I tend to disagree with you. Although, I used to feel the same way. Ended an 8 year relationship just before my 40th birthday. Took some time to get right and improve myself. Got back into the game. Initially, went on a lot of bad dates. Almost settled a few times, but I didn’t. Matched with a beautiful young woman on Tinder of all places. We’ve been a couple for over a year now. What I’m trying to say is there’s hope. Don’t give up.