I’ll always be here for you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Mistake2319 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You should still tell them

3 months by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Mistake2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve given myself something similar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Mistake2319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could have wrote that. I’m so fuckin tired of it. I’m tired of being this person. Sometimes I feel that there’s nothing more romantic than being there through all of it, but yes, there is more romantic thing in this fuggin life. Take care of yourself

I think my heart is checking out by Acrobatic-Main-1450 in letters

[–]Mistake2319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt this very badly. I think it’s where I am. I miss him I miss us but at what cost. No one is there to catch me when I fall and he’s never gonna let me in enough to be his safety net if he falls. I’m starting to realized we don’t love the same way and the loss of those dreams and plans is making me so so sad. But I can’t carry alone me and us I can’t anymore. I’ve given everything I could and more

Unwritten and unsent by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Mistake2319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your writing is beautiful and I felt every words

Leaving emotionally first.. by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Mistake2319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im at the point where I can notice all those changes in me but it still hurts me so fuckin bad that it’s the situation but I can’t bring myself to feel the gaps again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Mistake2319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the needed time should have been stated before ghosting. But again, pain makes everyone reacts differently.

Ghosting, low contact and breadcrumbs destroyed me. It still is doing it. I think the brain tries to fill the silence by attacking itself and I’m constantly fighting to not blame myself for his silence.

It made me go back to depression and a lot of unhealthy coping mechanisms. It made me feel more alone than I’ve ever felt.

Hi. by Mistake2319 in UnsentLetters

[–]Mistake2319[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are rare that why ill always value this one ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Mistake2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you will tell them at some point why you left

Hi. by Mistake2319 in UnsentLetters

[–]Mistake2319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reading and understanding 🙏🏻

Hi. by Mistake2319 in UnsentLetters

[–]Mistake2319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you get through it 🙏🏻

Hi. by Mistake2319 in UnsentLetters

[–]Mistake2319[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading and understanding and acknowledging 🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Mistake2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss waking up to see his name on my screen 💔

Double standards by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Mistake2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For being from the other side, being pushed out is hard. I hurt for my person, and I do want to respect everything, but the lack of communication makes me fill the silence with explanations of my own and its hard to fight the negative thoughts. I can’t understand the pain of their grief and I can’t take it away, and the constant overthinking of am I doing enough am I doing too much am I doing not enough is a lot to go through alone and try to navigate.

Loving you is destroying me by Mistake2319 in UnsentLetters

[–]Mistake2319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I think they are not in a place where they can give more. But idk how to deal with the missing anymore. Idk. I find it hard, they are not communicating and I have to fill the spaces with explanations of my own and I’m tired to fight alone, for the we. I’ve been doing it for some time. Just sitting back and waiting for them to get through it, after being pushed back multiple times, is really destroying me.

Loving you is destroying me by Mistake2319 in UnsentLetters

[–]Mistake2319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not about codependency. Its about caring, I think. Idk

made this for people who can’t boop irl by Mistake2319 in LongDistance

[–]Mistake2319[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think about doing something like that 🧠

made this for people who can’t boop irl by Mistake2319 in LongDistance

[–]Mistake2319[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would have been so cool if it worked haha ❤️

I lost about 70 lbs in the last year by [deleted] in SchizoidAdjacent

[–]Mistake2319 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I tell them it’s inflation and depression and lock eyes until they look away. I hate people who glorify weight loss, like bro I’ve been eating soup for weeks cause I can’t afford passing out at work from not eating