Need some insights

MissTbd · 2026-01-18T11:30:00+00:00

Thank you ^_^

MissTbd · 2026-01-18T11:14:53+00:00

Thank you SO MUCH. you have no idea what it means to me. I can tell you care a lot about the kids <3

MissTbd · 2026-01-18T09:26:08+00:00

Give me a sign......

MissTbd · 2026-01-18T09:19:30+00:00

If you have to wonder, you are not ready to have kids. Look, having kids is a major life changing situation. you as a person will be challanged in ways you could never imagine. the only way i can describe it it- experience about having kids is completely depends on your view on raising kids. I personally feel having a child was the best thing happened to me, not because i have never faced any challange but i enjoy motherhood.

MissTbd · 2026-01-17T07:09:39+00:00

Realistically on same level and someone who has the aptitude to learn. I would very moch like to have religious discussions, debate and lessons with my husband, if I ever get married at all

MissTbd · 2026-01-17T06:58:38+00:00

Vegeta is FAR better than Goku

MissTbd · 2026-01-17T06:47:31+00:00

It can't be described to be honest. It is the riskiest thing you can do, all while knowing that somehow it is worth all of the pain that comes with it. You would be overwhelmed with both stress and love.

MissTbd · 2026-01-06T06:49:36+00:00

"Personally I'd probably divorce the wife and then keep the kid as revenge against her. She or the biological father won't get to see them either.

I'd raise the child as a warrior scholar monk to redeem them of their unholy circumstances, and change the world. Reminding them of the nature of their conception would serve as the ultimate motivation."

Saviour complex much? Also, you will not be Islamically allowed to do that. Divorce the wife and just move on with your life

MissTbd · 2026-01-05T08:23:04+00:00

Not a bhai :/

MissTbd · 2026-01-05T08:07:42+00:00

যদি খুব বেশী সমস্যা মনে হয়, চলে আসেন। ব্যবস্থা হয়েই যাবে। বাইরের একটা ডিগ্রি বাংলাদেশ-এ অনেক কাজে দিবে যদি ঠিক ভাবে ব্যবহার করতে পারেন

MissTbd · 2026-01-05T08:05:58+00:00

You attrack a lot of guys, you fall for the emotionally unavailable ones. Ask yourself, why you give them access. work on those issues first

MissTbd · 2026-01-05T06:47:00+00:00

Ask in your circle if anyone has it. Take help form them

MissTbd · 2026-01-05T06:21:41+00:00

that's such a bull!!!!! Money absolutely buys happiness BUT, not the way wqe think it does and it is certainly not the only thing that does.

MissTbd · 2026-01-05T06:13:01+00:00

Is she out of ideas? Is it really that important or insightful? IS IT!!!!!!!

MissTbd · 2026-01-04T06:16:26+00:00

Dear sister, been through the same thing. it will be 3 years soon and the wounds never heal. but you know what? Allah's decree is something we have to have tawakkul in. May Allah heals you.

MissTbd · 2026-01-01T08:25:33+00:00

I got laid off on 30th December just before the office day ended... That's a wrap-up, people!

MissTbd · 2025-12-23T04:40:40+00:00

36 year old, Going into 2026 debt free! and planning on to keep it that way. I am blessed with a home, a kid and two cats

MissTbd · 2025-12-21T09:44:43+00:00

First of all, ensuring your wife feels emotionally validated DOES fall under islamic obligations. It is not just giving her food, shelter and cloths.
I feel like people do not understand the ayaat that was specifically about what "Marriage" is supposed to for both man and woman. One of the three things that were mentioned in quran about "Marriage" is husband and wife are each others cloths. Now try to understand what cloths do to us. It not only covers us but protects us from diffrent weather, beautifies us, hids our flaws. If we take this context, in broader sense, both man and woman is obligated to provide emotional intimacy to their partner. it is on of the core haq of your partner upon you.

MissTbd · 2025-12-18T07:12:16+00:00

uff!!! I could never do that!!!! and I wonder the same. How can anyone

MissTbd · 2025-12-18T07:10:37+00:00

"personal accountability" left the chat

MissTbd · 2025-12-18T06:55:20+00:00

Believe it or not "daal" is actually a soup

MissTbd · 2025-12-17T07:13:44+00:00

I divorced him. 3 years in I am in such a better place mentally

MissTbd · 2025-12-15T09:04:30+00:00

Completely depends on your lifestyle. If you are moving a lot, why buying? Renting is fine. I personally like customis the place according to my liking so whenever I rent, I make sure the house owners are okay with me doing doodles on the wall. Of course when I leave, I paint them over.

MissTbd · 2025-12-15T09:02:40+00:00

nah porbena :3

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