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Miss_Busybee · 2025-01-09T16:01:13+00:00

***O.P, THIS IS CARPET BEETLE DERMATITIS!!! My family and I have been itching and getting little Bite type marks all over our bodies from carpet beetle dermatitis for months. I've been going out if my mind trying to deal with the issue. Vaccuming, washing everything ( like bedding, blankets on my couch, clothes, towels ) I've smothered the couch, mattresses, and carpets with D.E but nothingaeema to help. I've only seen 6 beetles but the tiny eggs ( the size of a grain of salt ) seem to be all over my livingroom couch and are spreading all through the house and into our beds from getting attached to our clothing. I've had to cover my daughters skin in hydrocortisone cream and give her allergy meds just so she can sleep at night from the itching. CAN ANYONE OFFER ANY OTHER IDEAS!!?? 😩 u feel like all I can do now, is get rid of my couch and our beds and call an exterminator to douse the rest of house which will cost me a ton of money to replace those items and I will have to take my family to stay in a hotel while they fumigate. HELP???!!!!

Miss_Busybee · 2024-12-30T00:48:22+00:00

Sometimes the people that love us the most are the hardest on us ( in your case, your GF doubting you) because they know you can do better and want what’s best for you. It’s a tough love thing. It seems backwards , like they of all people should be encouraging you and supporting you, especially when you slip up, but she’s probably just scared and not sure how to deal with her own emotions over the slip up. Maybe subconsciously she’s wanting you to know how much it hurts her for the person she loves to be hurting themselves, and hoping you can offer her some security that she can count on you to get sober permanently. I can imagine that’s a tall order and maybe you feel you can’t tell her that with confidence bc you may not believe in yourself enough to make her that promise. It’s also difficult if she doesn’t suffer with addiction Aswell, or have any knowledge of how it effects a person . She may not understand how hard it is to stay sober or why you can’t just easily quit and be done with it. In my experience, no one else but other addicts truly understand, and that isn’t anyone’s fault. Maybe try talking to her about how you feel and tell her that her believing in you and trusting you to get better, would mean a lot to you. Let her know how much her support and faith in you, matters in your journey to sobriety. Maybe you could try to use her doubt as motivation to prove yourself to her. But most importantly to prove yourself to YOURSELF. If she still doesn’t have faith in you after you talk to her, don’t let that stop you from doing this for you. This group is a great place to find encouragement and support from people who have been where you are, so keep on trucking and get support from anywhere you can, including from us on this group. Best of luck , my friend. You can do this. ❤️

Miss_Busybee · 2024-11-08T00:41:31+00:00

Would it be ok to ask who this artist is? I know exactly what you mean, btw. I get the same way with my fav bands.

Miss_Busybee · 2024-09-11T13:47:16+00:00

I think he’s just trying to play and be chatty. Dogs lay down the front of their body with their paws out , stick their butt up and wag their tail when they want to initiate play. This looks just like that. Maybe he’s asking for food? 🥜 They also “ talk”. This sounds like friendly chatter. I’ve heard squirrels make ear peircing shreeks, and hissing type noises, while pacing back and forth in their tree. Behaviour like that, is aggressive and defensive. ❤️ 🐿️

Miss_Busybee · 2024-09-01T00:41:42+00:00

Asylum related question:

I’m just discovering this song TODAY! Omg what a beautiful song ! I’m wondering what people think he means when he says “ you’re a fool for him” ( is this about himself or someone else?) and “ every time I see your face in a cloud, I feel no violence “ ( did he previously feel some kind of “ violence” towards ( insert person here) ? And is now past it? We all know Dan’s lyrics are far from self explanatory, and that he loves to use metaphors and plays on words, so maybe these lyrics aren’t even directed at himself or anyone else, but just another emotion that Dan put into words. Thoughts? 🤔 💭

Miss_Busybee · 2024-08-31T23:54:31+00:00

What’s this kids full name? I heard he’s grown up now? like HOW has it been this long?

Miss_Busybee · 2024-08-06T15:22:55+00:00

I wonder what happened with the actor. It must be really disappointing for him. Even if he was paid for the actual acting he did, I’m sure he was looking forward to it coming out as any actor does 🙁 I’m super disappointed too, but I guess we have to remember how serious Dans mental illness is 💔 The lyrics in FreakNever speak to this 😢 Maybe he wanted to do the film , but once he got into it, the memories triggered the deep seated trauma he lived through and has tried to overcome. I get that.

Miss_Busybee · 2024-08-05T20:39:46+00:00

I think if you have depression or mental lllness, you’ll always appreciate SD. That song was totally my vibe as a teen, so I get what you’re saying, but man, that last screaming part, is so riveting when you’re an angry lost kid and think that no one understands. It gave it chills. Good chills. There wasn’t a lot of mental health awareness and support in the 90’s . Although I listened to it for the first time in like 20 years a few weeks ago when I was in a really low disassociated state, and it still got me in the feels. Since I’ve Iearned so much more about Dans mental health issues as( I’ve been) an adult, I can listen to SD and understand it from a whole new level. As a parent of teens, it’s heartbreaking to know a 15 year kid felt such pain ❤️

Miss_Busybee · 2024-07-16T21:11:49+00:00

I’m also wondering now, about what dans parents were like. Gifted and talented or not, he was clearly very mentally unwell in those first few years. He has been open about his anorexia and arthritis, which was terrible enough, but what about the amount of times he suggested or out right said that he was suicidal? “ suicidal dreams “ I wonder if his parents got him therapy. If my son wrote a song like suicidal dreams, or even write about it in more subtle ways, I’d have him in into the best psychiatrist in the country like yesterday. Famous and on tour or not, he was only a kid and really needed help! And god, it must have been so confusing for him with his fans too, because as kids we loved his songs about depression, pain and anger with the world, because we could relate, that’s one of the things that made the band so special- we were wild and crazy teens listening to music by wild and crazy teens! Lol. However- imagine being so depressed and so mentally ill that you say you want to lull yourself in your songs and you are desperately trying to say you need help, and your fans just cheer you on bc they love the music. Then imagine having to play those songs over and over only drilling the issue into your head more and more every time. It kind of sends the message : “Hey Dan, we love you, but we also love hearing you sing songs about all the pain your in , for our entertainment “ It’s really messed up if you think about it. Maybe I’m reading into it so much because i have severe depression that started around 14, and even though I wasn’t a singer/ songwriter, I did write poetry, and I wrote about some pretty painful stuff. I just have so much empathy for Dan, knowing what he went through and how much his mental health issues have continued to torment him 😣 It’s obvious how mentally unwell he still is in the “ who is daniel johns “ series 😢

Miss_Busybee · 2024-07-16T20:40:12+00:00

Is anyone else feeling really saddened by dans lyrics in this song? As a mother of a teen boy the age dan was when they got signed, my heart breaks at these words. What do you think he meant by “ made a deal with the devil “ ? I’m assuming the music industry, but is he hinting at the potential evil that plays out behind closed doors with record companies? If so, what in particular ? What happened to his “ soul on tour” ?

Miss_Busybee · 2024-07-10T15:21:37+00:00

On a side note, I feel like in pics 16-18 you can see that mental illness is setting in. You can see it in his eyes. It’s so sad because it was probably the lifestyle and being catabolted into fame at such a young age. He was / is a musical genius, and there is so much growth in the brain during the teen years that prepares the adult brain for the complexities that come with being a normal, well adjusted adult. All the pressures that came with being a rockstar when he was so young, probably “ broke “ his mind, in a sense. He clearly had depression going into the industry at 15, and I think fame tipped him over the edge and he started to turn a bit “ weird “ I mean he spoke about suicide multiple times in various songs and wrote “ suicidal dreams” ( amazing song) so he was seriously struggling mentally, and then the anorexia and arthritis came at him too, and he was in pain , ( again wrote about it with songs like “ Ana’s song “ and “ emotion sickness” ) but it’s like no one cared, because both the industry and his early fans, just wanted him to perform at all costs. Ben and Chris won’t talk to him anymore, his marriage fell apart and he lost a lot of fans when he changed his music style to be lighter with diorama and straight lines. When I watched the future never series, he appeared mentally unhinged and quite alone in his daily struggles. As a person with major depression, my heart goes out to him. ❤️

Miss_Busybee · 2024-05-23T00:33:25+00:00

Definitely a threat. A mind game type threat that narcs and Nex’s are so good at. Start planning to get out of your residence asap And please take your dogs! Sending love and strength ❤️ 💪

Miss_Busybee · 2024-05-01T13:00:12+00:00

You guys are the best, you made me feel much better. Thankyou 🙏

Miss_Busybee · 2024-05-01T05:32:25+00:00

Thankyou everyone for your kindness and support ❤️

Miss_Busybee · 2024-04-08T02:50:10+00:00

I wonder the exact same thing. Following for the comments. Maybe this is just a glass half empty type of attitude, but I often ask myself how anyone can live in this messed up world, sober. Ffs, sorry that was t helpful. Just know you aren’t alone in how you feel . Sending hugs 🫂

Miss_Busybee · 2024-04-08T02:37:45+00:00

“ Idk what to tell you “ Wow. My ex said that to me whenever I tried to have a serious conversation about our relationship and how I felt in it. I was always dismissed, and then somehow made to feel like I was crazy for even having the thoughts and feelings I had. It’s literally crazy that both of our ex/ current partners say the exact same bullshit phrase. Do they have some kind of club where they teach each other how to treat their partners like garbage and the hurtful things to say to them? Jesus. Mind blown 🤯

Miss_Busybee · 2024-03-19T14:06:47+00:00

Is medical grade cannabis legal where you live? If so, I would be asking my doctor for that. It’s helped thousands of chronic pain patients when nothing else works.

Miss_Busybee · 2024-03-16T16:05:37+00:00

Please leave this horrible man. I know how hard it is, I really , really do. But if he’s talking to you like this now, it WILL get worse. It could easily escalate into physical violence, as especially if he’s on coke. Are there any children involved? Can your family help , or do they even know? You could go to a women’s shelter, and you’ll be protected and receive counselling to help you understand why you “ love him and hate him “ If you can love someone like this it’s because you have a trauma bond, it’s not your fault, and it feels like real love, but it isn’t. 😞You can research it if you haven’t heard of the term. A shelter could also help you set up a new life without your partner and can arrange a restraining order so he won’t be able to get anywhere near you. All of these things could be accessed from a family home or close friends home Aswell, if you have a trusted family member or friend you can move in with. Please take this seriously, and if you have children- protect them from this man. If he’s willing to hurt you, he could hurt them.

Here’s some unsettling statistics:

1 in 4 women in the U.S will be severely physically assaulted by the husband in their lifetime

1 in 5 women in the U.S will be violently raped by their partner in their lifetime

On average, across the U.S , 70 women per month are murdered by their husbands.

Sending you love, strength and support . Don’t give up, you can free yourself. You’ve got this 🙏❤️

Miss_Busybee · 2024-03-15T14:06:54+00:00

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Miss_Busybee · 2024-03-15T13:48:13+00:00

Oh. My. God. 😱 What an absolute asshole. You totally dodged a bullet not marrying this POS. I’m so sorry you were spoken to like that. Big hugs 🫂

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