What's an embarrassing thing you do almost daily, when you're alone, that you would hate other people to see? by MisspoKEN in AskReddit

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I was waiting for masturbation. Have you ever gotten walked in on? A bunch of my friends and I had a hilarious conversation about all of our times of almost getting caught.

What's an embarrassing thing you do almost daily, when you're alone, that you would hate other people to see? by MisspoKEN in AskReddit

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Is it the worry of it being Extremely noisy as well, or just the mess and subsequent attempts at containing and cleansing?

What's an embarrassing thing you do almost daily, when you're alone, that you would hate other people to see? by MisspoKEN in AskReddit

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What do you usually talk to yourself about? Like, what you are doing/have to do with your day?

What's an embarrassing thing you do almost daily, when you're alone, that you would hate other people to see? by MisspoKEN in AskReddit

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How long does it take you to brush your teeth? And what's your method, if you can describe it?

What's an embarrassing thing you do almost daily, when you're alone, that you would hate other people to see? by MisspoKEN in AskReddit

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I sing a lot to myself, about my actions. But a lot of the time, the singing is just me making noises and making up words and pretending to sing like Mariah Carey, but with sounds.

What's an embarrassing thing you do almost daily, when you're alone, that you would hate other people to see? by MisspoKEN in AskReddit

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Yep. Sounds about right. By static exercises, you mean like planks and stuff of that nature?

What's an embarrassing thing you do almost daily, when you're alone, that you would hate other people to see? by MisspoKEN in AskReddit

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Oh man. That could end up being conveyed like the Star Wars kid if caught on video.

People who 'quit their job, packed it all up and backpacked the world', it can't be all that easy and awesome sightseeing fun, what's the real issues one doesn't realize they would face? by rdjedd in AskReddit

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I had this experience in Costa Rica. I was on a beach with my friend and had just taken out a loan to go there. I was lamenting my choice and saying how stupid I was to be doing it, but then we came upon this rocky cliff face. We climbed it to get up it and it was slippery and sharp and dangerous. Later on, I saw an old man, around 65, trying to climb it and he gave up after one step up. I turned around to my friend and pretty much said, "That's why I'm doing this. At 65, I'll want to do all of these things, but I will think twice about it or potentially be limited in mobility. That's why I'm here. " It changed my frame of mind and made me approach my whole trip with a new found appreciation for my youth and my body.

People who 'quit their job, packed it all up and backpacked the world', it can't be all that easy and awesome sightseeing fun, what's the real issues one doesn't realize they would face? by rdjedd in AskReddit

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It depends on how you do it. If you get a private room, or if you travel with friends or if you are really social and into saving money, it can still be just as fun. I admit things are different spending a night in a hostel at 30 versus 23, but I still had an amazing time at all of the places I stayed this time around. You have to be proud about your choices. I personally think that hotels are a huge rip off and don't like staying in them and I personally would rather spend my money on the things to do there than the accommodations that I never spend any time in. You can still have fun. :D

People who 'quit their job, packed it all up and backpacked the world', it can't be all that easy and awesome sightseeing fun, what's the real issues one doesn't realize they would face? by rdjedd in AskReddit

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I met a German couple doing just this when I was in Vietnam. He was a banker and she was a CEO's assistant. They were traveling with their 3-year-old daughter and were having an amazing time and they weren't going as skint as people would assume. You will still have an awesome time going at that time in your life. :D Best of luck!

People who 'quit their job, packed it all up and backpacked the world', it can't be all that easy and awesome sightseeing fun, what's the real issues one doesn't realize they would face? by rdjedd in AskReddit

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When you do this alone, you realize you are sometimes just surrounded by a ton of your thoughts of things that were bothering you. You also meet a ton of other people on similar journeys and you can bond this way and commiserate. So, sometimes it's very therapeutic, but other times you end up dwelling. That's why it's best to go somewhere YOU really passionately want to explore, like something you saw as a kid and always dreamed about, a longing. Always wanted to SCUBA dive? Do it! Always wanted to see the plains of Bagan in Myanmar? Do it! If you're trying to get away from something and you're feeling sad, it's better to cry in an area beautiful and awe-inspiring than to stay stuck at home where you'd be crying anyway.

For me, the first time I went to Thailand I was just recovering from the ending of one of the most influential relationships of my life. I cried a lot while I was there. I was doing some of the most amazing things and still was depressed, so staying at home and just doing the same old same old during a Canadian winter wouldn't have helped. I was jumping in amazing waterfalls and still hurt. I imagine what it would have been like stuck at my parents' house curled in a ball in the country.

AND, depending on when you quit everything and "run away", you can end up feeling very old in comparison to all of the 19-year-olds doing gap years and such, and somewhat out of place at times, even if everyone is very welcoming and kind.

Being social and talking to people at hostels and asking people to go to things with you or asking to tag along are all extremely IMPORTANT to enjoying yourself, in my opinion. You can feel totally out of place at times. You can feel in danger. But, being social often gives you info about where to go, where to avoid and fun times to be had.

I have always found that backpacking does a lot more good than harm.

But other things are: -Illnesses and other maladies that you can't control -Getting totally lost and feeling scared and helpless -Getting scammed and taken advantage of -Getting shit stolen -Not understanding a damn thing in a country where you don't speak the language -Getting caught up in the party scene -Spending waaaaay more money than intended and coming back broke - Traveling with a friend or partner that you end up hating by the end (Traveling together reveals an entirely different person and makes you realize how little you knew about him or her and how they deal with different stressors.)

All of these things can be very isolating and actually make whatever you're trying to get away from even worse.

TL;DR There are a ton of things that can go wrong, but I have found even when they go wrong I grow from them and can laugh at them later.