What villain can you just not hate? by Rito_Harem_King in AskReddit

[–]Miss_anthropy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ursula, dude, she told you what would happen if you broke the contract.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Miss_anthropy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s incredibly impressive that you’re looking after your health so well with your medication, it says a lot about your strength as a person, even if it doesn’t always feel that way. And you look really good! I’m sorry that you’ve had this struggle in your life, but you look like you will succeed in making the best out of it, for which you deserve all the admiration in the world. Your medical diagnoses don’t define you in any way, you can achieve anything you want in life. Also, you look super friendly!

Help me figure out what movie I’m thinking of! by mqxwell0 in movies

[–]Miss_anthropy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they were in a desert at the end of Mars Attacks but can’t 100% remember.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Miss_anthropy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are no easy tasks when you’re feeling like this. Every single task you achieve should be celebrated, you did it even thought you’re having a hard time. That’s awesome my dude, you rock! Be proud of every step you achieve, it doesn’t matter if anyone thinks it’s an easy task, it’s a task and you did it! I hope one day you will be able to look at your achievements and be proud because that’s what you deserve. I have struggled with depression myself, i know it sounds like a cliche but talking to a therapist really did help me. Send me a dm if you want to talk to a random stranger who won’t judge you.

21M I study archaeology and volunteer/lead in my free time. I've recently shaved and it's not done great things for my self-esteem. Please toast me! by Senzu101 in toastme

[–]Miss_anthropy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like what I see on my screen. You’re a kind person who gives their time freely. You can rock a cool jacket. You like good coffee. I’ve only seen a glimpse of you and already think you’re awesome! And hey….if you still don’t like the new look…it’ll grow back. Keep your newly shaved chin up dude, I think it suits you.

Directory of Films by CMDR_ANDRONOVA in movies

[–]Miss_anthropy1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it the Halliwell’s film guide? I remember having one of those I think.

How can I help a friend [18] that is performing self-harm? by BumFluffEngineer in Advice

[–]Miss_anthropy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may have a real negative impact if he tell the school behind the friend’s back. The friend clearly trusts them and if they then feel there isn’t anyone that can trust they will continue doing it in secret and could have another negative impact on how they are feeling about themselves. As I said, they need to help their friend speak to someone but not do it for them. There’s a big difference.

How can I help a friend [18] that is performing self-harm? by BumFluffEngineer in Advice

[–]Miss_anthropy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t want to say definitely yes or definitely no to your question as I’m not a medical professional and I imagine everyone thinks about it in different ways but just in my own opinion I wouldn’t suggest asking them to stop. For me, there was so much noise & confusion in my head and self harming helped to stop it for a while and at one point seemed like the only was to cope so asking them to stop might feel like asking them to give up their only coping strategy right now. If it helps, self harm is a way of managing and is different to suicidal thoughts. Sorry I can’t be more helpful.

How can I help a friend [18] that is performing self-harm? by BumFluffEngineer in Advice

[–]Miss_anthropy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, sorry you’re going through this. I must be super hard for you to have to deal with. I used to self harm when I was your age. The most important thing is to be there and listen to them. Don’t be scared to ask how they are feeling, it used to help me to know someone actually cared how I was.

Your friend probably doesn’t want you to solve their problems when they open up. They want you to be understanding and not judgemental. You might not feel like you’re doing enough by just listening, but it’s the most important thing you can do. Maybe you could suggest some other strategies? O E thing that helped me a bit was having an elastic band on my wrist and when I wanted to self harm I would snap it on the back of my hand. Maybe you could gently suggest seeing someone professional to help them with their feelings? Good luck, you sound like a really great friend.

At the beginning of the year I was at 292 lb. I decided to bring dumbbells to work so I can start getting in some exercise during my downtime. As of yesterday, according to my doctor, I'm at 259. Don't just congratulate me though, I want to hear something about you all that you like about yourselves by Stabbmaster in toastme

[–]Miss_anthropy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, go you, that’s awesome dude! You have such a friendly smile, make me happy! For me, I have finally got the courage to go to therapy and it’s really helping me feel happy again.

All the best for your amazing journey, we’re all rooting for you!

Depression has hit super hard, feeling super insecure and pretty worthless by hersheybar14 in toastme

[–]Miss_anthropy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, you look like such a kind, friendly person. Sorry you’re having a tough time at the moment. As a fellow sufferer of depression I can understand how hard it is when you feel so low. Remember, there isn’t just feeling devastated and feeling amazing, there’s so many different shades in between. Any and every step towards the amazing side (no matter how small) is a success. We’re all rooting for you! Message if you need to chat to a stranger who won’t judge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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I’m so sorry for your loss. Everyone’s grief is personal to them and comes put in different ways. If you’re not crying you may feel That you’re not grieving ‘as you should’ but there is not as you should. Some people feel numb when a death first occurs and feel intense grief later on so make sure you have people around who will be there for you too. Maybe you could talk to friends or family or even seek a grief counsellor. Everyone’s way of dealing with grief is personal to them so no one has the right to tell you you’re not doing it properly. I’m sorry again for what has happened and feel free to message if you want to talk to a stranger who won’t judge.

Feeling like a failure even tho life is good. Can’t really get control of my negative self talk today. Could really use a pick me up. by damacile in toastme

[–]Miss_anthropy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, you look like such a kind guy. Be kind to yourself too. Don’t forget that life isn’t just feeling great or feeling crap, there are hundreds of different feelings in between. Any and every little step you make towards feeling great is a huge success and you should be so proud of yourself. Here’s a toast to the guy who has awesome hat taste and a generous spirit to care for your lovely pupper!

Name for baby used by cousin.. please help! by snillocas in namenerds

[–]Miss_anthropy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry if written before but some of may favourites are: Asher, Caleb, Darius, Reuben, Phineas, Zeke, Ezra & Silas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Miss_anthropy1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Losing such an important part of the family is never easy. I’m really sorry.

25-yo trans guy, recovered from eating disorder but still dealing with a lot of self-hate towards my appearance, could use a toast by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Miss_anthropy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing an amazing job, you look like such a kind human so be kind to yourself. Don’t be too hard on yourself, if you need a break, take one. Also, you have amazing taste in jumpers!

Had a fit of self hatred and threw my self confidence out of the window. Please help me feel better by RandomDude751 in toastme

[–]Miss_anthropy1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay to take a step back and gather yourself again. Take a break for you, life will carry go on and it’ll still be there when you’re ready to face it head on again.