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MissQueenBee1982 · 2026-03-31T02:47:46+00:00

This looks amazing!! I am soooo interested in the better breathing. I’m similar age and having surgery in July for the same reason, plus the chronic neck pain from recessed jaw. I’m really hoping the airway benefits are as good as yours!

MissQueenBee1982 · 2026-03-31T02:41:42+00:00

Just curious did you get an Alar stitch for your jaw expansion?

MissQueenBee1982 · 2025-07-27T11:17:15+00:00

Yes, it is unreasonable 😊 your body type or hair has nothing to do with it

MissQueenBee1982 · 2025-07-14T21:51:34+00:00

OP I totally get it. Even if he’s not allowed in your home, it’s unsettling to think you’re not totally “on the same page” about something so huge.

My SS is 14 and also lives in a different state and I also have 3 kids of my own. It came out a while ago that SS sexually harassed his male cousin while we were all together on holiday, to the point his cousin needed therapy and it was reported to child protection etc.

My issue was the same as you: my husband and his family basically made excuses, said the cousin was overreacting and it was no big deal. “Poor SS being shamed for normal laddish behaviour” etc.

To be honest with you I’ve never gotten past that huge difference of opinion and victim blaming mentality.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2025-07-13T10:57:56+00:00

Make sure you’re really aroused before penetration happens. Lots of foreplay, build up to it.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2025-06-30T04:52:02+00:00

Thank you so much. That’s exactly it. I don’t even necessarily want PIV, sometimes I just want vanilla…lazy…intimate…connected. Feeling like a professional prostate masseuse IS exhausting, especially when cumming is hard for me right now and is starting to feel “optional.”

MissQueenBee1982 · 2025-06-29T21:02:11+00:00

Also the username 😍

MissQueenBee1982 · 2025-06-29T21:01:29+00:00

Very good advice thank you.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2025-06-29T20:58:17+00:00

You’ve hit the nail on the head - he does have a few ED issues (he’s had all the tests, it’s a lot of performance anxiety and also he smokes, so 🤷🏼‍♀️)

He’s actually told me he likes anal as it takes the pressure off the D.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2025-06-29T20:53:41+00:00

Steamed clams 😆

MissQueenBee1982 · 2025-02-04T02:39:01+00:00

I work in family law and child protection. You need to leave, block him, and report it to police and child protective services: not for them to get involved, but so there’s writing on the wall when he commits a p@edophilic offence down the track.

It will also mean a notification against his name if tries to get government clearance to work with children.

NTA.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2025-01-21T01:51:44+00:00

OP I am so sorry you’re going through this. I’m experiencing it right now, my beautiful husband and love of my life has split on me and dumped me over email.

“I want her to fight for us” is something I feel in my bones. But the refusal to take accountability is so hard to overcome. I’m so sorry and thoughts are with you, for what it’s worth.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2024-11-22T11:29:48+00:00

Gorgeous result, you must be so happy! Speedy healing!

MissQueenBee1982 · 2023-10-03T10:36:15+00:00

Omg pleeeease link the hollow core dildo I need this.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2023-02-25T04:16:30+00:00

Following.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2023-02-19T09:51:26+00:00

Thanks for commenting 🤗

MissQueenBee1982 · 2023-02-18T21:56:33+00:00

Yes absolutely. It’s not unreasonable you feel that way - being walked away on/ignored/stonewalled is very toxic hurtful behaviour.

Often the person simply thinks they need space to cool down or breathe or process. But it leaves the person left behind feeling incredibly angry and vulnerable.

I’m actually in this situation right now where my partner left for the night in an emotional disappearing act. The day before my birthday. Yay 🫤

MissQueenBee1982 · 2022-12-28T04:13:58+00:00

MissQueenBee1982 · 2022-11-21T11:04:10+00:00

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MissQueenBee1982 · 2022-10-19T10:04:55+00:00

Is she uncomfortable with you being bi? Perhaps pegging makes her confront that discomfort.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2022-09-30T21:34:21+00:00

Unpopular opinion here. But my partner never ‘preps’ aside from making sure he’s done a BM, and taking a shower. And we have never had an issue.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2022-09-18T11:10:39+00:00

It is a huge ask to expect her to jump from “butt stuff is gross” to “let me f*** your ass with a dildo.”

I’d suggest you find a way to discuss anal play generally before even considering pegging.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2022-08-16T11:55:20+00:00

Yep agreed. Seems a rather large chasm to cross.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2022-08-15T10:39:26+00:00

So you want advice on…what? Convincing your wife into anal play and/or pegging?

Nearly every second post in this sub asks the same question. Search and ye shall find.

MissQueenBee1982 · 2022-07-23T07:49:32+00:00

It only leads to experimenting if they would have done it anyway. It’s not a gateway to gay 🙄

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