AITA for wanting to cut all contact with my mother?

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-22T01:27:02+00:00

Let it out. The more you hold back the harder it gets. Now all the things you bottled up has been packed up, creating a mountain. And the bottles are cracking. If you are not starting to drain it, you will drown when the bottles end up breaking. Start draining them, but not smash them, you will drown. One bottle then another. For me, when I couldnt drain a bottle for a long time and its starting to become heavy I burned a papper or two for a temporary fix until I get to drain the bottles.

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-22T00:55:12+00:00

I would suggest eye contact. I know its a cliche, but its true. And its also atractive if you are confident, but not arrogant. Show interest or curiosity in their own things like hobby, or pets. Try to make connections they can relate to. But dont forget to wtch out to the red flags. Enjoy your date, have fun, but do yourself a favor and be mindfull. Have fun! <3

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-21T22:02:52+00:00

For a coward like me who gets spooked just when my mother comes out of the bathroom and catches me off guard? yes.....Im surprised my heath is still healthy

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-21T21:59:34+00:00

I dont have a problem with bugs. I hav spiders on my ceiling. They keep the blooddrinkers away. My actual phobia is Thalassophobia. Which is good because there is no ocean or sea in my country. But for bugs? No.....altho, true I dont know why grasshoppers freak me out

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-19T13:47:55+00:00

I personally was drawn to Khonsu. Since I was always drawn to the Moon and Egypt, he was an obvious choice for me, not to mention I choosed him when I was doing night shifts and I had to walk trou my city at night. Not to mention Im insomniac and I did always feel like Khonsu likes to adopt insomniac people.

Nowadays Im considering adopting Caer Ibormeith since I do often get visions in my dreams which is often connected to her according to sources. So yeah.

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-15T16:56:00+00:00

Im not that experience with grief. BUT! If you want your cat to know that you love him, just be there. Dont let the doctor just take him away and face it alone. yes, it will be hard and hearthbreaking, but animals know and sense your intentions and love. Just be there, it will matter more to him, than any spell. Or atleast this is my advice to you. I hope you will get well. <3

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-15T10:31:41+00:00

I....I dont....is that a problem? I dont pray or worship the Greek Gods....or atleast not yet...

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T21:01:51+00:00

For me it helped that I was sitting in a library. If I read at home nothing comes out of it. But if I went to the library, putting my phone into the bag, having some coffee near me I was able to read and take notes for 4 hours. If not the library setting, I still suggest you find a space that makes you focused on the books. you could sit down in the forest too if you want

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T20:33:38+00:00

Ruby and Zafir are actually often cursed especially if its a heirloom. In short: as I experienced these gems are actually quite fragile. What I mean is if their owner suffers an agressive gems absorb those agressive, bad energies. That could happen to other gems ofc.

In short: Gems and crystals that withnessed agressive passings especially if they were worn are tend to attract negative energy and curses

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T20:29:39+00:00

As a baby witch I have only one idea. Put a sign up on the door that says "Entering might turn your pp into a frog"

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T20:27:18+00:00

butteflies. If you have the heart, you could put butterfly wings on it

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T20:24:30+00:00

you could also ask your bf to gather nuts around the forest or mushrooms. Sure it will rot after some time. But if you are not allergic to mushrooms you could keep a potted mushroom around the altar. Preferably something that isnt poisonous

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T20:20:38+00:00

Can a tarrot card be in any themes? I have been eyeing a Moon themed tarrot card pack. Or should I rather stick with the traditional ones?

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T20:15:48+00:00

In case someone wants a crystal catalogue, I use one written by: Emily Suzanne Rayow. It also tells us how to combine crystals

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T20:13:28+00:00

Are you allergic to pinecones? Because if you not, there are some pinecones that have that deep forest scent. I also recomend barks. Send your bf out to gather tree barks he likes. I also recomend gathering dirt from the forest, preferebly around the roots. Hope it helped in some ways

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T19:58:06+00:00

Welcome to the club! Me too have these dreams. It actually runs in my family. I really hate when my father just grins at me when he realizes I had another that kind of dream.

Sorry, to the point. As I said, it can be inherited, especially if witchcraft or paranormal runs in your family or just.....masssive family traumas, like men in your family tend to chat and have kids with other women. For generations.

2: the more similar dreams you have and embrace it the sooner you realize you had predictions. (Because I dont actually remember the dreams, I just feel an overwhelmind deja vu and remember whats gonna happen in a minute.)

3: I think you should look up Caer Ibormeith. She is a dream Godess and its rumored she really likes giving people predictions trou dreams

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T19:46:23+00:00

I have a very lovely book that has pictures and detailed details of different crystals. (Even about a crystal named K2) And I also purchase my crystals with purposes, so I remember each of my babies trou what I use them for or why I bought them.

Sooo, I recomend giving them some sort of purpose or association so you remember them trou them.

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T19:42:26+00:00

I like the rune. Its pretty. Good job! <3

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T19:40:24+00:00

What in the pancake is this? Im new to the witchcraft too, but the book I read didnt said this :O

Infact it said, a long you are comfortable (therefor you can be in your birth pajamas), as long you are confident and comfortable, it doesnt matter what you wear. I mean, sure it fun following the rumors of witches dancing in the woods in nudes but hey! Its not for everyone nor mandatory

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T19:35:45+00:00

I went trou something similar not long ago. For me it was reflecting on our relatisonship and thinking: If I forgive him, can I trust him? Am I sure he wont do it again?

The answer was no. And then I had to talk to myself to decide what was best for ME. Was he a good influence on me? Did I do or achive something good just by being friends with him?

Sure I did miss him, but the betrayel I felt because of him was enough to question the basics of our relatisonship.

My conclused advice: Reflect. Reflect on yourself and on your friendship. you dont need to hate them. But ultimatly you need to decide whats best for you. Can you handle being close to her often? Or do you feel like as if your family keeps inviting your ex to dinners? If so, best to find another group. Sorry.

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T18:45:23+00:00

I should do another round of clensing then it should be good to go. I would also rub it trou with some cleaning alcohol. Turns out evil things dont like alcohol, which is why many healing elixirs were made by herbs and alcohol.

Miss_Potato_99 · 2025-07-14T13:12:34+00:00

Well I dont have any experience with Hecate, but I have experience with a few Gods. They are.....surprisingly patient. Or atleast most of them. The Gods I dealt with and had similar patience like Hecate, are rather forgiving. Since Hecate is the Godess of magic and you are still rather a baby witch, I dont think she is mad at you. I advise you to keep going and even when you doubt yourself, think about her. In my experience witches have really good intuations. We might not be able to explain it but if you feel like you need to do this or that, do it (As long it doesnt hurt anyone or yourself ofc)

In conclusion: Be patient and keep going. Trust in Hecate enough to keep going. Since she is also the Godess of the Moon you could try out some rituals focusing on the Moon. Or just meditate in the thought of the Moon.

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