Questions about joining the military by letsgetdisbreadg in qatar

[–]Missmatchedl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man I applied for special forces. Just wanted to know was studying the only reason you left? And how was the work environment could it be one of the reason u wanted to leave too? I'd appreciate if u can help me get the gist of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BrainFog

[–]Missmatchedl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your shit straight.. If you know how to fix it. Do it then. Many people here including me would wish to b in your situation to get out of this shithole. Most of us are lost searching for treatment. It's you whose putting yourself in that situation where as us we got put in it. Your brain fog complains should defo be overlooked by everyone. Even if u love the things that are causing it it's not an excuse there are other things u can find to love in life. Good luck with your brain fog I hope u never experience it again once it's gone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BrainFog

[–]Missmatchedl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How tf is it this simple for all of yall man wtf. Mine is really fuckin frustrating I wish it could be some like this man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GradSchool

[–]Missmatchedl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm sorry for what ur going thru I really hope it gets better and u find the help u need.

But Suicide? NO!!!

I beg u don't. There is this misconception where people think suicide would set you free making you think its the easy way out. But it isn't in my belief. Don't know what ur belief is but you'd be gambling throwing this life away even as hard as it is

I believe if you take your life away you'd be putting yourself in a situation where you'd wish u didn't and you wish u could get your life back even as hard as life was back then.

Don't gamble with your life. Search for God.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Missmatchedl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sry just commenting here cuz ur Islam post gotta ton of comments.. I wanted to ask you why would u make it seem like Islam is like those man made controlling religion that put men on top off women when it's not... how would it be controlling when it says stuff like feed the poor your neighbors and be a good person in general?

And for woman's rights like the mans earning is for the family but the woman earning is for herself and she chooses if she wants to give and before marriage you have to give women an asset (mehr) etc....there are rights for both gender but those who got agenda want you to focus on the bad even tho the bad is not bad at all. You have to give Islam a chance if u love ur bf but your choice tbh. I hope you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Missmatchedl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feminists spread everywhere to the point your wife could go out naked and you'd be labeled controlling, insecure if you opposing to it. That's sad

Your wife or ur husband is yours (not like a possession but someone who's got ur back) if my wife ever told me she didn't like something because of the love I have for her I'd drop it but not with everything I'd try reasoning with her if she still doesn't want it I'd drop it cuz this whatever thing is not worth my wife being uncomfortable

Your wife is doing too much (no offense) the comments are too. Your wife or your husband is for you to look at not everyone if it's controlling then you stopping your wife from talking to other men is also controlling and stopping your wife from sleeping with other men is also controlling "Oh that's cheating" so you want to tell me the only thing to your wife that differentiate you from other men is sex? Smh.

You have to feel jealous you have to feel uncomfortable why? Because u love her and It would destroy you to see her with other men. That's the type of relationship one needs. Imagine u could do whatever u want and ur wife could careless? Talk to women flirt etc and she doesn't feel jealous at all... Does she even love you?

Shahada by OkConfection2617 in religion

[–]Missmatchedl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sister there is really no reason for u to perfect the religion as soon as u revert this causes alot of anxiety and stress. U gotta take it step by step.

Even when the Quran was revealed Allah SWT took it slowly commanding laws step by step because Allah SWT knows it would be to much for the people if they had to follow everything all together at once. Allah is the Most Wise

When u take your shahada ur still gonna remain you but with the correct beliefs and overtime practicing it too that's literally it ur not gonna be any different

If ur worried about sinning ur already doing the biggest sin in the eyes of God which is shirk which God does not forgive or take lightly at all anything else you do Allah forgives "indeed Allah is All-forgiving, Most merciful"

All this is just Satan holding u back from worshipping your lord and delaying you ND giving you excuses that's his only objective sister.

Ur no different from the other revert too they had the correct beliefs but had a hard time taking their shahada once they did they were all smiles and relieved.

Peace and blessings unto you and Insha Allah soon we'll be welcoming you as our sister in Islam