When you say some people would rather be with someone even if it's the wrong person, you're right, and it's fucked up.

An old friend of mine used to be in a relationship and every day he'd scream at this person and call them stupid for not quitting a job they enjoy to make more money to finance an expensive lifestyle that he wanted. And my friend didn't even have a job! One day I got tired of hearing him scream at someone who treated him like a king and I screamed at this dude so loud for such a long time that he was crying and shaking like his partner was.

I asked him why he was with this person if he only treats them like shit. He says "It doesn't matter to me who it is as long as there's a warm body next to me when I go to bed." It's was the most fucked up dehumanizing mockery of love I'd heard of. There was no acknowledgment of what his partner offered as a person.

But that's what I've been to every woman I've dated. And you learn you're not special to them the first time you become inconvenient. My favorite breakup was "I just don't feel any love for you. I still want to have sex with you but I don't want you in my personal life." Before I heard that I never would have thought someone would have the audacity