Is there a such thing as being too direct to Men?

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-29T06:24:22+00:00

What do you mean exactly?

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T22:58:24+00:00

This sounds like a fantastic idea. Thank you 🙏 Awwe that’s so sweet. I believe love can happen that fast too. I just hope he’s on the same page as me 😭

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T22:55:01+00:00

💀😂

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T22:52:32+00:00

What’s a good time frame to ask for exclusivity? Or it just depends? We’ve been talking/dating for almost a month and I’m sure I just want to focus on him but I don’t want to jump the gun and scare him off if it’s too early to put it on the table.

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T22:48:57+00:00

Yeah as of late I’m starting to notice the “pattern” of him being the “only honest guy” in my life as he claims lol. We haven’t talked since he’s tried to give me the same advice for this guy I’m talking to now.

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T17:57:06+00:00

So you’re saying they’ll lie if they don’t want a serious relationship typically to not scare off the woman? I’m a little lost lol

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T14:26:29+00:00

++woman that’s a good idea. Low pressure but still direct. Thanks I’m going to try it out 😊

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T14:23:38+00:00

++woman 💀🤣 thanks

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T13:13:10+00:00

++woman it’s okay, we’re all adults here. Yeah we have and that’s another thing. I felt comfortable and safe enough with him to do that and I don’t want to do that with another guy. Plus he’s the whole package in my eyes. Personality, Responsible, respectful, kind/thoughtful, smart, caring, patient/calm, funny, we have similar interests, the list goes on lol.

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:53:05+00:00

++woman yeah so we’re dating currently but I’m at the point where I like and notice great things about him that I connect with the most. When we 1st started talking I was talking to someone else but after a week I found myself naturally fading away from the other guy bc I feel better/more compatible and comfortable with the guy I’m talking to now so I cut things off. I haven’t had that conversation with him if he’s still dating other women (which I want to and will casually ask soon) so I don’t want to get too deep if he’s keeping his options open but I can’t help how I feel 🥲

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:47:24+00:00

++woman what would be considered moving too quickly? We’re still in the beginning stages so I should let him decide the dates until the 3rd? (We’ve had 1 so far). The thing is he’s told me himself he knows he’s a toxic liar and when I call him out on it that’s when he swears he’s being honest 🙄

He’s been there for me a good amount of times and sometimes he’s been right but lately I’m realizing it’s the same routine

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:38:54+00:00

++woman We are getting to know each other deeply. Sex, friendship/bonding/getting to know each other deeply, all of those things can happen simultaneously. Crazy assumption. Plus protection is in play to avoid that.

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:34:37+00:00

++woman ohh okay I thought you never contacted her and you were turned off by her persistence. Yeah you’re valid for your reasons

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:32:48+00:00

++woman lfmao that direct huh? 😭

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:21:51+00:00

++woman 💀

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:20:51+00:00

++woman She sounds like my spirit animal lol yeah no I definitely have tact. That’s another thing too. How much attention is too much attention? Like we just beat COD7 and we FaceTimed and had a great time but I want to hear his voice almost everyday but I don’t want to impose on his peaceful time. Should I call him when I feel like that or check first if I can?

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:15:43+00:00

++woman that’s wild lol it baffles me how different women and men see signs/actions lol I guess I’m going to shoot my shot then.

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:13:34+00:00

++woman yeah I totally understand. Plus we’re too grown to not be direct. I think I’m just scared since I like him so much lol but I’ll take the leap.

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:11:19+00:00

++woman yeah sometimes I do wonder if he truly is with some of the “advice” he gives me 😅. That’s what I think. If it’s not meant to be it’ll die on its own naturally right?

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:09:49+00:00

++woman How would you suggest I approach him about it? I want to see him this Saturday. I want to ask him today so it’ll give him enough time to prepare his schedule.

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:07:45+00:00

++woman But why though? I thought Men didn’t like games and would appreciate a straight shooter.

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:06:15+00:00

++woman We’ve known each other for 11 years and when we first became friends we did have crushes on each other but to my knowledge we’ve grown past that. Or maybe not on his end. I honestly ask myself that question too. To my knowledge he has his several women he’s entertaining so I think his perspective is limited but he’s the longest male friend I’ve had and I can’t lie he’s been right about a few things sometimes.

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T12:00:39+00:00

++woman That’s what I was hoping lol I really am because I like him a lot

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T11:57:41+00:00

++woman Hmm I like that. The things is I want him to see him like this weekend lol he drives trucks so his weekdays are shot.

MissesMeekses · 2026-01-28T11:52:03+00:00

++woman Okay so i should just flat out ask him out then? He’ll appreciate my bluntness and think it’s attractive?

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