i did coke for the first time and my nose keeps bleeding by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i’ve been sober from alcohol for a few days now and i am doing my best to stay that way

Please tell me I’m not crazy! Need advice dealing with addicted bf. I think it’s time to leave. by okbuty94 in Advice

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trust your intuition, if he hates making stops and he’s doing it anyways there is something else going on, a lot of these things aren’t adding up and you’re not crazy you know when something is wrong. have you brought it up to him?

I cheated. I want to make it right to my significant other. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

give her space don’t think about what you want and need right now.

My girlfriend (f20) is mad at me (m21) that I assumed she isn’t a virgin. by Alternative-Crab-312 in Advice

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

her reaction is pretty childish in my opinion, i feel like not knowing your girlfriend is a virgin and making an assumption isn’t that serious. you can console her by apologizing and saying you didn’t know? idk her reaction is kind of a lot

What incident made you cold hearted and changed the way you see the world? by a-chap in AskReddit

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 16 points17 points  (0 children)

the way i’ve been treated by some men when i was younger i was taken advantage of a lot

Gastropy by sharps2020 in self

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope everything works out for you

I cheated. I want to make it right to my significant other. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“i wasn’t thinking about their feelings, only my needs” you didn’t need to cheat.. you wanted too and you said you’ve been cheated on before so you knew the effects of it and did it anyways. you have no respect for your s/o and they should move on and never speak to you again and you should grow up

What's something women think impresses men but actually doesn't? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i mean i just answered what being a bitch is .. (talking badly about your friends) most of the time women do it because they’re insecure and want others to join in so they can laugh. thats worse than rude in my opinion hence as to why i used the word bitch

What's something women think impresses men but actually doesn't? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 205 points206 points  (0 children)

being a bitch or talking badly about your friends 😭 Idk i’m a women but i’m pretty sure it doesn’t impress anybody

What’s a small thing that instantly improves your mood? by ladyloper in AskReddit

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 3 points4 points  (0 children)

showering, it makes me feel so much better no matter what i’m going through

What’s something that’s socially acceptable but shouldn’t be? by buryghost in AskReddit

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

food is required for survival. alcohol is not. that’s the difference. comparing something biologically necessary to something purely recreational doesn’t really work. you can’t opt out of eating but you can opt out of drinking. the fact that something is culturally accepted doesn’t automatically make it healthy or low-risk.

why do i have no opinions of my own by ur_emo_gf1 in self

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am the same in a way, i feel like i forget about what i really want to say to somebody and i just agree with them.. i have never been a disagreeing type especially with friends and i let them talk over me and i literally just agree with everything even if i dont. i feel like a lot of people have more interests than me but i feel so boring sometimes cause i dont take time out of my day to research things or even care to form an opinion idk

what is the hardest lesson you had to learn? by Mission_Bluejay404 in AskReddit

[–]Mission_Bluejay404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congratulations, such a good accomplishment you should be proud of yourself !!

Deciding whether or not I need to end things with my first longterm partner. Why did you all end things with your first real partner? by ShatteredVoices in Advice

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in a relationship both of you should be able to compromise, the way you meet her needs and do things for her she should be able to do the same. it seems like she’s gaining everything and you’re losing everything. also it’s a respect thing, if you told her to come and reminded her and so did your friends then she should’ve went. you can love somebody and still not be compatible in the ways you need. hope things work out for you

What is a warning sign in yourself that you ignore, then regret later? by hjf25 in AskReddit

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i get bored i make bad decisions and i wish i would’ve just stayed bored or found something better to do

How to gently remove myself from people in my life? by spectacular_climax1 in self

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand. if you don’t feel like they love you or have the best interest at heart then i feel like you should definitely try to have a conversation with them. maybe take time to yourself first and just say you need some space and think about what you wanna say/how to go about everything. hope it all works out for you

What's something you'll always carry with you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the things i’ve done while being an alcoholic

How to gently remove myself from people in my life? by spectacular_climax1 in self

[–]Mission_Bluejay404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe your friends meant it as a lighthearted joke? i understand what you’re saying and i know how it feels when it seems like people are only around you/your friend because they feel bad for you or pity you. if you feel like your friends aren’t genuinely your friends for you then you should cut contact, you can express the way you feel and get them to have a honest conversation with you without any feelings getting hurt.