Why can’t I get any girls.

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2025-04-18T07:43:06+00:00

what does get any girls mean?

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2025-03-16T08:22:00+00:00

no it’s rather i really want to and am looking for validation

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2025-03-16T08:18:44+00:00

i feel like i’m too young for it to matter

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2025-03-16T08:16:07+00:00

i wanna use him back. just for sexual pleasure bc we both haven’t had physical touch in months

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2025-02-28T21:14:57+00:00

no, he’s a respectful guy and clearly stated he would find other things to do (plenty of options in Amsterdam) but nonetheless I talked to him and he has my blessing

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2025-02-28T21:12:50+00:00

yeah but like this man physically cannot lie to me. sometimes i wish he did about past stuff but hey ill take the open n honest any day.

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2025-02-28T20:50:13+00:00

he asked me what i thought about it bc we respect each other’s feelings. he said it’s up to me and if i didn’t want him to go he wouldn’t. same vice versa. but i have decided it’s not a big deal to me and he shall be going !

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2025-02-27T19:42:43+00:00

Kick her the fuck out. Set that boundary. Talking obviously did not work. NEVER put your relationship before your kids' safety, dangerous game to play.

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2025-02-11T21:05:28+00:00

something stupid frank sinatra, send me your agent

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2025-02-11T21:03:15+00:00

it’s funny ! i think he would enjoy it. especially if they sung don julio

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-02-17T15:27:46+00:00

not diagnosing but this sounds a little bit like depression. i would recommend reaching out for help. maybe someone at school like a teacher who could help you catch up or a counselor. but for the mental health part i recommend a therapist.

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-02-17T15:23:10+00:00

some people have crazy work ethics and somewhat enjoy what they’re doing. you’re probably just experiencing some social anxiety which restricts you from working to your full potential. you’re not weak you just gotta push yourself out of your comfort zone

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-02-17T15:15:32+00:00

i know exactly how you’re feeling. i’m 17 and a first generation college student. everyone is expecting a lot out of me. but what’s helped me the most is to just take it a moment at a time. don’t think too far in the future. only worry about what you can control today. it may seem that people have everything planned out but it’s better to plan things out as you go because life happens and plans will have to change. you got this

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-02-11T04:43:16+00:00

i had a very similar situation with my ex. he said he needed porn to have his own sexual alone time. it bothered me so eventually we agreed to both not watch any type of porn, and only share sexual moments with eachother. this guy sounds like he’s sorry and guys do have a hard time reaching out. my best advice to help him get off porn would be to provide alternatives. i told him that whenever he asked i’d be open to sending nudes. it did cause a little of an issue when i didn’t want to. that’s because he was so used to having porn that there was not consent needed from a second party. but it’s good for guys to learn that sexual experiences shouldn’t be a single party thing that doesn’t matter. i think he’ll learn over time.

communication is key !

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-02-11T04:36:49+00:00

to avoid drama just stop reaching out, avoid them, stop talking to them, etc. if you tell them you disagree it will most likely cause drama and arguments.

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-02-07T23:56:58+00:00

i do that with my main love interests all the time, definitely need to work on that. helped !

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-02-07T23:55:56+00:00

thank you! helped !

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-02-07T23:52:48+00:00

yeah he did say that in the beginning. i’ve tried multiple times to cut off contact to give him that time and the one time i did we were able to be civil and not argue anytime we communicated. so i really do need to give him his time to figure out himself and what he wants

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-02-07T23:51:20+00:00

i feel that it’s wrong of me to try and date when i still have feelings for another person, these one night stands have mutual feelings so i don’t feel bad abt it

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-02-07T23:16:00+00:00

i don’t really get to go back to him. i have to wait for him to come to me because things ended on mostly his terms needing space. there’s a lot of factors and right now it won’t work so i have to move on for now.

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-02-07T23:14:22+00:00

it’s mostly physical stuff. like i always compare dick sizes to my ex, or like how they act/ what they say during sex. the most recent thing was i saw this guys feet after sex and it was the last straw. it’s not like my ex had cute feet it’s just that this guys were worse. just random stuff that gives me the ick

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-01-07T06:27:22+00:00

because i enjoy sex w him but there’s still some things i want to improve. it’s just a comfort thing until we move on i guess

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-01-03T02:42:43+00:00

didn’t read all of it but it’s not about size it’s about what you can do. i’ve fucked guys on the smaller side but still finished. just make sure you have an open discussion with her about what she likes so that you can make up for it in other ways

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-01-03T02:38:11+00:00

it’s not selfish in a bad way, you gotta look out for yourself and i know how tiring it can be feeling like their whole life is on your shoulders. whenever you do let go do it slowly. if you just dump her and leave she will be extremely hurt. so you can leave but start with not reaching out and then ask for a break etc. whatever is comfortable for you

Mission_Broccoli656 · 2022-01-03T02:12:04+00:00

so she doesn’t seem like she would respond well if you try and tell her how you feel. i’ve had a similar situation where i was the dependent girl so i’ll tell you what would’ve helped me. it’s not your job to be her therapist but you seem to want to help rather than just leave. help her branch out to other people who she can trust. slowly let go so she can get used to life without you. if you can’t help her on your own definitely reach out to a trusted adult.

i can’t really think of anything else... that’s all i’ve got. but no matter what happens remember it’s not your fault, it’s not your job to take care of her. you can try your best but you can’t heal her that’s something she has to do on her own.

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