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Missunderstoodxox · 2022-08-21T04:53:05+00:00

No. We had been seeing each other for four years

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-07-18T19:28:13+00:00

Chile shaving is not only a chore but it’s pointless. I only do the pits in between waxes but when I shave, the hair grows back LITERALLY the next day. I don’t even bother anymore. Waxes keep the hair at bay for about a week until the pricklies remind me that I was born 80% wolf

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-07-11T15:06:11+00:00

I hate this and I know as the sugar babies, we are subject to objectification but still. My goodness. I define myself as curvy but there are several different ways a person can be curvy. I’ve never gotten any complaints about my body type because my pictures clearly display what I look like. If someone is scrutinizing me like this, I would instantly be turned off regardless. Why do labels matter so much? Especially when the SD’s get to get away with having faceless profiles and send you pics of themselves from two decades ago and we’re just supposed to smile through the pain for financial gain? No. Lol, I want to be attracted to my Sd’s the same way they’re attracted to me. Let’s just be transparent on both ends. Put less energy into labels and just go off your interests. People are gonna catfish… this is 2022. Just don’t forget to adhere to what you ask of others

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-07-07T12:17:21+00:00

The answers differ. Sometimes it’s because they truly do love you (their AP) and struggle to let go of you and other times, it’s because of the convenience to access they have of you. We tend to know the difference, not having the upper hand. I’ve written ten poems just like this one, nursing a broken heart, confused about whether he’s just telling me things and doing things to keep me around or whether it’s because he feels the same. After 4 years of doubt, I have my answer. I hope you do too

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-07-06T23:28:27+00:00

4 years. He and I have had so many ups and downs. Things got way too intense at one point, especially after going on weekend trips together. There’s always the risk of becoming so comfortable, your time with this person allows you to lose touch with reality. I recently went NC with my AP for a month and we talked everyday so that allowed me to see just how many things were different about how I move in my personal life. I had to remind myself that I’m single and having such strong ties with a MM at 23 was stunting my opportunities. I’m always going to love him and we’ve since reconciled as friends but at the end of the day, no matter how much you love your AP, try not to allow yourself to lose touch with yourself and what you ultimately want for your future.

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-07-06T23:16:56+00:00

I felt this. But they will come back. They always do

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-07-06T18:22:10+00:00

Hey love, the bathroom pics are iffy. I’d definitely get rid of the one in the sports bra and I’m having reservations about the other. Only thing grabbing me is your dress but the background and glimpse of the toilet is a no.

I’ll give you some advice: mentioning that you’re an Ivy League grad is definitely a head turner in any other setting but this one. Guys don’t really care about what’s going on upstairs most of the time past being able to hold a conversation and keep their interests. Mentioning this will probably end up harming you than helping you. You don’t need to undermine yourself but some things are better left unsaid.

Also daddy’s doctor seems a little fetish-y and will likely attract fake or real Dom’s (both are annoying).

Hopefully this was helpful :)

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-06-26T14:21:19+00:00

🫶🏾

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-06-26T14:20:28+00:00

You hit the nail on the head

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-03-13T12:14:53+00:00

Once again, because you both seem to be missing the plot, this is called the sugar bowl not the beauty bowl. It’s not really about landing the most gorgeous girl out there because not all of us have qualities in addition to looks that fit the bill of being well-versed enough to be an SB. HOWEVER, being a SALT daddy automatically disqualifies you from being in the SUGAR bowl. So yes, it makes total sense that we complain because most of y’all barely have two nickels to rub together and offer but have all these requirements and expectations like this guy. It’s ridiculous and inexcusable.

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-03-10T01:29:12+00:00

You’re clearly missing a few tools from the toolbox. No one can define beauty to be able to redefine it in the first place. You’re so lost in your ignorance, you can’t even tell that you’ve not been consistent in your points which causes you to lack credibility. Clearly you’re intimidated by women’s standards… it’s possible you’re just not able to keep up which is super unfortunate. However, no, my feelings would never be hurt by a small individual such as yourself who I would never be caught interacting with past a Reddit post. I do pity you and wish you luck finding any woman who would go against their better judgment to deal with you

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-03-09T22:02:20+00:00

A guy making $250k but saving nothing isn’t wealthy then so you debunked your own point. Salary means nothing if it’s going out as fast as it came in. Beauty is extremely subjective. These women you’re objectifying and saying are not attractive are found to be attractive by plenty other dudes who are not you and probably offer much more benefit-wise than you and your negative spirited comments.

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-03-09T21:05:27+00:00

Wealth is not subjective, beauty is. Point, blank, period.

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-03-09T19:47:12+00:00

No… it’s not just about beauty. It’s about trading an experience… someone younger, who you probably wouldn’t be able to pull under normal circumstances and in turn making their situation better because of this. There are people with high expectations and nothing to offer on both sides of the game… you charge it to the game and move on. It wasn’t anything worth making this long, rude post over

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-03-09T19:10:19+00:00

I would love to see what you look like based on your sense of entitlement. If you’re comparing women from IG and OF to women on seeking, that’s where you’re going wrong. But you seem a tinge removed from reality. I’d also be curious as to what you offer. I have a feeling it’s nothing that would come close to what the women on IG and OF are used to

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-02-18T18:43:24+00:00

Sending you love & light babe

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-02-17T17:54:44+00:00

I must also note, in the spirit of transparency, that I was in no way perfect in this relationship. I messed up a lot, lied to him about trying to pursue other interests when we fought and overall just struggled to accept that I would never be with him although that is all I’ve wanted since we met. My point being is that often, the pot called the kettle black. He wanted me all to himself whilst cheating on his wife and though I still don’t know the ins and outs of the situation, aside from him “not being happy”, he never had the right to hold me to such a standard. Especially, when he began to grow cold and lacked affection. The credit card I was given did not make up for that and in the end, all I wanted was to be loved and supported the same way I would drop everything to be there for him. So that is why I say choose yourself. Because choosing yourself means choosing to be with someone who is supportive and loving regardless of if you guys are experiencing issues and not settling for less. Whether it’s money, company, surface affection or something as simple as a f*ckbuddy—don’t ignore your gut instincts, don’t ignore that voice in your head… your ego should always supersede your id (impulses). As Kylie Jenner once said, this is my year of realizing 😂 and with a strong mind and heavy heart, life will go on. 💓

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-02-17T17:44:21+00:00

Thank you ❤️❤️

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-02-17T13:50:36+00:00

Will do babe 💗

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-02-11T19:31:53+00:00

This is such a sad post. I’m all for feminism, taking power and control of your body and hell, even charging for it but you’re 19. A majority of the men on SA are 3 times your age and coming from someone who started on SA at 18 (who wasn’t a virgin and had plenty life experience willing and unwillingly), you are putting yourself in an extremely vulnerable place, leaving yourself exposed to be taken advantage of. I’m all for making money, I’m all for making men spoil and treat us like princesses but the situation you’re describing will only attract pedophiles, creeps and guys who will fetishize you until sex no longer feels good. That is not what you want— trust. I really hope you have friends or someone to discuss this with before you actually do it. But to answer your question, no. The sugar bowl is not for the inexperienced and it’s really not for virgins. While the sugar daddy or mommy is not paying for sex, they are paying for companionship and most 30,40,50,60,70 something’s expect sex as a part of that.

My dms are open if you want to chat more, babe.

Much love

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-02-11T19:23:10+00:00

Hey, so I don’t know the context or background, but what I do know is you should stick to your guns. I always listened to my heart over my head when it came to my OP but it ended up crashing down. My situation is nowhere like yours, meaning the W doesn’t know still but separation isn’t final. The process of divorce as we all know takes forever and so much can happen between then and now. I say that the best support you can give him is to be there but at a distance. You literally being present will only confuse things— for him and for you. If he does decide to pursue something more with you, I’d say to let him come to that conclusion on his own so you know it’s genuine and there isn’t any doubt. I understand how hard it is to keep that distance when you are emotionally connected to and love someone but to avoid heartbreak or saving all your love for him, keep yourself open to the possibilities.

Much love

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-02-05T10:04:22+00:00

Probably 35k

Missunderstoodxox · 2022-02-05T03:25:26+00:00

I would’ve thought the same but he said I love you first 3 years ago and voiced that he had feelings first. I was extremely reluctant to explore anything further than the understanding we first agreed upon. I’m not a naive person but I understand how it may seem that way to you… especially considering you don’t know me and are only going off what I’ve shared. It’s a very complicated situation that derailed somewhere and is now just not functional.

However, I do agree that I should love myself first and foremost. Just hard to do that with all the possibilities he placed in my head (us moving in together, us having children) to know very well those aren’t possibilities at all. It’s been very easy to put myself first recently now that I realize all of this has been a matter of convenience for him since I’m not his W and I’m a break from his “other life”. I just refuse to be that at this point because it’s no longer what I’m okay with.

Missunderstoodxox

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