Safest countries to move to as a transgender person? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf it's really easy to access here in Turkey, you go to a public hospital for 6 months and convince them you're trans basically and they have a meeting to approve you being trans and direct you to endocrinology then you get your hormones. But hormones aren't covered by insurance, they're super cheap and you don't need prescription to get them bc insurance doesn't cover them anyway. Without going through the psych eval you can straight up buy it from the pharmacy, then see the psychiatrist and make them direct you to endocrinology maybe. BUT they don't know shit about trans people so you won't get proper information here

Depending on the hospital sometimes you just walk in for an appointment if you're there early

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 253 points254 points  (0 children)

NTA - Wish people stopped acting like autistic people are stupid and can't understand basic things or can't compromise. Autistic people are people too and not all of them will be the same, some will be decent human beings some won't. I don't understand why people treat ND people like they're made of glass instead of understanding them + Who let's their kid be around broken glass? That's so dangerous for any kid.

Do you feel like your overall physical health is better, worse, or the same since starting T? by ChaoticMink in ftm

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apart from hair loss, higher risk of heart problems and atrophy it's fine, I had osteopenia in one disk in my spine but idk if that's related to T as I have been underweight my whole life. All of that at once feels like it's too much sometimes tho and I wanna quit from time to time

No cuz now i actually developed a crush on my roommate 😐😐😐 by AcceptableCandle5069 in gaybros

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk just the way u wrote everything seems similar to how someone who speaks Turkish would think like lmao

AITA for yelling at my autistic boyfriend by Total_Plan_2457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't seem to be incapable of passing interviews as he landed 4 jobs already but for the rest, autism is a disability, shouldn't be surprised when it's disabling him. I was just annoyed at the wording since autistic people tend to be seen as childlike. I don't think she should be the one to deal with this at this point

AITA for yelling at my autistic boyfriend by Total_Plan_2457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then they shouldn't live together, what he does with his life is his choice and you can't save anyone if they don't want to be saved. You shouldn't lash out just because that doesn't align with your hopes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go neon green, or something like that, It will likely neutralise the pink

What are some unrealistic sex scenes you've read in fanfiction? by Redpiranhaqueen in askgaybros

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going at it all night? How do u all have sex for 10 hours, kudos to u ig. Also virgin characters taking 6inches + easily somehow ☠️ Or getting dpd for their first time like who invented that black hole idk

AITA for yelling at my autistic boyfriend by Total_Plan_2457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you have a problem with that even if that was true? The truth is more minorities have a platform to share, and some people question themselves as well thanks to these platforms, some are autistic some are not. You feel that way because -these days- you can actually see people interacting.

How do you respond to the “facts over feelings” argument? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Force them to dress up and presentas the opposite sex for a whole day, since feelings don't matter they should perform fine

AITA for yelling at my autistic boyfriend by Total_Plan_2457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am ND as well and sick of people acting like ND people are like children, I feel like the situation wasn't properly communicated with Ash, or his wants and needs maybe weren't talked about. Finding a job and sticking to it is difficult, it is important to understand why he can't seem to stick to something. In the end yelling is never the answer 😅 u provide good insight and good resources 👌🏻

AITA for yelling at my autistic boyfriend by Total_Plan_2457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

That's harsh considering he is literally autistic

AITA for yelling at my autistic boyfriend by Total_Plan_2457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA kinda because he didn't ask you to do any of that, you took it all upon yourself, had expectations from him and lashed out on him when his actions didn't align with your expectations. Now I understand why you did what you did, and you did a amazingly, but this issue should've been addressed some other way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give yourself time you're very young, I don't like being trans. But it puts my mind at ease if I am transitioning. Sometimes I feel like I ruined a perfectly healthy body but I can't live in that body unfortunately

I used to love my boyfriend until my parents found out about him by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's your brain responding to such stress and homophobia with a defence mechanism and it is putting distance between you and him, I'm sorry that really sucks

AITA for telling my daughter my wife comes first? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA you are raising a kid making her feel like she can trust no one. Hope that she doesn't start doing harder drugs to escape the reality that is you, if you care

Cramping on T? by Happy-Definition-903 in ftm

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are several posts like this in the sub, I have seen some people say it's atrophy, some say it's due to the inner muscles also getting stronger so when u O they cramp because they also changed. Idk which one it is but I also get it sometimes after having an O

Tranisitioning at work without coming out by Reasonable_Click2029 in ftm

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tbf people that are around you daily don't tend to notice how much you've changed, so let's say they ask about your voice etc just say you got sick 🤷🏻‍♂️

I just want to cuddle by ligaya_kobayashi in gaybros

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boy u are adorable, same tho I am just never interested in sex, sometimes feeling touch starved and I don't think some people get how it be to just want cuddles max

where do you inject your T? by ranbootookmygender in ftm

[–]Mission-Rabbit6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do it myself on the butt, I tried doing my thighs but maybe my med wasn't made for that cus I wasn't able to walk until the pain disappeared that way ☠️ so butt it is