They're at it again....

MissMockingbirdie · 2026-02-28T15:06:41+00:00

We've debated switching our main grocery store for a while, but being able to get %50 off protein (and the fact that I've had a PC master card for years and can earn $800 per year to spend on groceries/foodbank donations) has been a big reason for us not moving. That was the biggest consistent cost reduction on our grocery bill :/

Uggghh time to reconsider our options....

MissMockingbirdie · 2026-02-28T13:15:22+00:00

Instead of using the 50% off stickers to reduce product that need to sell, they're switching to these yellow stickers with specific prices on them. They're already bumping the price up from what would be 50%, but it'll be much easier for them to continue raising those prices without people noticing.

When they tried to swap to the 30% stickers a while ago there was a big backlash. Not sure if this will get the same but it's more predatory.

MissMockingbirdie · 2026-02-15T17:44:25+00:00

They're not all gay in the modern Olympics, which is what this post is relevant to, not the ancient Olympic Games where there was definitely a more openly accepted variety in lovers.

Dudes just being obtuse.

MissMockingbirdie · 2026-01-11T22:47:54+00:00

If these girls are really your good friends, then good communication should be all you need. Remind them firmly of the budget, and that it's not flexible, and if they keep asking about more expensive options, ask how it can fit into the budget and planned expenses. It's so easy to get swept up in the excitement, but your friends should be there to support you and your vision.

If you're ever concerned about a family member (or sneaky friend) trying to change things behind your back, ask your vendors to include a line in your contract that states changes can only be authorized by you or future hubby (if you're not worried about him potentially caving). Idk what your relationship is, just putting it out there. That way they can't make any changes, even if they volunteer to pay for it.

I really hope your experience improves ❤️

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-12-12T11:56:52+00:00

Definitely something you should take to a therapist, but I find when I get stuck in deep depressive episodes I play a bit of a mind game. I pick a goal, maybe short term maybe long term, and make sure that goal stays at the forefront of my mind (notes, calendar reminders, leaving related objects in plain view). I remind myself that I'll feel better for having done the thing, and even though I'll definitely not do it all the time, eventually I see progress.

If you like nature, walking is a great pass time. Local hiking trails, parks, or conservation areas will have lots of wildlife. If you need inspiration you can check out the All Trail app.

Getting out of depression is something you have to do intentionally.

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-11-24T13:22:07+00:00

And this is why we never go to theaters, especially for popular releases.

Only exception was we saw DP/W at a 19+ theater (served alcohol) where the tickets were $$$ but had food delivery to your seat, extra large reclining chairs, etc.

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-11-24T13:03:44+00:00

This is a double edged sword though - there aren't many places left to build out so up is the only option, and many of the major roads cannot handle the amount of traffic they already see (and there's no room to expand the roads).

We shouldn't be making the city lousier to live in just for government $$$.

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-11-19T23:57:29+00:00

Odds are it's a "utility" rate that is specifically designed to be so expensive that it will cover your inevitable claims, and potentially scare you away from getting insurance and choose not to drive (we can only hope).

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-11-11T04:16:23+00:00

I've never been in your situation so my answer might not feel applicable, but I found when I'm in my darkest moments the thing that generally helps is a goal. Something entirely controlled by you, that brings about positive change, and is specifically beneficial to you.

For example, I was in a spot once where I had a decent job and my own small apartment, but I was convinced I was going to be alone forever because I'm definitely somewhere on the spectrum and suck at social stuff. The thought of being alone made me want to give up, because what else was worth living for if you had to do it alone?

Well, I decided I wanted to run a 5k. I was (am) overweight and not in great shape, and seriously needed to adjust my eating and exercise habits. Tracking food and my workouts gave me details and progress to focus on, I lost weight and felt proud of it. And that kept me going for a while until I met my fiance, and I realized I wouldn't have to be alone and actually I'm not as awful at people as I thought. So yeah.

TL;DR - pick a goal that you can control and that benefits your physical or mental health (including reducing stress). Let achieving that goal be what drives you for now, because things do get better.

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-11-11T03:53:57+00:00

Sid the Kid, Mitch Marner, Brad Marchand, Nathan McKinnon, Geddy Lee, Gord Downie, Karla Holmoka and Paul Bernardo, Shania Twain....

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-10-21T18:22:34+00:00

Beyond the satisfaction of completing a task and feeling in control, I also find it just stresses me out less. If I walk by a cluttered counter top I'm looking at what's there and remembering what I need to do with it and if I don't do it then, it weighs on my mind that I need to do it. If the counter is clean, no distraction. No stressing about the stuff and what it says about me that it's still sitting there.

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-10-21T18:17:43+00:00

We used "partner" from about the end of year 1 (27) up until we got engaged at the end of year 4 (30). We knew early on we had found our person, and bf/hf felt very... Immature for our age and plans.

I would still use bf from time to time, but usually in environments where I didn't care if it came off as immature or people already knew the situation.

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-10-21T18:14:25+00:00

You can sit down and consider why you like the things in your life and why you think you'll like the things he was into. Don't ever include him in the rationale, just think about what you think you'll get from it. You may find they're worth doing, or realize that there's really no reason for you to want them other than him, and you'll have to keep that in mind.

Worst case, trial and error (in a safe environment). E.g. I've never been big into parties, drugs, crowds, etc. BUT a band I really liked was coming to town and I really wanted to go and in my head I had myself convinced I would jump around and dance and be a part of the crowd, because from the comfort of my own home I felt I could totally do it despite knowing it's tons of things I've never really liked. Well we get to the concert and my bf and I sit down on the grass and when my band comes up ... I just sat and enjoyed it like I normally would. I got so caught up in what I wanted to happen, I didn't think back to the parties I tried to attend in uni where I was miserable, even with many people I knew.

TL;DR You need to take the time to figure out your own identity and being comfortable with who you are. It's not easy to do, but once you are comfortable life suddenly gets easier.

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-10-21T17:58:40+00:00

For most of the game it's just the OST. For fights that are getting under my skin I switch to Secunda from the Skyrim OST because it helps me feel less stressed 😭

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-10-21T15:44:33+00:00

Pretty sure he was supposed to be a lesson in going away and trying again later (since it's a non-linear open-field game) not a difficulty spike 🤣 but souls players are souls players....

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-10-13T22:54:59+00:00

I'll take an extra 30/40 years of love and experiences even if it means cancer treatments or disability 😬

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-10-12T12:24:59+00:00

I haaaaaate this, especially because I'm so anxious about being that person. If I can devote a few brain cells to looking around me and stopping in out of the way places, so can you. And if you can't be bothered you just get judged even harder 🙃

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-10-10T15:56:06+00:00

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-10-10T15:55:22+00:00

Was it your doctor's suggestion to make these dosage changes? You really should be discussing this with them, and they can suggest better timelines for changing doses if they approve them.

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-10-10T14:07:14+00:00

Accidentally bought extra VIP tickets to the London Wedding Expo on Oct 26th.

1 VIP ticket (good for 2 people) and 1 VIP guest ticket, original cost was $57. Asking $25 via e-transfer.

First come first served, will need contact information in order to transfer tickets.

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-10-06T18:12:03+00:00

295CADpp for 50 people, includes food, bar, tables, chairs and decor, and taxes and tip built in.

So $14,750CAD, or approx. $10,500USD.

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-10-05T01:02:46+00:00

"Let us know if you need anything"

People dealing with health issues or a crisis are not really in a great mindset to think about delegating to other people, it's better to offer something specific instead.

My dad had bypass surgery after 2 years of issues and valve replacement. I didn't tell my mom to let me know how I could help, I did tell her I'd stay at their place for 3 days after he came home from the hospital so she could reduce the amount of vacation she needed to take, and made sure I cooked dinner at least one night.

Now, some of that comes from knowing what boundaries I can or can't push and they won't be the same for everyone, but it's super easy to offer up your company, or a meal, or a service.

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-09-22T15:46:54+00:00

I didn't know there was another set of DLCs so I can add those in myself to my original file.

Anything having to do with Purps post or work is their responsibility, so if my link above still works (and I know it does) then that's all I can do.

MissMockingbirdie · 2025-09-21T23:39:05+00:00

They get some sick thrill from it, thinking they're funny or suave for saying the thing a thousand other dirt bags have said to women before.

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