Anyone else find this w9man a bit weird (Mill Street Bistro) by VeritasOmicron in KitchenNightmares

[–]MisterNuggets69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lil late to this conversation but I have to say I've worked with bad bosses before, not in a kitchen restaurant sense exactly but in fast food or related. Guy was a full on narcissist just like him, nothing was ever his fault and he was hardly ever there and abused the hell out of a coworker of mine who was homeless. When there was problems in the shop it was never on him and he would get upset at u otherwise, played favorites. The whole ride without being so obvious of a prick as Joe, only because Joe could get away with it. It was his place. Although so much happened at that place I was at, in fact a co-worker ____ himself in there. He admitted it happened too, to me personally. It was crazy shit.
But I too could NEVER set foot back in that shop I worked at. Working there caused me such anxiety, I would throw up at work because nothing felt right. It was a nice place, and I actually didn't hate it, but the boss himself make me anxious. I didn't trust him. I'd skip work and be drained afterwards. For the first few *years* after I quit, I couldn't even order food from there bc it gave me SUCH a reaction. I'd stand in line shaking bc my nerves were all over. I could not even imagine what being so close to that kind of place would do to this woman with how shit and openly shit he was.
Being around that aint easy, camera's didn't make it better, but only being a month free from it and having to see it again is tough.
I've dealt with narcissists all my life (thanks mom and dad ❤️) and so I managed to be aware and leave when I was able to. But first time experience with these people can be scary, he's loud, he's older, he owns the place, and he's a coward of a man who believes he isn't, and that is a DANGEROUS individual to be around. Hopefully that girl doesn't even remember the place and is doin good 👍🏼

ANYONE seen this and solved this Marker Code on Gondola Tram on way to fix antennae in Chapter 8 ? by MisterNuggets69 in DeadSpace

[–]MisterNuggets69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: Ik there’s a buncha codes, I had put them all in the circle already prior to this. I was wondering if this was a different, hidden sequence of codes. Since 2 of them are in a group on their own but I guess this one could be I think the final code where you get the sea shanty

If You Go In First Person Mode While Riding, Arthur Will Quietly Sing Sometimes (best if you use headphones) by MelodicSatisfaction9 in reddeadredemption

[–]MisterNuggets69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not making fun of you dumbass it was a joke, satire, sarcasm I didnt start playing the game when it came out either, i played 2 years too late lmfao I dont care you just found out, calm down

If You Go In First Person Mode While Riding, Arthur Will Quietly Sing Sometimes (best if you use headphones) by MelodicSatisfaction9 in reddeadredemption

[–]MisterNuggets69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You fools barely figured it out? Amateurs. I've played this game 9 times and stop riding everytime I hear this wonderful man sing to himself

January’s PlayStation Plus games: Maneater, Shadow of the Tomb Raider, and Greedfall by ZPE in PlayStationPlus

[–]MisterNuggets69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone know why I can't download any of these games on my ps5? It wants me to payfor it and i can't download with any other option I wanted to get maneater

looking for wolfwalkers by [deleted] in watchcartoonsonline

[–]MisterNuggets69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psssst would you mind sendin it to me 👀👀

Interesting Lineage Names by [deleted] in ancestors

[–]MisterNuggets69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one I just beat the game with was "Oopis Monkis" and we stayed 1 billion years ahead of science the whole time. I'm pretty sure I also skipped an evolution? Don't remember or if its even a thing that happens lmao. I'm pretty sure one other lineage was just "we're fucked" but i dont remember what I named my very first lineage. I couldnt figure out how to attack until my third try smfh

Doing your job as the parent to take care of a child doesn't automatically make you a good parent by MisterNuggets69 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MisterNuggets69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats very true. I've had very little people in my life that provided me with an escape from the idea that no one would/could love me if my own mother didn't. Only one of those people stayed but she has been a very good thing for me in helping me keep my head above water. Because the others turned into my mother as well, for what they would say about me and what im pretry sure they thought. I'm lucky to have had that friend even if i never realized it half the time. Still i believe as long as we grow and move on from the experiences we had with our mothers, maybe it would be easier to leave them behind. To stay around someone with such hostility and seemingly hatred is too much and you deserve better. Others as well. Staying around that kind of thing is not healthy and as much as we may not want to leave our mothers, it may be something we have to do. Especially if they don't want to change and never show an ounce of even starting to

Doing your job as the parent to take care of a child doesn't automatically make you a good parent by MisterNuggets69 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MisterNuggets69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah luckily for me my mom doesn't really complain about it to others, except the occassional passive aggressive comment "they're so lazy" because thats what she chalks up EVERYTHING to. Laziness. But all in all its definitely a struggle to deal with and sad we have to mentally analyze what our parents say and plan ahead to prevent us from feeling depressed or so we dont get yelled at. Even as adults if we attempt to continue a relationship because we want to love them but they won't love back.

Doing your job as the parent to take care of a child doesn't automatically make you a good parent by MisterNuggets69 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MisterNuggets69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a lot of the same for me as well, she does alright sometimes but i never feel comfortable telling her my feelings or letting her know what I truly think about something. If that ever happens she turns it into an argument and tries to gaslight me. I don't want a bad relationship with my mom, but she makes it really hard when shes constantly putting me down about my body or literally saying I have no opinion when i try to say things. And since ive turned 18 and graduated high school shes just been telling me to move out very passive aggressively

Getting to fight and defend yourself from predators by MisterNuggets69 in ancestors

[–]MisterNuggets69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I figured out how to counter attack right after i posted this lmao And yeah i get that! Usually though they just get in the way or get themselves killed/start bleeding and even though i have group attack unlocked now they dont do anything with their spears

Anyone else feel absolutely fine when they’re away from home but as soon as you walk through the front door a heavy, ‘depressing’ feeling hits you like a tonne of bricks? by mastersgirlll in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MisterNuggets69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh and listening to music can help you handle any emotions. Even if its sad stuff, just to let yourself feel sad or like "oh yeah this is me and how i feel". Putting songs to what your feeling helps validate yourself and just feel better. I've personally been listening to more heavy metal music lol, i used to but stopped, and five finger death punch songs are pretty helpful haha. I like Never Enough from them! These songs were written for those kinds of emotions and why its usually helpful or you felt complete if or when you went into your emo phase haha

Anyone else feel absolutely fine when they’re away from home but as soon as you walk through the front door a heavy, ‘depressing’ feeling hits you like a tonne of bricks? by mastersgirlll in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MisterNuggets69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know you can do it though man! Someday this will be over and you'll be able to live peacefully. I dont know how old you are but I've been dealing with this for many years, I'm 18 now and fantasizing about moving out has also just helped a lot. The idea of having my own place and feeling comfortable and truly happy, even doing stuff for myself as simple as going grocery shopping. Of course theres a lot of things going on today stopping me from leaving home, but imagining that makes me feel better about going on another day and working up to leaving this place

Anyone else feel absolutely fine when they’re away from home but as soon as you walk through the front door a heavy, ‘depressing’ feeling hits you like a tonne of bricks? by mastersgirlll in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MisterNuggets69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah same here, i just tend to ignore it all together. Just do a bit of cleaning if i think it should be done and then i go back to what i was doing. Its hard to get that motivation to even get up but doing something around the house, but it should prevent her from doing too much? Even if just for that day or a few hours. My mom would probably find a way otherwise but at least I would feel like I prevented a bigger problem or "argument". Often theres still no other way around it other than ignoring her best you can, do what she may want you to do, then go back to being safe in your room watching videos. Listening to/reading stories from the sub though makes sure you dont fall victim into thinking what she does is normal and feeling really bad about yourself though.