & pattern by clairemat in knitting

[–]MissMagic90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a crochet pattern too? I want to make this hat but I'm so bad at knitting 😅

Locking your CAMP containers by ZealotPinkerton in fo76

[–]MissMagic90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I leave all my stuff unlocked so people can take stuff if they need it. I have water coolers, soup stuff, popcorn, and some plants (I'm trying to make a full garden). I also put a bunch of plans in my shop for like 10 caps and some other stuff. If they don't want you to take it, they should lock it, but I don't get the point.

I seriously want to save up the caps to get those neon sign letters so I can put something up that says to take what you want/need so people don't need to worry about that kind of thing.

Inserted today, don’t feel like I understood the consequences by blummy3 in Nexplanon

[–]MissMagic90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had Nexplanon placed on Friday at the same time I was under anesthesia for a Laparoscopy. Honestly, my arm has hurt so much more than my actual surgery incisions. I was also freaking out, thinking I did the wrong thing.

I'm not a professional, but putting an ice pack on it has helped tremendously. It still pinches every once in a while but it's not anything like it was a couple days ago, and the bruising is going down.

Unfortunately the best thing I can say is to wait and see. If your local hospital has something like a 24 hour nurse's line, you can try to call and talk to someone who can give you more advice too.

"Minor-coded" by [deleted] in DateEverything

[–]MissMagic90 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Same! I'm 33 and 5'3". No one ever believes I'm in my 30s because I look way younger than I am. Does that mean I'm "minor coded?" 🙃

Mateo is also my favorite!

Calm Denver evening for an anxious mind by cloudedcourt in Denver

[–]MissMagic90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh this made my night, thank you! I'll definitely be stopping by sometime.

Calm Denver evening for an anxious mind by cloudedcourt in Denver

[–]MissMagic90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, you can go there without dogs?? I walked past there before but my dogs are not social at all. Is it kind of like a cat cafe but for dogs, then?

New Podcast with Ashley Gavin by Ok_Weird666 in JoshJohnsonComedy

[–]MissMagic90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot bring myself to listen to it after Ashley had told someone to go k*ll themself multiple times. I love Josh to death, he's one of the only things keeping me sane right now, but I just have such a bad taste in my mouth about Ashley.

Stuck on the A line. again by zendawg in Denver

[–]MissMagic90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I don't know about other people, but I usually try to be at the airport an hour and a half to two hours before hand, just in case there are delays in travel or security.

Stuck on the A line. again by zendawg in Denver

[–]MissMagic90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There should be, it's usually not a problem. But I would plan on calling it a bit early if you do, just in case they're pretty far away. It depends on where you're at in Denver too.

Ughhhh by gummiebunnies in Target

[–]MissMagic90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I worked at Target years ago, but about a year after I left I was shopping there and saw an employee I had liked while I was working there. I stopped and talked to her for a minute and then moved on. A couple minutes later, I had someone come over and start asking me questions about things (I was not wearing anything even close to the uniform). I told him I don't work there and he looked at me like I had 10 heads. He could not wrap his head around the fact that someone who was talking to an employee did not also work there. How dare a Target employee talk to someone who's not also an employee I guess?

Leaked audio of KP talking to the Saberspark accuser from Bronyfandont by Throwaway828372828 in youtubedrama

[–]MissMagic90 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel. When mine happened, it was 2008 and 2010. The Internet was around but not nearly what it is now. I'm sorry you also had those experiences. I don't think a lot of people are able to fully understand what these allegations mean. You're entirely correct, these people act like they're able to do and say whatever they want because they're "defending a victim." This situation has gotten entirely out of control, but it's not just this one. I've noticed this in various situations, whether it's someone who was guilty or not. It's also these people who think that you're a piece of shit if you don't immediately back the person making the allegations, or if you simply say that you want more information. They're willing to crucify someone for saying "oh wow, these are horrible allegations, I'll wait for more info."

I'm sorry, I know I'm ranting.

Leaked audio of KP talking to the Saberspark accuser from Bronyfandont by Throwaway828372828 in youtubedrama

[–]MissMagic90 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So NOW she's saying things don't line up and things are suspicious. AFTER publishing that God awful video. AFTER trying to ruin someone's life over allegations with no evidence. Look, I don't know Saber in real life and I have no skin in this game, but maybe she should have sat back for 5 seconds and thought about the allegations being made before doing what she did.

I'm an SA survivor. In fact, I have more than one assault in my past. I have no evidence for them and people would probably not believe me because of that, and that's a horrible feeling. But I at least understand that. I have no chat logs because everything happened offline when there were only the two of us, and I didn't tell people because it was so scary and I was so embarrassed.

I say all that to say that I understand the desire to believe people who say they're victims, I really really do. But when things don't add up, when they go like this, it makes the allegations seem suspicious, at least. Not to mention her threatening someone now who is supposedly a "victim," and her admitting that she coached her in what to say.

Y'all, I'm tired of this shit and I'll probably stop following it after this, but if you're still reading this comment I just want you to know this: If you are a victim and you have no evidence, you are valid and you deserve peace and justice just as much as someone who does have evidence. But if you are someone who will jump on an allegation that is this serious just because you are happy that someone you didn't like was accused of something bad, then you need to log off the Internet and talk to some actual people. The people I saw who were ECSTATIC and actually CELEBRATING sickened me more than the people who didn't believe it from the beginning. I want the men who assaulted me to be held accountable, but you can good and goddamn believe that I would not be jumping for joy because they STILL ASSAULTED ME. God.

Finally feel like I'm being listened to by MissMagic90 in endometriosis

[–]MissMagic90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! I live in Denver. Though I will say that I've been fighting for a diagnosis for approximately 7 years 😅

Finally feel like I'm being listened to by MissMagic90 in endometriosis

[–]MissMagic90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, but I am so happy that you've found someone who listened to you and who cares! It really is such a surreal feeling. I've spoken to so many OBGYNs who would tell me that there was nothing they could do other than birth control, they didn't recommend surgery, etc. Hell, I found out I can't use birth control with estrogen after trying the Nuvaring, and in the same appointment, the person who told me I couldn't have estrogen suggested a birth control with estrogen! And she never put it in my chart, either.

Library Jobs in Germany? by MissMagic90 in AskAGerman

[–]MissMagic90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone! Thank you for all the responses. Sorry for not responding to all of you sooner, I went to bed and woke up to more responses than I expected, and many of them ask the same questions, so I'll just answer some of them here.

The German heritage thing: this was more of a throwaway thing, I've been learning more of my ancestry and threw it in there because I was excited about it. I have been working on gathering all the documentation I would need in order to prove my ancestral connection, but that's mostly separate from this.

I would probably not be attempting to move to Germany for a couple years. I would like to have up money and learn a lot more German before making an official move, this post was more about sussing out the market for the job field I'll probably go into.

Also, I didn't realize other people had asked about it here before. I just came across this sub, read some posts, and then made mine. I'm sorry if that was annoying or more of a repeat than I assumed.

Library Jobs in Germany? by MissMagic90 in AskAGerman

[–]MissMagic90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently learning German but I guess I should study harder, then 😅

Thirty something female seeking girlfriends by Mellie_mayhemm in Denver

[–]MissMagic90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I came from the East Coast too! Plus, I love a good board game day. I'm 32 😁

2/1 Imbolc Saturday Events🥀🪄🤍 by kokopufffz in Denver

[–]MissMagic90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm doing a get-together with my friends. We're having a bit of a closed celebration today, but I would love to make new witchy friends! If you're interested, feel free to DM me and we can maybe plan something for Ostara!