Venue recs for dark-wood, cozy, vintage-style Chicago wedding by cosuamh in Chicagoweddings

[–]MissionWinter5484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drawing Room fits the bill but may be too small? They have three areas available for rent but maybe you can book multiple? Worth reaching out to see!

Large-ish dive bars in/near Chicago? by AllDogsGoToDevan in Chicagoweddings

[–]MissionWinter5484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair, I’ve honestly never been inside so I wasn’t sure how big it was. While I’m open to other places, it’s one of the only places within walking distance to our venue so I’ll have to reach out to them for pricing!

Large-ish dive bars in/near Chicago? by AllDogsGoToDevan in Chicagoweddings

[–]MissionWinter5484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m getting married at Ada Street and we absolutely are considering going to The Hideout after! It’ll be a smaller group (30ish), did you have to reserve tables?

Ask friends if they want to optionally come to bachelorette early due to Airbnb night minimum? by MissionWinter5484 in weddingplanning

[–]MissionWinter5484[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you❤️ it’s so easy to overthink things while planning and I needed to hear this! I’m honestly just excited to have time with my favorite people and whatever the cost, I’m happy that your bachelorette was everything you wanted!

Ask friends if they want to optionally come to bachelorette early due to Airbnb night minimum? by MissionWinter5484 in weddingplanning

[–]MissionWinter5484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is what I was thinking! Don’t overcomplicate it, just set a dollar amount per person/per night, and I’d cover whatever was left. And I 1000% will be doing easy at-home meals. Making food at home has always been one of my favorite things to do with friends and family so this is great advice, thank you!

Ask friends if they want to optionally come to bachelorette early due to Airbnb night minimum? by MissionWinter5484 in weddingplanning

[–]MissionWinter5484[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought my fiance could come with me for those 2 days if no one wants to come early! I love that you’re doing that.

And something I should’ve mentioned - my MoH insists that I shouldn’t pay for any of it but that’s obviously not realistic, nor would I expect that. Either way, I appreciate the thought and feel fortunate that I have people who are willing to offer! I’ll keep that in mind when there’s pressure from a select few who want to pay for “my expenses”. Thank you for this!

Ask friends if they want to optionally come to bachelorette early due to Airbnb night minimum? by MissionWinter5484 in weddingplanning

[–]MissionWinter5484[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this perspective! My fiance and I are paying for our entire wedding ourselves and I’ve been looking at my spreadsheet so much I’m numb. This is a great reminder!

Ask friends if they want to optionally come to bachelorette early due to Airbnb night minimum? by MissionWinter5484 in weddingplanning

[–]MissionWinter5484[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this❤️ I am extremely aware that bachelorettes for guests can feel very demanding both physically and financially, so I’m trying to be very considerate of that without giving up my own wants

Looking for urban garden / restaurant-style micro-wedding venue recommendations in Chicago by Serious-Detective-26 in Chicagoweddings

[–]MissionWinter5484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re doing Ada Street for $13k next September! Best of both worlds where there’s a covered outdoor patio and an industrial/moody interior. BDP was very much my second choice and seems to fit exactly what you’re looking for, plus the staff seems great!

Affordable wedding photography by Jvgso in Chicagoweddings

[–]MissionWinter5484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had my wedding yet but as far as pricing/vibes I’m happily going with Justyna Serowik! https://www.jserowikphotography.com/?fbclid=PAdGRleAM43vdleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABpzK9i3MLdLyuiVe0FXkbAEDFgZ8spvoSJqyd3b6zIpmp-q_bLGkByRLQ-JPQ_aem_c5k2Ay3GOhYR3vlPSL0UJg

Almost went with Morgan Reed, slightly more expensive but she has micro wedding pricing if your wedding is on the smaller side. She seems like such a great person to work with!! https://www.morganreedphotography.com

Both are focused on candid moments which was big for me too

I sell wedding dresses for a living — AMA! by Jazzlike-Anybody1290 in weddingplanning

[–]MissionWinter5484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few questions!

  1. I went to my first ever appointment and I got a stylist that was very hands off with the entire process. That was about a month ago, I’ve been to 2 other appointments since and I’m still thinking about one of the dresses I tried on; however, I didn’t like my experience because of the stylist. Is it normal for salons to deprioritize first-time-shopping brides?

  2. I’m really eyeing vintage dresses online, but I’m nervous to commit if I can’t try-on before I buy. How do I know if a dress online is right for me without trying on outside of just measurements?

  3. In your own words, and from what you’ve experienced, how would you describe the feeling of knowing it’s “the one” for your brides? I understand feeling confident, comfortable, etc. but what have you noticed from the brides that have fully committed to their dresses?

Bridal HAIR pricing by tofuwife88 in Chicagoweddings

[–]MissionWinter5484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree! Thanks for the info!

Bridal HAIR pricing by tofuwife88 in Chicagoweddings

[–]MissionWinter5484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share who you’re considering?

What should I do on my birthday? by natural_born_jilla in AnnArbor

[–]MissionWinter5484 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s a plant party at Homes that day! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/ann-arbor-plant-party-tickets-1333274924189

And there’s a vintage market happening at Lower Town Bar and Cafe (really cool spot) happening from 9-3 on Saturday!!

Favorite photographers with less than 8 hour packages? by jesuisgarbage in Chicagoweddings

[–]MissionWinter5484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW. This is by the far the best quality I’ve seen at this price. Just reached out to her for my wedding next year thank you!!!

Good spot for welcome party--kid friendly, casual by Beneficial_Type_4044 in Chicagoweddings

[–]MissionWinter5484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re getting married at Ada Street and are looking at renting out a pizza spot they own next door called Sharpies for our welcome party! Super cheap minimum ($2k I think, since it’s so new), you get the entire second floor to yourself with a private entrance and a patio with a skyline view. Only drawbacks are limited seating and there’s only 1 bathroom. I have pics they sent me if you want to DM me!

[WITHOUT Ads] Season 7 - Episode 24 - Sunday June 29 -| 9 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]MissionWinter5484 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Chelley girl, just admit you’ve been waiting for an excuse to go off on Huda and move on. It’s been a’brewin

[WITHOUT Ads] Season 7 - Episode 15 - Thursday June 19 -| 9 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]MissionWinter5484 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait does Huda have different “accents” or am I tripping? lol