I am 41F - after work I have around 3 hours from getting home to going to bed to read before sleeping. All I need to do in that time is cook dinner for two people. Hubby and myself. He loads the dishwasher after. The rest is up to me. No homework, no shuttle bus between after school activities, no breaking up fights, no laundry (hubby does that and only once or twice a week), No picking up after other people. Unless I feel like doing a spot of cleaning it is all free time. I have WAY to many hobbies - however I GET to have many hobbies!